This Is Me Trying.

• Amber • 30 • UK • Mumma • chronically, physically and mentally ill. • Looking for positivity • Follow my side blog @creatingpeaceformysoul •

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[ID: an animated pixel graphic of a row of white flowers with a butterfly flying along the length of it.]

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let’s destroy negativity :D

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Teach your children to appreciate nature and love their bodies and most importantly, to keep an open mind towards things and people they don’t understand.

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Be brave enough to persist for what you actually want. I promise you it will be worth it.

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“Whenever you are creating beauty around you, you are restoring your own soul.” ― Alice Walker

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I am begging you. Please learn about stress/discomfort tolerance. Practice raising it. You need this to survive. If someone online can ruin your day with a throwaway comment, you desperately need to understand discomfort tolerance and consciously, systematically build that shit.

Also! Stress tolerance is such an important skill that having a learning disability in that area is a major symptom of a whole lot of other disabilities/mental illnesses! Struggling with it is a huge part of life! It sucks!

Am I saying everyone with misophonia needs to listen to chewing noises all day? No. But you need to find ways to tolerate it enough that you don't treat others like shit if they make a mouth noise near you.

No, you don't have to read the fic with your trigger tags. But you do need to be able to handle scrolling past the tags without being upset.

It is hard! But not having it also makes you so so so easy to manipulate. That grandma is racist AF because her mom raised her to be uncomfortable around black people and she never fought that discomfort. Trans people make so many cis people uncomfortable and that discomfort turns into bigotry real fast.

Letting your discomfort dictate your actions and beliefs about things is a great way to become a terrible person. Learn. Discomfort. Tolerance.

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You should be able to say “don’t touch me” to anyone ever in any context and not have it be considered in the realm of surprising or insulting imho if we ever needed to normalize something it’s this

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You’re allowed to be excited about the little things. You’re allowed to be goofy. You’re allowed to be dorky about your favorite tv show, to make blanket forts, to enjoy cheesy movies, even just to sleep with stuffed animals. You’re allowed to do any of the things that make life a little more bearable. It’s fine, ok?

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02/11/18 // i will rearrange the stars, pull them down to where you are

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albino deer ♡

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