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26. Aries rising, Scorpio sun, Aries moon

[avemotherlilith]

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[avemotherlilith]

Real Alchemy 101: Why they couldn't kill John Tucker

Everyone has seen the movie John Tucker and the reason why I love it so much is bc it perfectly encapsulates how real alchemy works. This dude had a group of women after him and it's valid bc he was actually a cheater. However, he was able to come back from every attack. Sure he would take his L's but it would never last. He always got back up and didn't care. Let's go through some examples.

They tried to use herpes against him. He didn't care. He became a vocal and outspoken activist for all people with herpes and/or STDs. He was like Princess Diana in that bitch. He opened up a dialogue and destigmatized something that should be spoken about more, so people can get tested for it (many nurses do not even check for it unless you specifically ask for it), so people can learn to not share lip products or utensils during outbreaks, and to always get tested and request tests before engaging in a new relationship or casual liaisons.

They put all sorts of chemicals in this dudes smoothies so his boobs would hurt, he would cry all the time, he couldn't even play the game properly. They fucked with this man's hormones. Then all these women called him weak, a pussy, and a bitch. So you know what he did? He started dating mental health professionals who encouraged masculine energies to feel comfortable and safe expressing their big emotions. Men are always whining about needing mental health awareness so that's what John did. He taught men that it is okay to feel things and express your emotions bc the right women will never shame you for that.

Then they even plotted on this man. They made him believe that this girl wanted him so he would expose himself to her in a thong. He was walking around with his ass out, exposed, looking completely whipped. He didn't let this stop him though. He embraced men being able to embody feminine styles of dressing while still being masculine just like the beloved Prince. That's the type of alchemy that even gives businesswomen new ideas.

My point being if you are someone who is optimistic and resourceful then you can see the brightside in any situation that life throws your way. Life, God, The Universe is never against you or anyone. Everything that happens for you is to teach you how to play smarter. So many things in life can be solved if you just start being real and also when you learn to detach. The girls in the movie were so determined to ruin this man's life when they could have been focused on themselves, and he could have just been honest with everyone from the start about not being monogamous and not dealt with any of this. That's why Scott is my fav bc he just minded his business and got the sweet girl.

[avemotherlilith]

Throat Chakra: Why a Blocked Throat Chakra is Detrimental to your Well-Being

The throat chakra is the fifth energy center and is located in your throat. What people fail to understand is that when it is blocked then you can't advocate for yourself, you can't speak up for yourself and get people to really hear you, you can't be honest out of fear of being judged or having things used against you, and the harmony and beauty in your voice starts to fade over time. When you are in this state of being people can easily speak for you. They can tell people who you are instead of allowing you to speak for yourself.

What can you do about this? If people in your life have made you scared to talk then you can just write. Start a blog and just write out your thoughts like you are venting to a friend. Then find a nonthreatening individual to yap and tell your secrets to and if they expose you? oh well at least you learned to talk and not gaf what people think. Pray in your room and talk to your deities, angels, demons, and dead friends all day. The best thing you can do is sing and rap along to songs. Never care if people make fun of you or call you corny. Just sing bc that unblocks your throat chakra the best.

Sometimes if people really do not want you to talk they might get your pages reported, put curses on you directed at your throat chakra, and try to make you feel embarrassed about your voice, writing, and singing. Don't listen to them. Obviously protect yourself spiritually always. Drink throat coat tea bc it has slippery elm bark which soothes and moisturizes your throat. Stop using apps or ai to correct your writing. Fuck what people think. Your message still has meaning and purpose even if it's not written perfectly. Keep singing and keep laughing. No matter how loud or "obnoxious" it is. Lastly, always say how the fuck you feel and stand on that shit. Tell that bitch who kept your throat blocked that you wouldn't touch them with a 10-foot pole. That's how you really gain your wings and fly 🧚🏼‍♀️

[avemotherlilith]

Mind Magick: Why Confusion is the Worst Curse

Clarity is true power. In a world that constantly tells you who you are and who you should be clarity is needed to have autonomy. Psychologists simply call it gaslighting and/or psychological abuse, but the spiritual side to it is much scarier. If you feel like people are doing this to you don't bother trying to retaliate with the same methods. The only real way to deal with this is disengaging completely and doing everything to gain crystal clear clarity.

