[positivelypositivethoughts]

[akindplace]

Liz Fosslien

[catchymemes]

[safe-haven-safe-place]

[loveyourlovelysoul]

It may help us to:

-accept that sometimes we won't get an apology or closure, or generally an answer -stop seeking validation on the outside but finding it inside of us -give ourselves more attention, focusing on our own mental health and well-being, and setting boundaries -believe, have faith in and trust ourselves -let others do what they want with their lives, we can only get to a certain point before we need to call ourselves out and respect their own decisions

[champagnexowishes]

[writethatdown]

a reminder that when you are distancing yourself from people, situations and things that are toxic, but were a great priority in your life in the past, there will be times when you doubt if you could really do it. there will be times when you would want to crawl back to the comfort you had known. it may get lonely. sending love to all those people who are trying their best to hold up the choice to cut off toxic things even when the decision feels so utterly bitter. i want to remind you that there is no shame in missing the person, the situation or that thing, craving the comfort, wishing that things were different. there might even be instances where you fall back to the familiar patterns. and life will continuously show you why it didn't work out, continuously try to remind you that you deserve better. please do not shame yourself for struggling with this love. the lesson cannot be forced. the journey cannot be fast paced. let things flow. i promise you, at the end of this journey there is win, and there is a better future with people and places and things that truly belong to you and that you truly deserve. it can be a very lonely time, and i know that it's gnawing. it is painful. i am sending you lots of love and strength your way ♡

[positiveseed]

[anniespositivity]

Hey, my love. I just wanted to check in and let you know that it is completely okay to feel lonely; to feel disconnected from the people around you; to feel like nobody really cares about you. Sometimes life gets busy and people stop talking to you. They suddenly do not have or make time for you anymore. But I promise you that there will be other times as well; times when new people enter your life or old friends find their way back to you. Trust me when I say: The loneliness you are feeling is only temporary. There is a season for everything - and you, my darling, are so loved and so worthy in every one of them.

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

recovering will make you a whole new person. recovering doesn’t mean you have to go back to being who you were before everything that hurt you.

[honeymooncupid]

Its okay if you're afraid of what the future might bring you. It might be scary because it's so unknown, full of mysteries and filled with new things you don't know how to cope with and handle yet. But just know that you don't have to be afraid, i always think of it like this: everything i don't know yet, might be a future thing im going to love. Thinking like this might take away a lot of stress and might even make you excited when having to deal with new experiences and future. Things like meeting new people, going to new places and learning new things.

Just know, that you're going to do great in the future.

[anniespositivity]

Life is so damn short - so this is your reminder to invest your time in the things that fill your heart with joy; to wear whatever you feel most confident in; to do your hair the way you feel the prettiest with; to surround yourself with people who radiate kindness; to dance and sing to music that touches your soul; to take breaks whenever you need to; to prioritise yourself; to romanticise the littlest things and to finally stop caring about what other people think. It is time to experience the wonderful life you are meant to live, my love.

[honeymooncupid]

its okay if you have trouble fully loving yourself. and its okay to start small with attempts to love yourself. start liking yourself 5 percent first, then as you go along, it becomes easier. do what you would do for someone you love, for yourself. If you would be chocolate for your loved one, buy chocolate for yourself. If you would cook dinner for your loved one, try to cook a delicious dinner for yourself. Care for and look after yourself, be gentle and patient with yourself and the proces you're going through, all will be well.

[ariangrande]

WHITE CHICKS 2004, dir. Keenen Ivory Wayans

[podencos]

Feels like the older I get the more sensitive I become to cruelty? Not in a way where I’m constantly wounded but I recognize how truly unnecessary it is? Even when I myself am being mean or rude I’m aware of all the other reactions I could be having instead? I’m human so, like, obviously this is behavior I’ll always fall into but it’s just something I’ve been meditating on lately

[alphonseelriic]

[thepersonalquotes]