god I seriously need a forced intimacy like tag that actually is about intimacy like no, Iâm not looking for âhaha what if I put a knife to your throatâ thatâs not fucking intimacy, I want slowburn, I want âoh no youâre too fragileâ I want the âI kidnapped you because I need to take care of youâ sitting down your kidnapping victim and gently brushing their teeth. Of bathing your victim not just because horny but also taking deep deep care to ensure they stay clean and healthy, drugging someone because they get so anxious and theyâre happier high out of their mind as you pet their head and coo.
The point is intimacy, caretaking, softness, in a situation where it cannot be resisted and would normally be dangerous, breaking someone through positive reinforcement, violence should be sparse, potentially teased, but never the focus, the focus should be doing intimate acts, genuinely intimate acts beyond just sex, hairwashing, dressing, hand feeding, comforting, wiping away tears, intimacy!!!
the fantasy is about being taken care of in a way where you have no choice in the manner so you donât feel bad about it. So thereâs no shame in wanting to be pampered because itâs not your fault. Psychological intimacy, not just physical closeness, itâs about feeling cared about, like you are safe in an objectively unsafe situation, the juxtaposition of endless affection with being locked in someoneâs attic, the idea someone saw you and wanted to make you happy, saw your depressed ass and wanted to bathe you, to care for you, to make you feel special, even if you try and struggle away, you will be made to feel good, and soft, and loved, and that is a threat.
I need more content like that, that juxtaposition between gentle love and gentle horror, but itâs so hard to find because I swear like half of nsft tumblr has no tagging manners and will tag into every single horny tag they know for literally anything even mildly lewd or a selfie. Hell I donât even mind if it goes darker places I just want that atmosphere of âthis is for your own good, I love you, you donât get to stop being loved, you donât need to struggle, I made the straps extra soft just for you.â I need to feel like my horror monster genuinely loves me, cherishes me, even if itâs in terrible ways, I canât stand feeling disposable.