Why do people use mind magick/confusion magick? The main reason I have found is bc they are harboring deep secrets that they know you would judge them for and they are scared you will find out and leave/tell other people. If you have clair abilities then people like this will do any and everything to discredit you, demonize you, and shame you bc they know it's only a matter of time before you are able to see them without their mask and they want to preemptively warn people that you are "fake" or "evil". The other reason is bc your pattern recognition skills and psychic abilities intimidates them. They want to downplay you so they can make themselves look better. By doing confusion magick on you over a long period of time they can accomplish these things bc gaslighting/lying/isolation can make a person dependent, weak, and unable to trust their own intuition. They have to rely on the intuition of the people around them, but unfortunately those people are relying on control tactics.

What are the different forms of confusion magick? Well I've already mentioned gaslighting and lying. The abuser creates a fake reality for their target to live in. If the target feels as though they are being watched or the target of harassment the abuser assures them over and over that nobody knows them bc they are nobody. The target is still living with this sense of dread and anxiety bc they know what they feel, but they are being told by everyone around them that nobody knows them or is talking about them. What does this do? Over time the target disconnects completely from their intuition. They feel like they can't trust themselves while also feeling like they can't trust the people around them. Then the target actually loses touch with reality and now the abuser has plausible deniability bc the target "has a history of psychosis". When even the mental health professionals in your area call you crazy then who do you turn to?

Turn to yourself. Do whatever you need to do to get back to who you are. Block everyone you know. Tell chatgbt about the situation and ask for an objective analysis. Hire psychics to help you understand your true reality. Journal for hours non-stop. I really don't care. Whatever helps you open your eyes and see things for how they truly are is a win and doesn't need to be a forever thing. Journal on clarity and truth prompts. What do you remember about events that happened? Write things over and over until you believe yourself and not what other people are trying to convince you of. Write out pages of who you are. Your childhood, your dreams, your passion, your personality. Not what others have convinced you that you are. Write out what your morals are. Not what other people have convinced you is right vs wrong. Do this over and over until you remember who you are.

People also use real witchcraft to do this. They target your crown and third eye chakras and you will know bc you will get unexplainable headaches all the time. They might have dolls of you that they stick pins into (the head). They will use different plants in spells (usually poppy) to keep you in a sleepy, tired, confused state. Like I said don't bother trying to do this back to them bc confusion magick in a situation that's already confusing will just cause you more distress and they can claim that you started it when you didn't. The better option is to disengage. Ignore their existence and never try to prove your reality or beg people to understand bc they won't. Their goal is to watch you be unstable and not know what's going on. Don't check their pages to see what they are saying about you bc they are always going to bait reactions out of you. If someone is gaslighting you then play dumb while rebuilding your clarity behind the scenes. The best way to do this is by working with archangels or demons. Archangel Gabriel helps you gain clarity and insight and archangel Zadkiel helps release confusion on any situation. Dantalian is amazing at giving a practitioner absolute control over one's own mind. However, no spirit can help abusers reverse their karma. Lessons are meant to be learned and integrated, and that applies to everyone no matter what you practice or what deities you pray to.

[avemotherlilith]

How to get over your fear of being Seen

Do you have social anxiety? Do you feel like you are being judged/mocked/recorded everywhere you go? Well bitch get over it bc that's life. What you need to do is transmute all the negative attention into positive attention. However, before you can do that you need to allow yourself to be fully exposed and judged and then you won't give a fuck. Here are some things you can do:

Do karaoke at your local Mcdonalds

Practice dancing and walking your cunty walk outside your local botanica

Cry and act dramatic in public

Scream at the top of your lungs in various places in your community

Get into a public verbal altercation and run from the police

Sing and rap to songs on your walks

Talk to random strangers like they are your best friend

Interview and work at random places to be silly and get them free promo

Start a blog for fun and say whatever you want

Congratulations your anxiety is gone🧍🏻‍♀️

[avemotherlilith]

Magick You can do if your partner is Obsessed with another Woman

Is your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife obsessively talking about another woman? Do they claim to hate her and call her ugly, weird, and gross but still waits till you fall asleep so they can jerk off to her images and do the O-method to manifest her? Do they try to stalk her through hacking and you have become made aware of their constant monitoring? Did you find out through your bank statements that they were spending your last on buying love spells, obsession spells, and curses to put on her? Well it's not all hopeless. You can absolutely get your husband or wife back and focused solely on you.

The first thing you need to do is detach completely from this woman. The more you talk about someone (even negatively) the more the other person recognizes the importance of the said individual. When they bring her name up it's important to disengage and change the topic back to you. Do this every time they try to talk about her bc it is negative reinforcement. They are hoping that you feed into their obsession -> you do not feed into it (negative) -> you reinforce a boundary that the woman will not be discussed (reinforcement). This also prevents them from viewing you as jealous/insecure bc you don't feel the need to say "why are you always talking about her." You simply just don't care to participate.

