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Apparently O's in Portugal.

I know it's not my business...but I feel so sorry for B 😥

🥹 I felt sorry for him too but he looks and seems fine now, posting as usual and surrounded by his loving friends so I'm not too worried anymore.

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I think we can bury Benmar, Omar is in Portugal

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Missing my (divorced) parents hour 😮‍💨

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We're so back

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How I've missed this man

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Do you really believe there is still something going on between Omar and Benedetto? I mean they haven‘t seen each other since more than 6 months now. 😔 I guess they just ended friendly but that’s better as nothing,right?

😂 if this is because of the previous topic about Joel liking and commenting on Benny's post, then no, I think I'd rather believe that it really is over between Benny and Omar. What I don't believe, however, is Omar's closest friend still being so friendly to Omar's ex-boyfriend is "normal" even when they didn't end on bad terms 😅 lowkey I just can't seem to make sense of it in my head.

Well, not gonna think too much into it tho 🧘‍♀️

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#anon meanwhile Omar's closest bestfriend and the so-called ex-boyfriend.. 🤭

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For now I will be watching from sidelines i don't want to get my hopes up then getting disappointed again 😒 also i will only believe in benmar when they are spotted together again until then whatever 😬

Then whatever indeed 🧘‍♀️

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i am 🤏 this close to locking benny and omar in one room bc i know one good convo face to face would fix this!

If only that goddamn oceans separating them didn’t exist… 🚬🚬

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and the last time joel liked was like in february but here we have a like and a comment. and omar liking? i need them all to stop playing with my heart 😔

🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲

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can joel and benny stop giving me hope when i almost gave up 😭😭😭 benny answering in swedish lowkey killed me…😫

Joel commenting is already weird enough as it is but then Benny replied in Swedish too and he rareeely replies comments these days. Like… okay, boys…? Sure… 😅😅😅

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Um.. whatever you say cuties

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Another anon.

I feel exactly the same as you. Some intuitive feeling accompanied me all that time. I am sure that B was the ONE, trustworthy and intelligent, despite the distance and time, it WAS possible not to give up. It is not worth noting the reasons, there can be a million of them. Like you, I will no longer be interested in O's personal life, as I was interested in Benmar. All the other "fans to lovers" found on socials do not add much to O's reputation. I'm getting bored of that repetitive scenario tbo. It seems to me that O is unconsciously looking for drama and pain.

Getting bored of the same repetitive scenario is so real 🥲

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People aren't ready to admit that they're actually sooooo insecure of Benny

there is nothing to be insecure of. the relationship is over🤷‍♀️

Exactly. The relationship is over anyway. So why keep fussing and dismissing a relationship that has ended if not because you're oh so insecure of the person involved in it 🫢

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You don't see a heterosexual man hanging out with a woman, or vice versa, unromantically and people immediately saying "they are dating" //

fr not to mention omar dates all genders and no one ever insinuates that he is with any women or nb folks. anddd ive yet to see evidence of him and the ig dude even hanging out 😭 the fact that people deny bennymar with so much proof yet are ready to say he is with an instagram mutual is hilarious

People aren't ready to admit that they're actually sooooo insecure of Benny 🫣🫢

Anyway. I'm enough with the fact that Omar was happily dating and in love with Benny 🙂‍↔️ lowkey one of the best few months witnessing that and I'll gladly accept it is how it is <3

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I'll support him and his career always but no, I will not be interested in Omar's love life and private life anymore //

I’m with you 100 % i was so invested in bennymar i cannot do this again. i will be happy for him whoever he ends up with but looking for crumbs and getting emotionally invested i cant do it and i told my friends like pls never let me get invested in his love life again. I got too endeared to them bc omar seemed so so happy and i also think Benny is interesting and seems kind but i was too sad about this lollllll

I think one of the reasons why I got so invested in Omar's relationship with Benny is specifically because of how we could tell how it made Omar so, so happy after the total hellhole of his previous relationship with you-know-who (and his basic flings after🫥). So yes, I'm sad that Benmar has ended that's why I won't be minding Omar's next relationships, but also I feel like nothing will ever really compare to that feeling of seeing how happy he used to be, that the prospect of hyperanalyzing and obsessing over his next rs hoping for that same feeling again doesn't really excite me anymore.. I still agree with this anon up until now too so yep.. I'll be content just with the knowledge that he's well and fine because he's with someone he wants to, I don't really need to know all the unnecessary details behind it again too ☺️