I get a lot of people ask me, “why do you say your Bi?”
There are many reasons I associate with Bisexuality:
1) when I grew up there weren’t tons of terms for LBGT. We didn’t have Pan or the 800 other terms.
2) I don’t see myself as Pan, I’m attracted to Men and Women, but NOT non-binary, trans, gorillas...
2a) I am also not attracted to many types of women or men. This is just my personal thing, so I’ll stick with Bi
3) I have always loved the feeling of intimacy with a woman, but like the comfort and safety of a man. It’s hard for some to understand that. Some days I just want to have a guys arms hold me. But others just holding hands with a GF make me totally zen.
4) I have been in long term relationships with both men and women exclusively. It goes to the reasons above why I don’t now.
5) there’s the old excuse, because I can’t make up my mind. No, not at all. Due to previous events in my life I have a VERY hard time with trust. I tend to just want to be alone from everyone.
6) I am not a super sexual person now as it is. Do I love intimacy, Yes! But I’m a single mom, live 3000 miles away from most of my support family and friends, so having time for sex doesn’t happen often.
7) Being bisexual allows me to choose what I want when I want it. I’m single and foresee myself staying that way. I’m not in a couples relationship and like other women to play with to excite things in the bedroom. Have I been the couple sure! Have I been the plaything yep! Do I enjoy that, not really anymore usually ends in drama, hurt feelings, name calling. I enjoy being with a man sometimes to just feel the roughness and a good dick. But I enjoy being with a woman more, not as much “I need you to get me off” shit. With a woman, we can just hang, kiss, play, or go at it! Throw a toy in and everyone’s happy!
8) I’ve become VERY selective in who I let in my Inner sanctum! I’m a single mom and I don’t let anyone meet my son until I’m comfortable and know they won’t hurt him or me. I have a few long term friends who I can have over and he’s not asking a million questions.
9) I’m really only attracted to certain types, it’s a non exclusive list and someone could break a rule.
The No’s - curious ones, the couples, the married men or women (I’m not gonna be a home wrecker), the macho military guy, the gym freak, the majority butch woman, the long distance person, the drunk (I like to drink, but not constantly), the sex freak (if you have to masturbate or have sex every day!), the “daddy”, the super effeminate guy, the unsolicited dick pick guy (I can come here and find what I want to see), short dicks, HUGE dicks, too short or tall guys (or girls), broke people, super fake people, opioid drug users, STD positive (I work in medical field, I will test you!), the jealous people, the constant beggar for sex, the religious freak, needs to always be the center of attention, isn’t a player (a few other lovers is ok, but I don’t want to be the 31st flavor), lives in a pigsty, Black men (not racism just not attractive),
The Yes’s - confidant of their sexuality, has boobs, has a good size dick (and knows how to use it), people who can be respectful of privacy, has good teeth, has manners, has a good job, can have a long intelligent conversation, knows how to cook, comfortable alone or with my other friends, likes travel or hiking, financially stable, has a car,
10) I’m just a chubby, single mom, who can be picky of who I’m with in my 30’s. I am divorced, I’m not on everyone’s fap top 10, but I love my friends and wouldn’t mind finding someone to add to my life.
I wrote a lot, but it’s annoyed me recently.
I don’t post sexual pics of me anymore, someone couldn’t be discreet previously.
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