Stop focusing on them. If you keep checking their devices and questioning them they will fall deeper into their obsession bc then the woman starts to feel like an escape to them from the reality you are providing. Do shadow work journaling on detachment so you don't even care what they are doing. Focus on yourself only and they will start to feel how much you don't care and it will attract them back to you. Don't do this as a game bc that won't work. You really need to detach in a mentally healthy way. Not avoidance. True detachment.

Some of the best attraction oils I have used are Aphrodite oil, Cleopatra oil, amor oil, leche de mujer amada oil. They also have bath washes for these. Use these regularly not even to attract your partner back, but just so you can be in the frequency of pure, divine, love. Light rose incense everyday while you do shadow work. Call on whatever deities you work with or archangels (especially archangel Haniel) to help you find true self-love and authentic confidence.

[avemotherlilith]

Miss M's Mythical Archetypes

I was doing sex appeal readings in which I assigned each person to one or two mythical archetypes. These archetypes were based on mythological figures bc I felt like that was a fun way for women to look at their own innate sex appeal and intrinsic beauty. I plan to do readings again, but I will be doing voice messages bc the energy in my voice can never be replicated and my voice/words are a spell (which is why I have a beauty mark right above my lips) that can manifest self-love and authentic confidence into your life and that was always the goal for these readings. Many people wanted me to explain each archetype based on the way I specifically view them, but I wanted to take time and really figure out a way to explain each unique energy.

Goddess 💋 Every woman is a Goddess and needs to believe that so people will know how to treat her. With these women everybody knows how she deserves to be treated bc she walks with power and grace. She is the type of woman who starts trends without meaning to. She has people hating on her even though she has never met them or spoken to them. Even her potential alone is threatening to people with real fame, power, and wealth. She can try different aesthetics and go through different moods and it never feels forced or inauthentic bc she is always just being herself. These are simply different facets of her personality and energy. These women have to go through so much and carry so much bc people want to see them break and choose the wrong paths in life. They can either overcome it or lose their souls.

Fairy 🧚 These women are like forest nymphs. They are fun, exciting, and unpredictable. You never know what you're gonna get with them and you don't know how long they are gonna stay before they fly away. These women think a lot, are very smart, and they love to yap. These are the women who people are always wondering about bc they are unpredictable. No one knows their next moves and sometimes they don't even know their next moves which keeps everyone on their toes. The shadow side of this archetype is they can have green eyes of envy. If they stop viewing other women as sisters and start viewing them as competition then they fall victim to overthinking and obsession. Then those wings that they were born with get clipped and they are just stuck with malice.

Mermaid 🧜‍♀️ These women are pure souls. They do everything from their heart. Their emotions are a tsunami that can drown any man or woman. These are the sweethearts that want the best for people even those who hurt them the most. People love the dichotomy between their purity and their sexiness. They love how they can look innocent while still exuding sex. That's why if you ask different people about them you will receive different answers bc people always project their own desires onto them. The shadow side of this archetype is that these women always get underestimated especially their intelligence and experience. Due to the fact that these women have such a pure, timeless, untainted energy they tend to attract predators who want to siphon that energy the same way they try to do with children.

Succubus 😈 These women are the ones with fire. They don't give a fuck how they are perceived bc they know everything about them gives sex. Even their worst moments are transmuted into sex appeal. People give them their energy willingly and they know how to yield all of that for themselves. Their sacred rage and sexuality is what becomes known about them. Anybody who they have sex with becomes changed afterwards. Their partners either transform for the better or the worse. The shadow side of this placement is if you are not aware of the sexual power you hold then you can spend years letting people siphon your sexual energy. I used to do a siren archetype but I would say that just means you have both the mermaid and the succubus archetypes.

Vampire 🧛‍♀️ There are two types of vampire archetypes: the high vibrational ones and the low vibrational energy drainers. For the people born as this archetype in the high vibe state it simply means your energy is cold. People become greedy when it comes to you. They want to talk to you more, see you more, see you smile for them. They try to impress you just to get some form of validation from you. You know the less you give to people the more they will give to you. When it comes to the low vibrational ones this usually means that you used to be one of the other archetypes but over time you lost your soul, let envy get the best of you, or allowed everyone to drain you until you became a vampire. Now you're out for blood. You look for targets to get energy from through sex or arguments bc you always need a fix. It's not all hopeless though. Learn to balance your chakras from the root to the crown, move your body through dance, and do shadow work along with therapy for a couple years and you won't need other people's energy to survive.

