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[spankings4u]

keeping him in place while spanking him

If your partner tends to bounce around, squirm, and try to get off your lap, ladies, the solution is easy.

INn this position over one knee, and his legs held together by your thing, he is not going anywhere. Note also that in this position, he either has his hands supporting him, or his face is on the carpet.

It can be used wih half his body on a sofa or bed

when using a paddle firmly

or some combination also using your hand to keep him in place

[bigsouthoftheborder]

My wife uses that same technique on me when I am spanked. My spanking are very painful and I like to squirm about or anything I can to prevent her from spanking me. But her legs and thighs are very powerful and they do hold me in place. I know I deserve to be spanked but I hate the pain.

I am glad my usually sits me down and we calmly talk about the problems and issues in our marriage, and if they are my fault, I have to nicely ask her to spank me. That seems like that is the right thing to do. This way we don't fight or argue like other couples because my wife quickly resolves them so they never happen again.

Because my wife and I are both Christians, I do trust my wife's judgement. Even when we were dating, I did feel she knew me better than I know myself. She does know when I should confess things to her and she knows when I try to lie to her. Ever since I met my wife on our first date, I have felt we do have a special bond.

So I know I should be held accountable for what I say and do. My mother did that when I was growing up and I am glad my wife does it now. My wife and I do feel that our marriage was meant to be.

[lumasoc]

[bigsouthoftheborder]

I am glad I found a wife that spanks me and since we are Christians, we do have the same beliefs and values. They do include accountability, justice, and doing the right thing. I feel I should be held accountable for my words and actions. My mother held me accountable when I was growing up so I am okay with my wife doing it now.

I was being disrespectful to my wife by showing up late for our dates, so I am glad she spanked me. Since it was love at first sight when I first saw my wife, and she was more educated than me with a Masters Degree, plus she lead a Bible study, so I did feel I could trust her judgement. I am glad she watches over me and spanks me so I do the right thing.

I do feel our marriage was meant to be.

[spank4kerl77]

[sammydavissr-deactivated2019010]

In her class you will put your phone away.

[bigsouthoftheborder]

When I attended school, my teachers were able to spank me. It was called after school detention and I would have to bend over her desk and then she would lower my pants and underwear and spank me. Next, she would send me home with a note that one of my parents had to sign and I would have to bring it back to school the next day.

But my mom was friends with my teachers and the woman Principal of the school. She would often invite them over for dinner and then they would discuss my behavior in class. I would then be spanked by my teacher in front of my family. I have an older sister and she was allowed to watch me get spanked too. It was always on my bare bottom, as usual.

But my dad was a traveling salesman so my discipline was left to my mom.

[bigsouthoftheborder]

Before I met my wife, I was always late for my dates. I am not very good at anticipating how much time it takes to arrive somewhere.

On this date I arrived late and she was determined to give me a twenty minute spanking. After about fifteen minutes, I told her I couldn't take it anymore and I asked her to please stop. She said that she would allow to so stand up and rub my bottom but I would still have to go over her knee for the remaining five minutes.

So I did have to go across her knee for the five minutes. I did have to take her to an expensive place to eat and she did give me a pillow to sit on. She did talk calmly about my spanking while we ate and what was expected of me if I wanted to keep dating her. If I remember right, I think I did go on one more date with her but she did break up with me.

That is why I gave up dating for a while because none of my dates weren't working out for me. If seemed like I would go out on just one or two dates and that was it. Plus most of these women weren't Christians, and I wanted a Christian woman in my life.

That is why on my first date with my wife, it was not only love at first sight with her but she told me that she was also leading a Bible Study for younger women. Also, I found out that she was better educated than me too. She had a Masters Degree and she was already in a high paying job in upper management. So I did feel I had to walk her to her car and I did give her a kiss.

It did feel that our date and our relationship was meant to be. I feel so lucky that she did eventually did marry me, although I am spanked. But my mother had spanked me when I was growing up and some of my other dates had spanked me when I was late for dates, so I did except being spanked by my wife when we were dating and now after we are married. I do feel it is one of the best decisions I made in my life. I am so thankful.

[beautiful-when-she-s-angry-too]

I Didn't Find That Funny 54

[bigsouthoftheborder]

Your wife should always be respected and obeyed. My wife would spank me if I said that. We are both Christians and we do share the same beliefs and values which do include accountability, justice and doing the right thing. So she is holding him accountable for what he said. To me that is justice. He should also thank her for spanking him because that is the right thing to do.

I am glad my wife watches over me and spanks me. That way I am a better husband and a better man. She does give me what I need but I may not want. I am glad she married me. It was love at first sight on our first date and I feel our marriage was meant to be. I do love her and I do trust her judgement. I had a choice to make before my first spanking from my wife and I did choose to be spanked. I knew I deserved it and it was the right thing to do.

[deniedbetahusband4]

[bigsouthoftheborder]

My wife and I made a pledge when we got married to always tell each other the truth so I do have to confess to her, even if it means I will be spanked.

[spankingtushynthegiblets]

[bigsouthoftheborder]

The way problems or issues are resolved in most relationships. This way they never reoccur again. That has always been the case in my relationships and in my marriage. But I am still grateful she married me.

