a girl's perspective

[smooth-yazz]

Thoughts

Please please please know that older men are very dangerous. I know he might seem to understand you, he might make you feel like an adult, he might make you feel like you have a friend, but ultimately your youth is more precious than any man who wants to feel younger by using yours.

[princessprettyprivilege]

5 Things You Should Know As A Young Woman

1. Don’t tell anyone how much money you have in your bank account.

2. You don’t have to share your whole life online to prove yourself.

3. Protect yourself online whenever you take pictures by clearing your metadata, which will remove your location. You should be able to change the months, hours and days you took a picture. Some people will go to extreme lengths to find out your schedule to track you down by only screenshotting your pictures. Blur & censor any identifying landmarks, store #’s & IDs and items around you.

4. Keep your life plans to yourself, not everyone’s your friend and will actively go out of their way to sabotage you.

5. Your health is pertinent to the quality of your life. You can have all the wealth you want, but if your health is poor, your quality of life will be as well.

[frankiecorleone]

do it for her (your thirteen year old self)

[ancientsstudies]

University of Cambridge. x

[beckywiththegoodhijab]

Dear kids: sometimes, self-care is ridiculously unsexy. It's cleaning your filthy bathroom after weeks of ignoring it. It's washing your bedsheets and vacuuming your floors. It's forcing yourself to take a shower and brush your teeth. When that temporary motivation strikes, RIDE THAT WAVE as far as you possibly can. It's the kindest thing you can do for yourself sometimes.

[fromhersoul]

Adult friendships be like “I miss you bro, let's hang out in November"

[ivy-saurs]

friendship necklace that says tumblr mutuals

[n-haught]

not to be a downer but your twenties are super hard and super lonely and tv lied and it’s not glamorous at all and if you are having a hard time it’s ok and it’s normal and you’ll be ok

[anyataylorjoy]

PRIDE & PREJUDICE (2005) from ‘the politics of 18th century dating’

[chichiscloset]

Hobbies A Feminine Lady Needs To Add To Her life! 🌹

In this blog entry, I’ll be talking about the 4 passions of mine that have helped me as a young woman, to re-connect with my creative energy and made me feel more feminine; and I’m sure can help you as well! Part 2 will come out in Mid-February*

1.Reading

Curling up with a good book is such a receptive activity! Yet, reading (non-fiction) as a hobby really helps to broaden the mind and make you more interesting in conversation. Reading is probably one of the most receptive hobbies I have ever incorporated into my life! It’s allowed me slow down, and become patient with myself. Carefully reading each word per page, and grasping the knowledge the books are feeding me with.

Keep reading

[chichiscloset]

Hobbies A Feminine Lady Needs To Add To her life! Part: 2

Doing things that you are passionate about & requires the use of creative energy, is an excellent way for you to divine feminine energy. In this blog entry, I’ll be talking about four more passions of mine that have helped me as a young woman, to re-connect with my creative energy and made me feel more feminine; and I’m sure can help you as well!

This post is a continuation from my posts on:

*Feminine Hobbies you need to incorporate into your life: Part 1

* self care tips for high-maintance lady.

**Please read both articles for context**

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[enigmasandepiphanies]

"I can fix him" You can't even fix your sleep schedule bestie

[thesexypanda-boo]

girlie you can't give up you don't have the mansion with a secret library yet

[memeuplift]

[sweetener]

“The pedestal upon which women have been placed has all too often, upon closer inspection, been revealed as a cage.” – Ruth Bader Ginsburg

On the Basis of Sex (2018)

[sweetener]

“The pedestal upon which women have been placed has all too often, upon closer inspection, been revealed as a cage.” – Ruth Bader Ginsburg

On the Basis of Sex (2018)

[ourmelanins]

[beautynhereye]

I tell people that I am in love with flowers.

And in that spoken affection--

that easy to say thing, that easily smiled and accepted statement--

is a bigger and secret love...

One I talk less about because I've no desire for push back, for rebuttal, or any attempt to sway.

The underlying affection is for my sisters and their sons.

I love how like wild things they are-- blooming even if one day forgotten, calling back attention to themselves with their continued existence, making the world a better place by simply existing in it.

They are brightly colored flowers blooming in season

Fragile at first, but growing stronger

Developing root systems that can seek out the nutrients they need-- working to get it themselves--

But always just as ready to return to being cared for...

They are not spoiled by being well-loved.

They are not less worthy when waiting for the rain or the watering can.

They do not have to do anything for my love.