[avemotherlilith]

How to protect your Sexual Energy as an Empath

If you are an empath then you are like a psychic sponge. You absorb the energies of everyone around you and also people in your energy field. This is especially true if you were a mermaid from Atlantis in your past life like me. That means you have the supreme healing/sexual energy and feel everything in your body, so you really have to set up harsh energetic boundaries with everyone. Many weird and creepy men and women will try to use the O-method and sex magick to influence your thoughts and make you hypersexual if you are not careful. Your sexual partners, exes, stalkers will try to use energetic cords to siphon your solar/sacral/root energy leaving you depleted and unstable while they use that energy to attract people and opportunities to them. Call your energy back and banish them.

Celibacy is the answer and will be a fucking blessing to you. I have been celibate for a year and you wanna know what it taught me? Discernment and boundaries. I had so many parasitic energies trying to feed off my sexual energy, so it was not easy to stay celibate but I did it. When you feel "hypersexual" what you need to remember is that energy does not belong to you. When these weird, creepy, predatory men and women who have low-level entity attachments on them continue to use sex magick against you then you will start to believe their depravity and deviances belong to you, but they do not. They belong to those low-vibrational individuals. Celibacy and regular use of spiritual baths and colognes will teach you what energy belongs to you and what belongs to those predatory people. You can use the spiritual cologne of whatever deity you work with, but I pat Santa Muerte's spiritual cologne on the front and back of my neck and chest whenever I feel these psychos in my energy field.

If you are a 4D/5D being and keep attracting 3D, low-vibrational, vampiric individuals who want to give you deadly diseases out of envy then celibacy is 100% required until you can leave that environment. When you are divinely protected the archangels (and demons) will never let anything truly bad happen to you. You have to have faith in that. Call on the big 4 of archangels and demons and pray to them. Ask them to keep your vibration so high and protected that predatory men and women go out of their way to avoid you. Let your light and fire burn them. Ask them to only send 5D, loving, sweet, pure people to you. Ask them to shield your aura completely and create ironclad boundaries around your mind, heart, sacral/root, and empathy. Don’t let them turn your golden aura into murky, black sludge.

[avemotherlilith]

I really enjoyed your defensive magick 101!! Do you have any tips on hexing ppl or places that are long distance? I see a lot of them ask for personal things from them but what can I do if I can’t physically reach them? Thank you in advance for answering if u do🖤

Listen to me very carefully sweetheart bc I don’t like stupid or ignorant people. If you decide to put a curse or even hex on someone or even go to a witch to do so then it needs to be about justice. If you’re just mad bc the dude you’re dating is obsessed with another woman and you go put a curse on her then your life will fall apart. If you and your ex are beefing then you need to be damn sure that you’re in the right and they are in the wrong bc Ma’at measures everything and reacts accordingly. No I do not have tips for silly little hexes or curses. Let Saturn RX decide who deserves blessings and who deserves lessons.

[avemotherlilith]

Defensive Magick 101: How to protect yourself from Creeps and Weirdos

If you are a very beautiful, magnetic, sweet, empathetic, divinely protected woman with many spiritual gifts then you have probably been the target of smear campaigns, stalking, and spiritual warfare. Every person you have dated or loved probably stalked you and did spellwork on you to attract you to them and "make" you stay much longer than the universe intended. Then they probably sent curses your way if you did leave to kill your chances of a future without them. Your family probably got readings on you and sent curses your way since you were a kid bc they saw your potential before you even did and they never wanted you to reach your fullest potential. Envious, copy-cat women and creepy, perverted men probably saw your light and wanted the whole world to only see your darkness so they projected all their deviances, insecurities, and hate onto you. They probably had to hire a whole coven of "witches" to send curses, hexes, death spells your way to destroy you, so they could try to destiny swap with you, but what they always fail to realize is you can't hurt the universe's baby without dealing with severe cosmic consequences.

