Tales of a Horny Bear

Just a sideblog to horny post on MDNI🔞 He/She/They/It Bear-Dog thing Poly, Pan, Switch, Verse, Enby (I don't like to make decisions) In a poly open relationship with my Partner💚 and Boyfriend💙 both are aware of this blog 🧡💚💙 🐻✌️

[bearyhornystuff]

Heya, I'm Bear🧡, I'm 28, I am Nonbinary, masc presenting bearded Bear, I am a creature, I use they/them, it/it's, she/her, and he/him, use whichever you like.

It should go without saying but everything on here is fictional (with the exception of the stuff I post about me n my partners) and is created with the idea that any and all parties are consenting and have clear communication.

Do your research!! and talk before you try anything new!! Especially if it's in person (not to say you shouldn't over text or video or however you go about exploring kink!!) It's more than okay to ask about new stuff if you don't know, hell reach out to me, I'd be more than happy to try and help feel out new ideas or kinks (for the most part, everyone has their limits ofc)

Me and both my partners🧡💚💙 are all switches, and verse, I will post a lot of both sides, sometimes I'm very dominant (in a wild range depending on the day) and sometimes I'm incredibly submissive (also with a crazy range)

Tags

#bearyhornystuff- me posting/reposting horny stuff

#bearlyhornystuff- anything not horny

#bearyhornypartner💚- posts about my Partner/Master/Owner🐶

#bearyhornyboyfriend💙- posts about my Boyfriend/Sir/Owner🐶/

Minors, MAGA, Bigots, Transphobes, and Ai supporters DNI!!🔞

If you're under 20 I don't mind you interacting but don't follow or message me please, nothing against you, just younger than I'd prefer to be directly interacting with 🐻✌️

Likes:

❤️-like done to me

🖤-like to do to others

Subbing/Domming❤️🖤

t4t❤️🖤

Musk❤️🖤

Pred/prey❤️🖤

Bondage❤️🖤

Breeding/Creampie❤️🖤

Pup play❤️🖤

Oral🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤❤️

Anal❤️

Sadism❤️🖤

Masochisom❤️❤️❤️❤️🖤

Intox❤️❤️❤️🖤

Force femming ❤️ (sometimes, still new to me so testing the waters)

Fauxcest ❤️🖤

Heat play ❤️🖤

Breath play ❤️🖤

Ur Dad🐻🤙❤️

Dislikes:

CNC/Rape play

Feederism

Blood

Piss

Scat

Ageplay

Leather/Latex (bad texture for this bear 😖)

Bad vibes on my blog 🐻✌️

I will be horny post dumping/reblogging as often as I like, if that suits you follow along, DM's open to Mutuals, Growl at the Bear whenever you like 🐻🧡✌️

[sounddesignerjeans-deactivated2]

I wish kinky sex ed wasn't so stigmatized even among left-leaning "sex positive" circles. Everyone's all "uwu I'm a sub I'll do anything you ask" okay mommy wants you to read The New Bottoming Book so you learn how to sub without hurting yourself since your sex ed up to this point is porn and your ex boyfriend Jared who liked to choke you incorrectly

[sounddesignerjeans-deactivated2]

I’m so glad you asked! Let me list off what I’ve got for you:

Books I personally recommend:

- The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

If you’re having kinky sex at all, you need to read at least one of these two books. Point blank. They’ll teach you the very basics of negotiating properly (which is critical!), and help you identify what you are and aren’t into.

- Mindfucking Mindfully, by Sir Ezra Where this book really shines isn’t actually in helping you “mindfuck” people, it’s in taking a close look at how to do so ethically. It’s a great answer to the question “how do I get someone to consent to something and still surprise and shock them with it?”

- Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny This is a slightly niche pick but there simply isn’t a better book on the subject. It’s written from a 24/7 M/s perspective, which is not what I do, but the book itself is an indispensable guide to giving and receiving service. The phrase “if the Master doesn’t want it, it isn’t service” will be burned into my psyche for quite some time. I love this book a lot. Maybe my favorite out of all of these.

- Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, by Princess Kali This one’s high on my reading list; I’ve heard it recommended by a number of people whose opinions on these things I trust.

- Pretty Much Anything Midori Has Ever Done Midori is a great resource for this stuff - I haven’t personally read much of her work, but she’s a well known sex educator and great at what she does. She’s known for bondage, but has a lot of range beyond that.

- This Negotiations Worksheet from Bex Talks Sex This is what I default to using a lot of the time for negotiations. Forget BDSMtest, you don’t need that, it’s no good. Just look through this worksheet’s wordbank with your partner. Big fan especially of the “how do you want to feel?” section.

Books I can kind of recommend:

- The Ultimate Guide to Kink, edited by Tristan Taormino This book is weird. There’s a lot of good info for experienced players, but some of what’s written here skeeves me out. I think if I had a top that thought the way some of the tops in here think, they would not be topping me for long. But there’s some good techniques and so on to pick up that I wouldn’t have otherwise. I liked the distinction one of the authors makes between being sadistic in the sense of inflicting pain and being sadistic in the sense of doing something your sub doesn’t “enjoy.”

- The Ritual of Dominance and Submission, by David English Man, this book fucking sucks. The writing and editing are garbage, and the fear and protocol play described need way more careful negotiation than he ever lets on, let alone recommends. This is some 50 Shades bullshit. The only time I recommend this book is to tops like me who tend to be very affirming to their partners and need a guide on how to really scare them - when their partner consents and when you negotiate it, which this book sucks at teaching you. Really good content on fear, punishment, and protocol play, really terrible presentation of the topic though. Don’t read this if you don’t already know what you’re doing.

