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I DONT WANT A MOMMIE SO STOP ADDING ME TO YOUR FRIEND LIST OR SENDING ME NOTES
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The above is a video shared by smrchildsadness on Twitter, showing a person participating in a pride parade exchanging a pride flag with a person standing on his (am using his pronoun based on the TikToks/Tweets of what happened) doorway who had a Portuguese flag. There are sounds of cheers and crying and the two people hug each other as they exchange the flags. The man at the doorway then waved kisses to the crowd within the pride parade.
The Tweet says: "NO YOU DONT UNDERSTAND HE WAS WAVING THE PORTUGUESE FLAG BECAUSE HE DIDN'T HAVE A PRIDE FLAG AND THEY TRADED FLAGS AND HE'S SO EMOTIONAL TO GET HIS OWN PRIDE FLAG I'M EMOTIONALLY RUINED"
For context, apparently they were worried that maybe he's a nationalist because he was waving the Portuguese flag and some nationalists opposing the pride march were waving that flag. But upon interacting with him, it turns out he didn't have have a pride flag and he wanted to wave *a* flag in support of the pride march. So they had an exchange and now he has his own pride flag 😭🥹.
The image above is a Tweet by kunwara_ladkaa that says "I'm crying so much right now (Image taken by Manuel Fernando Araújo/Lusa)". The image shows the same man from the pride parade crying as he hugs his new pride flag.
The above image is a Tweet by dudz_zZzz that says "ainda não parei de pensar nele," which according to Google translate from Portuguese to English is "I still haven't stopped thinking about him." The image is a drawing of the person from the pride parade, crying as he hugs his new pride flag.
Posts were made on July 1, 2024.
One of the most joyful moments of 2024 during a Pride Parade in Portugal.
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When you forget to tell Mommy you reeeeally need a diaper change before going in timeout 😅
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Woke up soaked and I immediately started messing my night diaper again. It happens automatically so often now I don't even try to make it to the toilet in the morning anymore.
Discovering your ABDL partner’s true identity and supporting them to not hide from it.
For some ABDLs, this is just a sexual fetish where they’ll wear once or twice a week for sex and that’s it. However, for the majority, it’s much more than that and you’ll know this if your partner wears a diaper outside of sex-oriented times and especially if they talk about how diapers make them feel better/happier and less stressed/anxious.
Realizing that this was more than just a fetish for my boyfriend was a big turning point for me and I made the decision that I wanted to help him accept and embrace who he was rather than him being ashamed. The mental health improvement for him of me doing this was greater than I could have imagined and is the main driver why I produce this content to try to help others.
The vast majority of ABDLs struggle with the feelings of shame and fears of their secret being discovered which often develop from childhood and their early teenage years. This comes from a general lack of acceptance of non-conformist lifestyles and it’s although it’s something we’re seeing change positively for LGBTQ+ people, widespread acceptance of ABDL is still a while away. This shame causes stress, anxiety, binge/purge cycles, and other mental health issues.
The crazy thing is ABDL is in no way “bad” or “wrong”, they have a preference to wear a different type of underwear which makes them feel better and enjoy not having to use dirty toilets all the time. Some might also like acting younger to destress or like the feeling of being forced to wear/use diapers. But crucially none of this has a negative impact on themselves as they aren’t causing harm to their bodies (unlike alcohol, fast food & drugs do) or harm to others around them. Equally wearing diapers isn’t even at all uncommon in the general population, in most western countries more adult diapers are sold than baby diapers now and it’s estimated that up to 10% of adults are wearing some sort of incontinent product on a daily basis.
I believe strongly that you should treat this as being part of their identity and not something that should be restricted, shamed, or avoided.
A big challenge for partners though is because of this shame and feeling of guilt your partner is likely hiding some or all of their real identity from you.
Discovering their true identity
Below are the key and common elements to ABDL identity and hopefully the questions under each section should help you identify which applies to your partner. You might be able to ask these to yourself but also don’t be afraid to directly ask your partner as well.
Diapers
Do they enjoy wearing adult diapers?
Does wearing diapers make them feel safer or more comfortable?
Are they less stressed or anxious when wearing diapers?
If nobody would find out, would they always wear a diaper?