Anyways, if that is something you can relate to then it's imperative that you get into Defensive Magick. This is not a curse. This is simply you protecting yourself from creeps, weirdos, and predators. If you have dealt with this level of hate and harassment from people then it means two things: 1. You are incredibly polarizing and 2. You are highly favored by God and The Universe. This means you most likely have very fierce ancestors and a spirit team filled with deities who can be vicious. Each God and Goddess has different animals or items that they resonate with, so if you keep seeing those items or animals then they are most likely signs from them. Pay attention. Any God or Goddess that you relate to or you feel called to is also a sign that they are most likely around you. Each archangel and demon is represented by different planets, so find your dominant/ruling planet in your birth chart and call on the archangel or demon who rules that planet and tell them your story. This is what you need to do with any spirit you summon. Give them an offering (it can be something as simple as doing shadow work or singing in their honor), tell them your life story, and feel their energy around you. Whenever I contact Archangel Michael or Lucifer I feel their warmth wrap around me like they are giving me a hug. Ask them for help and also tell them how you have/are going to help yourself.

Work with the planets. Each day of the week is represented by different planets and there is also different planetary hours. For banishing and protection spells Saturday is the best day to do it bc it's Saturn day. Saturn is all about karma, cause and effect, Justice, and pure hearts being rewarded. I work with the Goddess Ma'at and she weighs everyone's hearts on a scale to see which hearts are heavy and which ones are as light as a feather. If your heart is heavy you shouldn't bother doing any of this bc it will all backfire on you btw esp during this beautiful Saturn RX. Anyways, on Saturn day write out a letter to Archangel Cassiel telling him your pain and what people did to you, draw his sigil on the letter, cry on it, then burn it using the flame of a black candle. I like to listen to his meditation music and watch the candle fully burn. If you work with the dark mothers like Hekate, Lilith, Kali Ma, The Morrigan, Santa Muerte like I do then call them to cut every cord and banish all those weird, creepy, perverted men and women from your energy field permanently.

When it comes to destiny swapping and death magick then baby you really gotta go to the big dogs. Never let anyone even try to steal your identity, destiny, mission, and especially your purpose. If Lucifer views you as his sweet little girl like he does with me then you can just light a candle and talk to him like "Lucy let me tell you what this bitch did" and he will listen, give you a hug, and deal with it. If you are not his sweet little girl then you probably need to buy him a $1k bottle of wine :( Same goes for Archangel Michael. If he views you as his baby then you can just light a candle and talk to him. He is such a loving, warm energy. Tell him your pain and everything you are dealing with along with the names of the people doing this to you and he will protect you. If you have no one to protect you then they will protect you and also teach you how to protect yourself. If you are a skilled occultist (and the universe's baby) then I also recommend getting King Belial involved bc when it comes to matters of people stealing your ideas or making money off you without your consent oh believe me that makes him livid. He will handle that. He is very harsh though. If you have any insecurities or trauma then he will send you lessons to deal with it before handling your abusers and stalkers. That's not him punishing you. That is him building your strength, character, and resilience.

When it comes to envious women who are doing sacral/root magick, sex magick, and beauty curses on you to siphon your sex appeal/beauty, try to cause you reproductive issues/infertility, and try to make you look like their obsessed fan then go to Hekate, Aphrodite, and Lilith. These are my only mothers and best believe they protect their babies. Call on Goddess Freya and Lady Rashoon bc their energy feels like a sister. Real ones. They are fierce protectors of women so they do not tolerate girls who abuse, harass, and bully other women. On Venus day (Friday) you need to write them a letter telling them everything you dealt with. Tell them your truth. Cry. Tell them to protect your chakras and energy in a bubble made of gold. Tell them to protect your sacral energy and sexual health from predatory men and women. Say "I call all of my power back to Me now" out loud over and over. While that pink, red, or orange candle burns fully I want you to sing, dance, or do yoga in their honor. Draw their sigils on the letter and burn it. An easy way to communicate with your Goddesses is making Pinterest boards dedicated to each Goddess and put pictures of things, people, places to tell your Goddesses exactly who and what is causing you harm. They will understand but nobody else will.

Lastly, when you have a pure, genuine, real heart then you are divinely protected. People's hate and malice can never "ruin" you or "end" you. The Universe will never let it's baby suffer unless it's to teach them true strength. Once you learned how to stay calm while dealing with all this^ then The Universe is gonna vindicate it's baby. Whether it's Lucy's side or God's side. Everyone views you as the boss and also the baby. You're the boss baby. Call on the big 4 when it comes to demons and/or archangels. These would be Lucifer, Belial, Leviathan, and Satan. When it comes to archangels it's Michael, Uriel, Gabriel, and Raphael. Tell them about all the people doing these things to you and ask them to render their harmful magick against you or anyone else void and ineffective. Ask them to render their spiritual gifts as useless and take away their spiritual rank bc of the malice they sent to people who are divinely protected.

[avemotherlilith]

Your favorite teacher is back call me Miss M 💋 my old blog was @5starwitch