- Paradigms of Power, by Raven Kaldera I love this book. Great book. Very focused on 24/7 M/s play though, and, being an anthology, some chapters are better than others. If you can’t read something and pick out what is and isn’t for you, don’t bother. But some really great inspiration, and generally pretty well written. Big fan of the discussion of leather throughout the book.

Hope some of these are helpful for people ^-^ for the average person reading this I recommend New Bottoming/Topping, but they’re all important parts of my library and I’ve recommended all of them to friends at some point or another.

[sparklefartstheunicorn]

May I also suggest Hell on Wheels and Kneeling in Spirit by Raven Kaldera, d/s companion books that address kink with a disability. They're a should read for everyone, imo. You never know when you or a partner are going to have changes in your body that affect what you can physically do. Temporary illness/injury and even just age can affect your sex life.

[dogspouse]

I'd like to suggest Better Bondage for Every Body! It goes really in depth on anatomy, pain processing, self-tying, and has chapters specifically focusing on how to do rope bondage on/for someone who is disabled or has chronic pain, which was really important to me.

[gryphonpupcloaca]

dad ties up son, smacks on ass and goes yyyeeep that ain’t goin nowhere

[emo-fagwolf]

i need a friend group that'll smoke/drink with me because once i'm intoxicated enough they can all just pull their pants down and i'll suck everyone's dick

[maybedontlookok]

Shh sh sh. Just let him take it. He’s a big dog, much bigger than you. It’s better if you just relax and let him in. He’s not going to leave you alone until he breeds you. Stop crying, you’ll tighten up. There we are. Just let him in. Be good.

[emo-fagwolf]

i really need him to hover himself over my face and jerk off but not let me suck his cock ): just pin my arms down and let me pray some of your slick will drip down onto my mouth </3

[bearyhornystuff]

awww, poor bear having to wait to touch 🫤 must be so tough. but that means there's definitely nothing preventing a pretty bunny from frotting against you to get themself off now is there 🥰

Awawawaaa!! 🐻🐶🐾🫣🫣🫣🫣🤤🥴😵‍💫 Nothing at allll I suppose 🥵🥵🥵

[skippymutt]

puppy being held down by his owner n getting bitten in his most sensitive places! Squirming and whining every time owner glides their teeth over puppy's tummy, grip tightening when pup tries to get away. Getting puppy all bruised n marked up in every place that makes him shiver

[mandatory-ftmbreeder]

shit that no one ever tells you: sex is a skill. People often seem to have this false idea that, similar to being an artist, you're somehow just innately good or bad at it. But that is definitely not true. Maybe you have some traits that make it easier (or harder!) for you to be good at it, but anyone can get good at it with enough experience and time. (And communication. A lot of it. Like, some people you will just click with and won't need to say much to be on the same page. But for other people, you might have to explain specifically in great detail each step you wanna take and why. And then maybe repeat it a few times because people can also be forgetful.)

all that to say, go grind out some sexperience with your local trans/gay/fag/homo/homie today

[bearyhornystuff]

Get to enjoy today and tomorrow, and then most of next week on a farm upstate pup sitting for some relatives!! 🐻🐾🐶🐶I don't usually visit because they're terrible people and support the current administration 🤮

BUUUTTT!! They're gone all week, and I get to enjoy this time all to myself and my partners are coming up and we're gonna be so gay and horny all over this farm and I hope we leave a stench and vibe of gay🏳️‍🌈

Anywayyyyyy😝 I'm here all alone tonight and I can't touch till Tuesday when my partners come😭🐾🥴, so send me horny asks and DM's and get me all pent up, per my partners request to have me riling by the time they arrive💚💙♥️😖🫠😵‍💫🥴🐻🐶🧡💜🐾⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

Happy priiiiide!!

[angelvvrath]

Was just diagnosed with “need to bite you” disorder. Yeah sorry it’s terminal. The only cure is biting you. C’mere.

[femtobyit]

Rubbing their puppy parts while making out to smother them and hear them whine and whimper with your tongue down their throat >>>>

[bearyhornystuff]

Bonus points if you choke them during, to really make their eyes roll and body shake 😵‍💫🥴🐻🐾

[dude-who-likes-dudes]

I cannot be trusted as a little spoon I WILL be grinding my ass into your crotch

[miadollcult]

i’m sorry for talking about wanting a cock in my mouth so much. you can make me shut up with your cock. in my mouth

[laneboy666]

I just want to hear the wet sounds that my puppy makes every time I thrust into him and watch him go dumb from so much pleasure while I tell him that he's such a good boy for taking it so well

[bearyhornystuff]

New top surgery just dropped

*turns your tits into a bong

🍃🔥💨🥴🐾🐾🐾

[pawtheticpuppyboy]

I think when a sub says "you can do whatever you want to me" what they're actually wanting is to not make decisions anymore, and they think by saying this they can foist the decision making off on the dom without having to do any of the work beforehand. But unfortunately to get to the Not Making Choices part of kink you do in fact have to make a Lot Of Choices beforehand and communicate those choices to your partner. This is an essential part of the process and skipping it is both unsafe and unfair for whoever you're playing with.

Not Making Choices is the reward for communicating clearly, not the default