If they’ve answered yes to 2 or more of these then it’s clear that wearing diapers is a key part of their identity.
Diaper usage
Are they happy to wet their diaper at home?
Are they happy to wet their diaper in public?
Are they happy to mess their diaper at home?
Are they happy to mess their diaper in public (as long as nobody is inconvenienced)?
Does the idea of being a bedwetter appeal to them?
Does the idea of being incontinent appeal to them?
These are straightforward but look for signs of hesitation. They might be embarrassed to answer these truthfully, especially the ones about messing so push hard to get an answer and tell they you just want the truth.
Middle Behaviors (4- 12 years old)
Do they like acting like a child?
Do they enjoy childish activities such as coloring, playing with lego, and watching cartoons?
Do they like to dress in childish clothing such as bright colors & printed t-shirts?
Treat these responses as a way to work out how “middle” they are. Think of this like a spectrum from not a middle at all to they would love to live life as a middle.
Baby Behaviors (1- 3 years old)
* Do they often wear baby-themed adult diapers?
* Do they like to wear patterned onesies?
* Do they have or would like to wear other adult baby clothing at home?
* Do they feel more relaxed when sucking on a pacifier?
* If they could choose would they like to drink from bottles or sippy cups?
* Are they able to regress and act like a baby or toddler?
* Do they enjoy watching baby and toddler TV shows?
* Would they like to add AB furniture to our home, like a crib or high chair?
Treat these responses as a way to work out how “baby” they are. Think of this like a spectrum from not having baby tendencies, to they would love to like life as a baby if they could. Most people will be in the middle area of these extremes.
I’d divide this up into 5 levels:
No AB tendencies = answered no to all of the questions
Novice AB = Answered yes to the top two questions and maybe one other question
Intermediate AB = Answered yes to 4 questions but potentially struggles to regress fully
Experienced AB = Answered yes or potentially to most questions
Full AB = Answered yes to everything
Forced Diapers & Regression
* Do they like the idea of being forced to wear diapers?
* Do they like the idea of being forced to use their diapers?
* Do they like the idea of being forced to be a baby?
* Do they like the idea of being treated as / dressed as a different gender? (e.g. man dressed as a baby girl)
* Do they like the idea of being restrained such as through bondage or locking clothing?
If they answer yes to a question, ask how often they’d want to feel forced. Is it just occasional or all the the time. It would be quite common for someone to answer they’d like to be forced to wear diapers all the time but only occasionally forced to be a baby.
What’s next?
Asking these questions to yourself or them directly should now give you a good idea of their ABDL identity.
Diaper wearing and usage
Let’s start with the first two sections on diapers and usage. Seeing as you’re reading this I’m sure they answered yes to most of the diaper questions. It’s also likely they like using their diapers for at least wetting.
Given you now know that wearing and using diapers makes them happier you should ask yourself what is stopping them from wearing all the time. The answer is likely a combination of:
* They’re worried you won’t approve
* They feel guilty about having these desires generally
* They feel awkward wearing around you or asking if they can wear
* They’re worried they’ll be discovered
* They’re in a period of low self-worth after an orgasm
The first three you can solve by actively encouraging them to wear as much as possible, you know this makes them happier and have better mental health so for me at least this was a no-brainer.
The fear of discovery is massively overblown, give them assurance their diaper is hidden when leaving the house and in the extremely unlikely event someone does notice you can easily say their having some waterworks issues. People however unless very close friends or family won’t mention anything.
This final one is extremely common in men and the best way to solve is by making sure either they have no choice but to stay diapered after an orgasm or use a chastity cage to prevent them in the first place. The latter I’ve found to be very helpful for my partner if you’re open to it and it has lots of benefits for you too.
So I overall I cannot recommend highly enough that you encourage or force your partner to be diapered as much as possible. You might want exceptions for work and family initially but your goal (knowing that the time in diapers helps them) is to keep them diapered as much of each day as feasible.
If they didn’t answer with a hard no to any of the first 4 usage questions, then their diapers should be their toilet when wearing. If they do have a hard limit on messing then that can be accommodated but make sure it’s not just them saying what they think you want to hear.
Regression
If they identify as middle then this is easy to accommodate and just make sure you let them know that you want them to explore this side of themselves and they shouldn’t feel embarrassed to do childish activities at home. Buy them coloring books, lego sets and put cartoons on tv for them without them asking are easy ways to show this support.
