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This morning, BuzzFeed is featuring a story from Project Unbreakable (website/Tumblr), who work with survivors of sexual assault, photographing them holding a poster with a quote from their attacker. Today’s unique story uncovered stories from men who have been assaulted, and touches base on some of the stigmas surrounding men and sex, with quotes from attackers such as “Don’t worry, boys are supposed to like this,” and “You’re a guy, you can’t say no to a girl like me.”, as well as many threats to hurt loved ones. Many people still don’t realize that yes, man CAN and ARE victims of sexual abuse, not only from women but from fellow men, and that it is not made any less traumatizing for a man simply because he is a man, and saying things like “man up” does nothing except further dehumanize and hurt the victim. There is, if possible, even more blame put on a male victim of sexual abuse than female because people assume that all men want sex, from any person, at any time. Stop this. Stop the abuse of ANYBODY, stop victim blaming, and stop telling male abuse survivors that men being raped “isn’t a real thing.” You can read the full story and see the rest of the pictures here.

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RELEASE THE KRAKEN

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I HATE WHEN YOU TRY TO SHARPEN A PENCIL AND IT DOES THE THING

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Geek Engagement Rings Pt.3

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it’s pretty impossible for me to not look miserable (or even open my eyes) if it’s even the slightest bit sunny Dress ~ ASOS Curve Leggings ~ Walmart Shoes ~ Journeys Headband ~ Rememberaday via Etsy Purse ~ Titinastore via Etsy

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Best thing about Colbert is that when he nails it, he nails it.

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Shit, I totally teared up. At work.

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THIS NEEDS TO STOP

I’m sure all of you guys have heard about the wonderful miss Cassidy Campbell who won Homecoming Queen at her school in California. Once again a moment that should have been celebrated is now being ridiculed and degraded by the ignorance and hatred in our ‘fellow people’. This is absolutely sick and disgusting. The amount of HATRED that this girl is getting is simply ASTOUNDING and it needs to stop. This girl is a human being, just like EVERYONE ELSE, and the fact that she has to go through ANY of this blatant hatred and corruption makes me sick to my stomach. And of course she’s not the only one either. Thousands of trans* people have to go through this EVERY SINGLE DAY. It infuriates me how people think that it’s OKAY and even RIGHT to degrade someone like that. Goddamn it people, get your head out of your asses and start acting like human beings.

EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT, BUT WE’RE ALL HUMAN. STOP SPREADING HATE.

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[ “You know what? I’m non-binary and proud. I’ll be open about it and challenge the way people see gender! I’ll help change the world!”

"What the hell are you doing? This isn’t tumblr, this is the real world. Nobody’s going to hire you. Nobody will respect you. Stop being a child and grow up. Be realistic.”

"Nevermind." ]