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[spankings4u]

A very slow learner

Unfortunately, somedays every spanked person is like this. You were spanked, and then somehow you think you have a free pass for behavior at least for the same day

and thus, with his bottom already ready, she is about to start a new harder spanking

[bigsouthoftheborder]

Many times I don't think before I speak or I get mad and I regret what I have said or did. So then I earn myself another spanking. At that point, I have to trust my wife's judgement and just obey her and get spanked. This does make my wife happy and I am forgiven, that is the only bright side of getting a well deserved second spanking.

I am still glad my wife married me and both of us feel our marriage was meant to be. I still feel I have a loving and caring wife and she proves it to me by spanking me.

[female-supremacy-now]

[bigsouthoftheborder]

All of my bosses have been women and I accept female authority, I am also in a FLR marriage. I accept her authority over me.

[xxspankingxx]

[lovesoldmovies-blog]

Oh my

[bigsouthoftheborder]

When I have disobeyed her or not followed her rues, I have to tell her and accept my discipline. It makes my wife happy and I know I have been forgiven. I trust my wife's judgement and she knows what's best for me and our marriage.

[cruella2]

[bigsouthoftheborder]

I had to learn to behave better when my wife's mother visited us. After that spanking, it did change my behavior. Her mother was allowed to spank me too.

[cruella2]

Die sehr strenge Klavierlehrerin hat ihren eigenen ganz speziellen Methoden ihren Schülern das Klavierspielen beizubringen! Sie ist damit sehr erfolgreich!

The very strict piano teacher has her own very special methods of teaching her students how to play the piano! She is very successful with it! 

La professeure de piano très stricte a ses propres méthodes très spéciales pour apprendre à ses élèves à jouer du piano ! Elle a beaucoup de succès avec ça !

[bigsouthoftheborder]

I had to take piano lessons when I was growing up and I was spanked if I didn't practice. Later on I learned to play the trombone and tuba, so my spanking did help me learn to play the piano and read music. I am grateful for my piano teacher and her discipline. Growing up, we did have an upright piano in our house.

[miss--strict]

[bigsouthoftheborder]

Those are the rules in our marriage too. I am glad my wife married me and watches over me. I trust her judgement and I know I have deserved every spanking I have received. My wife even spanked me when we were dating and that did show me how much she cared about me. When we were married, I did tell her that I would always respect and obey her.

[leaspm]

Quand tu as de visu la confirmation que la maman de ton copain Igor est vachement sévère : à 18 ans ? c’est abusé !

[bigsouthoftheborder]

When I was growing up, my dad was a traveling salesman so my discipline was left to my mom. She did teach me to respect and obey all females all of the time. I am glad she cared enough about me to discipline me. That did help me become a better man when I grew up.

[6164ekim]

Alpha females need their bate boys.

[bigsouthoftheborder]

It is an amazing relationship that works. I knew my wife was an Alpha woman even on our first date. She also disciplines me as needed too. People do feel like we are the perfect couple and we do too. Both of us feel our marriage was meant to be.

[6164ekim]

Maintenance spanking for her subby hubby, her kept man, her property.

[bigsouthoftheborder]

My wife has a very important and high paying job in management, so of course I did volunteer to stay at home and do the chores. My wife also did spank me when we were dating, so I knew our marriage would be a FLR marriage where I was spanked. But I still feel grateful that my wife married me and both of us feel our marriage was meant to be.

[stanleysowner1]

[dobojedobo]

discipline is crucial in a marriage

[bigsouthoftheborder]

Discipline plays a big part in our marriage too. We promised each other that we would always tell each other the truth we got married and I have to do that even though I will be spanked. But ever since I received my first spanking from my wife when we were dating, I have trusted my wife judgement. Although my spankings make me cry, they make me a better husband and a better man. They also make my wife happy and I am forgiven. Both of us do feel that our marriage was meant to be.

[spankings4u]

Your wife enjoys spanking you!

She smiles when she is about to spank you!

bottoms up

[bigsouthoftheborder]

Ever since my wife first spanked me when we were dating, it does make my wife feel happy when she spanks me. I also feel forgiven so it it a win-win situation for our marriage. I was always taught to respect and obey all females all of the time, and that is true for our marriage too. I know I deserve every spanking I have received and we do discuss our marriage at least twice a week. When I know any problems or issues in our marriage, I have to ask nicely ask my wife to spank me. Then I obey her and get spanked. This way we don't argue or fight like other couples and other couples feel we have a perfect, happy marriage. I do feel that way too and both of us feel our marriage was meant to be.

[spankings4u]

frequency of my real spankings increases rapidly

Cindy has for the most part accepted the idea of spanking me, and to keep spanking frequently, until a behaviuor she dislikes disappears. This is totally new for us.

I have a bad tendency of saying: "you should have done...." and she wants me to think before I speak, and choose a nicer way of saying a suggestion than you SHOULD HAVE.

Normally, spankings are on the spot, but not frequently, and only when she is upset about something I have done, or that stress over time has me asking for a spanking. 

Ccurrently it is "tough love"

Thr bath brush has been used each time, and having been spanked two days in a row significantly (Sunday and Monday), I was much better on Tuesday. Unfortunately, I used the "should have done" expression today, so will be spanked before dinner.

My bottom is still sore from the two days of spanking; so we shall see if I can actually learn to think before speaking, or will another spanking be needed after today.