Most will have identified with baby activities to some degree. If they’re in the novice or intermediate categories then your main role is to be supportive and encourage them with these simple baby elements. Help them pick out baby-themed diapers for the day or buy new ones online together. At night always have them dressed in a baby onesie and encourage a pacifier to be used before bed. Giving them a nighttime drink in a bottle will show your support and is convenient to drink in bed.
If they’re in the experienced or full ab categories you will need to consider more significant involvement. At these levels you should try help them get into a baby headspace lasting several hours at least 3 times a week. When in this headspace you should treat them completely as a baby, helping feed, check and change them and giving them baby toys or shows to watch. This time will massively destress them so it’s worth the effort. Outside of these times baby clothing and diapers should be the norm at home with pacifier usage encouraged at any time they want. If you have a spare room and can afford it, creating a dedicated nursery for them can be life-changing for them and keep everything in one easy place which can be locked when you have guests.
This might feel extreme to you right now but our experience is people become more AB over time so you should prepare the slowly move up the bands.
Forced Diapers & Regression
I don’t think this element gets talked about enough but many ABDLs are driven by the desire for it to be forced upon them.
If they’ve said they want to be forced to wear and use diapers occasionally then make sure that a few times a week you present them with diapers and tell them they’re in them until you say so. Forcing them to use their diapers can be achieved through making sure they drink plenty and using laxatives or suppositories.
If they have said they’d like to be forced all the time then the solution is clear. Read our article on making the decision for them and return them to diapers full time, make it clear you’re forcing this decision for them as you know it what they want and it will be good for them. They will resist at points but stand firm, they’ll thank you later.
Even if they’re in diapers full time with no toilet privileges, you should still force them to truly lose control twice a week. I recommend doing one suppository a week; before watching tv or a film together, before sending them out of the house to go shopping or randomly in the daytime when their next change is a few hours away. And also using a tablet laxative once a week which can be given in the evening to ensure they lose control overnight.
Depending on their answer to being force to be baby, use this to dictate the frequency. If occasionally, then a few times a week make sure you treat them as a baby at the more extreme end. For example have an evening where you feed them their dinner while they sit in AB clothes and a thick diaper. Or surprise them with a whole day at the weekend where they must act like a baby.
If they’re like that more permanently, use the same guide as above but make sure they’re always in baby attire at home. You should also seriously consider creating a nursery room if possible.
Gender is easy as if that’s something they want just switch the types of diapers and clothing you buy for them and call them your baby girl, etc.
Bondage elements should generally be included if forced diapers is something they need. At a minimum use restrictive clothing to prevent them from accessing their diapers, rear zipping onesies or all-in-ones are ideal. Even adaptive clothing combined with padded mittens works well. When unsupervised access to their diapers should be prevented where possible and they should get used to asking to be changed or released if they’re changing themselves.
A locking diaper cover or belt is a good addition. Finally, they should experience times when they’re completely restrained and using their diapers is forced upon them. For daytime a straightjacket is ideal and it is perfect to watch TV together or prevent them from using their phone. My favorite is using bed restraints combined with an overnight laxative so they experience a true feeling of helplessness.
Summary
Hopefully this has been helpful and helps you understand what your partner identifies as. If this all feels too much I’d recommend starting with the diaper and usage elements first as this is normally the most important step and then layer in the AB and forced elements over the next couple of months.
I’m also conscious that I’ve likely missed off a big section I should have covered so let me know in the comments.
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the ickiest things are the hottest
messy diapers are objectively icky and yet, they are SO fucking hot. literally nothing turns me on more than messing my diapers.
all of my hottest fantasies involve messy diapers OR are made hotter with a messy diaper.
backseat diaper change? how much hotter if it’s a stinky diaper?
using my diaper in someones lap? how much hotter if i’m filling the seat of my diaper with a mess while they hold me??
spankings over someones lap? imagine getting a long spanking and humiliating commentary while in a messy diaper?! how much hotter is THAT?!?!
being unable to hold it and uncontrollably using your diaper? much, MUCH hotter if it’s a big mess that you literally can’t help but push out into your diaper?
bedwetting? imagine waking up with a messy diaper?!
asking for a change and being told to wait? how much hotter if you have to go back to playing LEGOs in your stinky diaper?
being diaper checked and told you need a change? again, imagine it’s a stinky bulge in the back of your diaper that they feel, or pulling open the back waistband???
the ickiest things are SO much hotter because they’re icky, more icky = way, way more humiliating!!!
