Amita星慈

🐻💞🐼Becca can do better 🐼💞🐻

[beccaliushang]

5 robot versions my fav is 1.0 #thevoicedoessomethingtome #itdoessomethingtome #robotvoiceforbecca #liltrust❤️ #littletrust https://www.instagram.com/p/B6NwBfqgYTz/?igshid=6fmdmq7qfm6c

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your muse

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myself

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hope i will be with less pains but more abilities. BE TOUGHER BECCA

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[beccaliushang]

to love without an attachment

love isn't trade

sharing love isn't losing love

love is infinite

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attachment-free love

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What is a healthy relationship in my eyes?

I was asked many times about my idea of a healthy relationship or one that I long for,

here is my perspective :

1. to love each other with trust, freedom, respect  and faith. These three senses mentioned are what I think you and your partner should develop as a part of the invincible support for your relationship before you two really choose to start a genuine relationship. 

that's, a best friendship with trust, freedom,respect  and faith is a necessary keystone of a healthy relationship. 

 2. since you have your trust, freedom,respect, faith given to each other supporting your relationship, it's good you two can love together, be happy together, be better together, but work separately independently , then fuck together, and sleep together.  By the way, to keep the relationship relatively fresh, it's nice in my oopinion to sometimes sleep in separate rooms or separate blankets. You gotta know that "absence makes the heart grow fonder. "

3.spare enough time for your relationship every single day to chat and exchange ideas and feelings with your partner and show your affection to him/her. remember love is a daily thing and consistency does beat intensity!

4.be honest right away with your partner when you lose interest in your partner and want to end the relationship. then respect and accept this fact. one side never works.

5. don't be parents when you don't want or aren't ready. Be the best parents when you decide to be.

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this is it?

i think it is.

—Becca Liu

January 14, 2019

[beccaliushang]

得到不狂喜

失去不留恋

[beccaliushang]

Love is the capacity to take care, to protect, to nourish. If you are not capable of generatng that kind of energy toward yourself - if you are not capable of taking care of yourself, of nourishing yourself, of protecting yourself - it is very difficult to take care of another person. In the Buddhist teaching, it's clear that to love oneself is the foundation of the love of other people. Love is a practice. Love is truly a practice.

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"If one knows that everything is impermanent, one does not grasp.

And if one does not grasp, one will not think in terms of having or lacking, and therefore one lives fully."

[wectar]

Simple is good. ―Jim Henson

[sharanam]

I like this guy.

[beccaliushang]

I love this guy too lol

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“eastern Mona Lisa” in Banteay Srei, Cambodia.

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An architecture in Royal Palace ,PhnomPenh, Cambodia

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Vrah Vishnulok - Angkor Wat

[quietlotus]

Calm is always with me. If I am feeling anxious, I can always return to my centre, to my place of inner quiet, by following my breath, following each breath in and each breath out. Breathing in, I breathe in calmness… breathing out, I breathe out peace… and as I breathe, my breath cradles me in the ease of the present moment.

Quiet Lotus (via quietlotus)

[spirit-living-deactivated201902]

Love feels good. It is sweet and nourishing and pleasant and playful. Love grows and stregthens and is honest and pure. At the core of everything is love, naturally and inherently; and all that is consciously moving with love, as love–cannot be mistaken for anything else.

(via spirit-living)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Rules for Living Well

[psych-facts]

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. When you say you’re going to do something, do it.

2. Don’t lie, don’t exaggerate, don’t withhold information, don’t mislead.

3. Give people your full attention when you’re with them. Listening well is a hard skill to master – but it’s worth it, and enriches relationships.

4. Walk out of movies, stop reading books, leave parties … Basically, don’t waste your time on things you’re not enjoying. You only live once. Your time is valuable.

5. Do the right thing – even if it costs you. This is the mark of true integrity.

6. Do things other people aren’t doing. Be courageous and adventurous. Don’t be afraid of the unknown.

7. Always be learning. It keeps life – and you – interesting.

8. Do your best to stay out of debt.