[ungezogener-bengel]

[bigsouthoftheborder]

When I was dating my wife, I was late for dates and she did warn me that if I was late again I would be spanked. We had only kissed and hugged and she did explain to me why it was being disrespectful to her. I was spanked by my mother growing up and she did teach me to always respect and obey females all of the time. So I did feel I deserved to be spanked so I assumed the position that my mom had taught me.

We did eventually get married but we both felt that our marriage was meant to be.

[thistimeiwantyouto]

…and it’s time i show you how much, love…

original caption by this time i want you to

[bigsouthoftheborder]

My wife does love me and cares about me, plus she does hold me accountable for my words and actions. I trust her judgement and I am glad she married me. I have to thank her for spanking me too, because that seems like the respectable thing to do. I respect and obey her and we did promise we would always tell the truth to each other and I do that even though I know I will be spanked. We both are Christians and we both feel our marriage was meant to be.

[betablogloser]

Who is in charge ...

[bigsouthoftheborder]

Sometimes when I have been with other guys I do feel since I am male, I should be in charge. When I come home and I still have that attitude, my wife always reminds me that she is in charge. But I am glad that she married me and things are better her way. As it was meant to be.

[beautiful-when-she-s-angry-too]

Assertive Young Ladies #25-22-1

[bigsouthoftheborder]

I hate it but when I need a spanking and there is no other place for her to spank me, then she does lead me into the ladies room. It is so humiliating when other women see me with my pants and undies at my knees, but I also understand it must be done. When I respect my wife when we are in public places, then I deserve to be spanked.

Even when this happens, I am still glad my wife married me. And even when I am exposed like that with a well spanked bottom, I still have to thank may wife for spanking me. Since both my wife and I are Christians, it seems like it is the right thing to thank her after I have been spanked. My spankings help me to be a better husband and a better man. Since it was love at first sight when I first met my wife. it seems like our marriage was meant to be.

[bigsouthoftheborder]

I live in the United States and for one year I went to a men's college. I did get in trouble with the headmaster and one time this happened. I had no choice but to obey her. She did spank me as hard or even harder than the headmaster, so I did cry. It was so embarrassing too.

[maturedommes2]

[slipperme18]

👍🏻

[bigsouthoftheborder]

I embarrassed my wife at the party and we finally got home. This always happens next and I must obey her and get spanked. My wife like to make sure I am always spanked as soon as possible so I can like my spanking to what I did to deserve it. That helps me to never do that again. But this way I am a better husband and a better man and I am still grateful she married me. I need to be nude when I go to bed because that's the way she likes me; so now I need to be nude for my spanking.

I am glad that both of us are Christians and we do share the same beliefs and values so I do know I should be spanked and therefore I must obey her without any complaints. Her spanking will make me cry so it will be easier to fall asleep and then when I wake up, my bare bottom will still be hurting.

[indyspanko]

[bigsouthoftheborder]

In my marriage, after church every Sunday is my maintenance spanking. It all started after we first got married because I usually did embarrass my wife during church and she needed to spank me. So now it is called a maintenance spanking because I am spanked if I needed or not.

But my maintenance spanking does help me obey better and this way we can discuss any problems or issues in our marriage and they can be quickly resolved. I am glad both of us are Christians and we do have the same beliefs and values that do include accountability, justice, and doing the right thing. This way I can worship God in the morning and worship my wife after the church service.

But I do trust my wife's judgement and she seems to know me even better than I know myself. She does knows when I should apologize to her and she always knows when I am not telling her the whole truth. My spankings and her rules do give me the structure I need and I am grateful she did marry me. It seems like it was meant to be.

[gutofan]

[bigsouthoftheborder]

At least this way he stays in position for his spanking. It does look like she is his tutor and he was too lazy to do his assignment.

[robert-otk]

That's what a strict spanking wife does

[bare-bottom-lover]

Absolutely

[bigsouthoftheborder]

That is what my wife does. It's so embarrassing but that way I do learn my lesson. But at the party we will be attending, most everyone knows already that my wife spanks me. Since my wife sometimes works evenings and weekends, when I need a spanking she will send over one of her friends to spank me. This party is full of her friends, and most of the women there have already spanked me.

[heelsspank]

[bigsouthoftheborder]

This is the best way for relationships to work, between a man and a woman. The woman is thoughtful, using her brain before she says of does anything, and is a lot smarter than a male. When she says she is going to do anything, it gets done on time and the best way possible.

Males tend to just react to things without thinking, they are lazy and late all of the time, they tend to do the least possible and try to get away with it, plus they don't bath enough and they aren't concerned that they are overweight slobs.

That is why males do need the rules and structure that only women can provide. Also, they should be held accountable for their words and actions. They also discipline in their lives so they don't make the same mistakes over and over again.

At least that has my experience with women. My mother spanked me when I was growing up as well as my school teachers, the woman Principal of the school, my Sunday School teachers, and my babysitters, as well as many of my dates.

This is how I feel it was meant to be and my prospective on female/male relationships. No wonder there are more female led relationships than ever before. I am glad I am in a FLR marriage and my wife spanks me, because I know I deserve it and it needs to be that way. I do feel my marriage was meant to be.