You need diapers, for so many reasons:
physically
emotionally
aesthetically
practically
romantically
sexually
Embrace your diaper cravings.
Embrace your diaper needs.
Embrace your diaper love.
Embrace being in diapers.
8 Reasons Why Diapers are Awesome (and why you should try them at least once)
Diapers aren't for everyone. If every adult in the world tried wearing a diaper tomorrow, there would surely be a large number of people who conclude "nope - these don't do anything for me". And that's okay. But I am convinced that - if more people were able to overcome the stigma of wearing adult diapers and try them once - a LOT of people would decide that diapers are actually the bee's knees! So here are 8 reasons why diapers are actually really awesome and worth trying out at least once in your life.
8. You Might Need Them Someday
Diapers aren't just for babies. Plenty of adults develop incontinence later in life - either due to injury, illness, or old age - and rely on diapers. Maybe you'll be one of those, maybe you won't. But if you do, then overcoming the stigma of wearing diapers now would make the transition later in life easier on you.
7. Diapers Are Kink-Friendly
Are you kinky in the bedroom? Diapers pair up quite nicely with other kinks and fetishes, including (but not limited to) Dom/sub roleplay, obedience and discipline, humiliation, rubber, pup play, watersports (duh), and bondage. Also, since diapers are on the fringe of the fetish world, most ABDLs are fairly open-minded and non-judgmental about most other kinks and fetishes.
6. Taboo Excitement
Who doesn't love being a little naughty once in a while? Because diapers are so taboo, it can be quite exciting and adventurous to defy social norms and wear them. Learning what you can get away with is quite the thrilling experience. (Pro Tip: You'll be paranoid at first that everyone knows you're wearing a diaper. But you'll eventually learn that diapers aren't nearly as noticeable as you might think.) Imagine how mischievous you'll feel in the company of friends, family, or coworkers, soaking your diaper while everyone around you is none the wiser!
5. Vulnerability and Intimacy
Because diapers are taboo, wearing them can make you feel vulnerable. What if you're exposed? What if someone makes fun of you? How will you keep it a secret? These might not seem like positive things, but vulnerability often translates into intimacy. If your partner knows you wear diapers and even supports you and participates in the fetish with you, well... let's just say that few moments match the intimacy of allowing another person to change your diaper.
4. Feeling Protected
Ironically, what can make you feel vulnerable can also make you feel protected. There aren't many things in life with that sort of duality. But being swaddled in a diaper can make you feel secure, comforted, and cared for.
3. A Little Regression Never Hurt Anyone
Not all, but many ABDLs incorporate diapers as a part of age regression roleplay. It can be fun once in a while to think back to fond memories of your childhood. Some even argue that it's good for mental health. And diapers can help facilitate transporting you back in time.
2. They're Ridiculously Convenient
Whatever you think of diapers, I think everyone can agree that it's super annoying to have to drop what you're doing to go to the bathroom. Particularly whenever you're engaged in long duration activities. Pausing a movie or a tv show or a video game - just when things are getting exciting - because you have to go. Having to constantly pull over for pit stops during a road trip. Waking up in the middle of the night and interrupting your sleep to go to the bathroom. Suppose you're sick or injured and need to stay in bed to recover? Wanting to avoid long lines (or gross port-a-pottys) at concerts and sporting events. I could go on and on and on - the list is practically endless.
1. They Feel Awesome
Not convinced by any other reason so far? If you ask me, there's only one reason anyone needs to give diapers a try, and that is - they feel amazing to wear. They're not like ordinary, boring underwear. Diapers are soft, thick, snug, warm, and squishy. (A soaked diaper is even softer, thicker, warmer, and squishier.) And the plastic! To hell with reusable cloth diapers or cloth-backed disposable diapers! Disposable plastic diapers are the best, because that plastic is smooth like satin and sensual to the touch.
My sentiments exactly!
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