I’m in a marriage as the title says. My Daddy’s face also unlocks my phone. He has access to anything of mine but gives me free choice. He has ultimate control of our finances and is the sole breadwinner at this time. I defer to his decisions.
Edit: I have taken a job for two days a week in a professional setting. It’s been good for me. I get to wear nice outfits and interact with professionals.
I cook for him two or three meals a day. I do often miss breakfast these days as my sleep is disrupted often. I keep our home tidy and our yard beautiful.
We live a very normal life and are common out in public except I show him the utmost respect. I often say, ‘I will discuss that with my husband and get back to you.’ I will ask permission to get an alcoholic drink when we go out. He will order for me. He always drives.
At home, in private he prefers to be called Daddy or Sir. Our youngest child is turning 18 this month and will be up and out after graduation. So for now we must still be discreet.
Despite my kinks I am very self conscious but I strive to be pleasing and obedient. We have a robust sex life.
Next year, when we are empty nesters I expect our dynamic to really flourish. Daddy has always hinted at a cage and I am eager to not be confined to late night sex behind a locked door when my husband is actually quite tired.
My turn ons in our relationship:
Not knowing or understanding, being taught by Daddy
Being made to feel small and weak and taken care of
Doing what my husband tells me to do.
Daddy’s stern voice
Bondage and restraints. Gags or hood over my face as well sometimes
Free use
Slaps: on my face, my breasts, my pussy, my thighs
Daddy’s belt! It’s so soft and supple with a heavy brass buckle. I like it when he whips me with it or uses it to restrain me or leash me. I love to see him pull it off!
Oral sex, giving and receiving. It is so servile and intimate.
Anal sex- it puts me in my place mentally
Denial but not really. I think only am turned on by denial in extremely small doses. It can be hot bc I get so desperate and needy but it easily can take a bad turn to me feeling undesirable.
Serving my husband, meeting his needs -as we go about our day and doing what he instructs me to do to for his satisfaction in our bedroom
Discipline, especially spankings
My husband’s cock (it is perfection)
My husband’s body. He is tall and lean but strong with muscles that come from doing work in the woods and renovating our very old house. His hands. I love watching his long fingers when he’s typing engrossed in work. The clicking of the keys is a safe, soothing sound. It symbolizes the security he is providing me.
My husband’s intelligence and temperament. His wide range of skills and work ethic. His sacrifice and loyalty.
Well dressed men
Praise, genuine ’good girl!’s
Anticipation
Being silenced, by command or better yet gagged
Getting waxed (ouch but so good)
Intimately placed jewelry (plugs, chains, bells, beads, bracelets and anklets, wish I could wear a jewelry collar out in public but we live in a small town so that’s not appropriate)
Financial competency. Self control and good decision making skills.
A well used tool belt and the experience to know how to do things correctly. And the way a man looks when he wielding those tools!
Turn ons that are still in the fantasy stage or minimally actualized until kids are up and out:
Collared all day! (In the privacy of our home)
Sleeping on the floor but made comfortable (I tend to grope and pester when Daddy needs sleep)
Being forced and actually feeling scared- he hasn’t tapped into that yet.
Spending time caged
Sitting on the floor at his feet instead of next to him on the furniture
Spankings that push me past my limits and make me cry
Serious discipline for violating denial
Outdoor fun : but quietly. We wouldn’t want the neighbors to hear (that falls under nonconsensual) i like the feeling of water and breezes and sun on my skin. I like the idea of being prey. I like the idea of the harshness of nature and exposure.
Turn ons that likely will need to remain as fantasy only:
Being shared with other men in a way that reflects well on my husband and maintains his full ownership
Being fucked in all my holes by two or three men at once
Being submissive to Daddy with another submissive woman. Pleasing him with our mouths and holes together. I’d love to see my Daddy loose his mind with pleasure as he is stimulated in a way I cannot do alone. Maybe someday this could be bumped up to potential real life experience.
Kidnapping and rape, cnc, held captive
Full body restraint equipment that allows for use- let’s move this up a category to empty nest shall we?
Drugged and used and not knowing what happened or with who- can we bump this up too?
Put on display (within a consenting group)
Examination with medical equipment not by my husband bc that’s weird but by someone twisted and nefarious.
Wearing a subtle version of cuffs and a collar 24/7 even out in public. Never going to happen but in a fantasy world where it is an accepted lifestyle for some people and nobody else cared, just oh, that woman is fully owned.
Hard NOs
Bodily waste, cleanliness is critical
Suffocation with anything other than his hands
Nonconcent of any party (so nothing with public exposure bc anyone in the public is not consenting)
Photos or videos taken
Pretending to be something I’m not, like a dog (eye roll). Let’s just be real.
Caning, or breaking the skin barrier: it’s simply too much
Being in charge in any way at all, topping