Today's spanking has occured, and it was significant.Bare bottom, raised  by two pillows, at the corner of the bed. The corner means that my legs are spread quite wide, one on each side of teh corner as far apart as possible. Cindy used the tawse, and it reached inside the crease between the buttocks at times, but also was used significantly where the bottom reaches the top of the legs, and simply further down the top of the back of the legs also. (visited frequently during this spanking) No warm-up was given, just very strong spanks from start to finish. It was extremely effective, with a pause in the middle to review why I was being spanked, but also so Cindy could regain her breath to begin a second round of totally strong spanks.

Not my bottom, but very similar markings except they also went lower.                                                                 A question: Have spankings worked for you to stop a specific behavior?

thought for today

bottoms up

RED

the above is my real description of my married life with the woman of my dreams

[subdrc64]

Yes please

[bigsouthoftheborder]

I have a similar FLR marriage and I have learned that "Discipline is Love", even when I was a naughty little boy growing up. I am glad my wife married me and both of us feel our marriage was meant to be. I am a better husband and man because of my spankings. I know I get mad and I say and do things I regret later. I also realize I just react to things without thinking too. My wife does give me the discipline I need that I may not want. I trust her judgement and I have learned that she is always right. Ever since I first met her, I did know she was smarter than me and better than me too.

[vaquero1066]

[mary333]

Hubby being reminded who is the Head of Household

[ck-spanky]

happy home. But maybe hubbie not so much!

[lovesoldmovies-blog]

Oh my

[slipperme18]

👋😫

[bigsouthoftheborder]

It was love at first sight when I first met my wife. I loved her big breasts, her golden long hair, her dominant personality, her commanding voice, and even though I am taller than she is, she is bigger.

Also I observed that other men liked to do things for her. When we took to Mexico, the men treated her like the "Goddess" she is. Even when we were dating, she had a bigger house than me and drove a bigger, newer car than me. On our dates, she drove her car and she drove me where she wanted to go.

So when I showed late for our first three dates, she did warn me that I would be spanked if I showed up late again. At that point I had already told her that my mom had spanked me when I was growing up. So on our next date, I was late. There was a note on her front door to knock on the door and then to enter for my spanking.

I felt like I didn't want to be spanked but I the same time I did want to eventually marry her. So when I entered her house, she was sitting on a chair with her hairbrushes next to her.

"I am glad that you realize that you deserve to be spanked. I really like you too, but right now I need to spank you. Please stand next to me with your hands on your head and obey me without saying a word."

Even though we had only hugged and kissed until then, I had to stand there while she lowered and took off my pants and underwear. It was embarrassing but I felt I had to obey her. Before I knew it, I was across her knee and in a leg lock.

"I hope you realize that you deserve this spanking and it is your own fault. If you want to keep dating me, then you will receive more spankings if I feel you deserve them"

All I could do was to agree with her and allow her to spank me. I first felt her hands on my bare bottom and then this pain and sting from her hairbrushes. She spanked me until I cried. I felt that she spanked me because she cared about me and wanted me to be a better boyfriend.

I still had to take her out to eat and to watch a movie. I felt like a naughty little boy again and at the restaurant, she did order for me. Before we left her house, she did give me a pillow to sit on.

Now that we are married, I am glad she did give me that first embarrassing spanking that I deserved. Since both of us are Christians. we do share the same beliefs and values which do include accountability, justice and doing the right thing. I feel I should be held accountable for my words and actions. She also taught me to thank her after every spanking and I agree with her because that is the right thing to do. I also ended up selling my little house and moving into her big house. I had to get used to doing things her way and up to her standards so I received many more spankings and I still receive spankings. But that way any problems or issues are quickly resolved so they never happen again.

[bigsouthoftheborder]

Before I met my wife, I dated a woman for two years that owned and trained horses and she was also a school teachers. We did even look at houses to live in too. She also took me to some horse and tackle shots where she bought crops and whips.

She did teach me to obey her and how to be a better boyfriend. At one point I did think she was going to marry me but she did find someone else to marry. The memory of her still sticks in my head.

[boys-and-complaints]

Strong women in the office and a ridiculous man.

[bigsouthoftheborder]

When I have worked for women bosses in large corporations, I have been sent down to the HR department. I really needed to keep my job and I have told them that I would do anything to keep my job. I did explain to them that I had been spanked by my mother growing up and I was wondering if they would be willing to spank me. They did accept my proposal and I was spanked. Sometimes, depending on what I did wrong, I would have to report to HR for weekly spankings. It was with it to me because that way I was able to keep my job and I didn't receive a cut in pay. I feel that women should be in charge because they do care about everyone and they are very understanding

[bigsouthoftheborder]

My mind does become easily distracted when I do things and I have been like that all of my life. It has also gotten me in trouble when I was attending school and at my work. So when my wife tells me to pick up a few things from the grocery store right before I leave for home, I do often forget. Then my wife spanks me because I did forget.

I feel I deserve those spankings because I should pay more attention to what my wife says. Often, after my spanking, I have to go back to the grocery store and pick up the things my wife wanted. Many times I know the checkout woman at the grocery store can see that I have been crying and then I feel she knows I have been spanked.

I am still glad my wife married me and my spankings do make me a better husband and a better man. Both my wife and I feel that our marriage was meant to be.

[nomad453d]

[bigsouthoftheborder]

When I see my wife like this, I know I will be spanked and there is also nothing I can say or do to stop her. But I do trust my wife's judgement and I am glad she married me and watches over me. My spankings do make me a better husband and a better man. My wife is smarter than I am and she does know me better than I know myself. I also realize that I have deserved every spanking I have received. Both of us do agree that our marriage was meant to be.