Coming Out: A View From Inside the Closet @bihidden-blog - Tumblr Blog

Just did some reorganizing on this blog!

If you click the link at the top that says "My Coming Out Story" you go to the first story I wrote here.

If you click on "My Story - Complete Version" You'll get all the posts that I tagged "My Story." Which explains how I got from that first post to here! Enjoy!

Basically, I did this because I reblogged a ton of stuff that wasn't particularly relevant, and this is a better way for you to skip all that stuff if you want!

Well, here's an interesting update

I'm pretty much out to everyone from college, my parents, and all my high school friends. Extended family is a different story. I just haven't had the need to come out to them.

A few months ago, I moved to Rice Lake, and I'm living with my grandma. I have a bunch of family in this area, and I really dont know many other people. I'm basically not out around here at all.

I got a text from a Wisconsin phone number about a half hour ago that said: "Hey sweetie u do know it is ok to be out and loud and proud! We support u!!"

I had no idea who it was, and I started thinking about who it could possibly be. Finally, I texted back and just asked who it was. It was one of my coworkers. I don't care that she knows, but it made me think.

It made me think about how I've actually gone back into the closet in many ways since moving here. Most of the people I interact with on a daily basis don't know. And as much as I say that it doesn't matter, the fact that my mind started racing, wondering who had figured it out, it pisses me off. I haven't felt that vulnerable or nervous for 3 years. It does matter. The people who "love" me don't know who I am. I drive an hour to go to a gay bar so I can interact with other people. I do this a couple times a week. It's not healthy. I'm not sure if I'm going to just go ahead and come out to everyone, but something has got to change. I hate living here, and it's because I can't be who I want to be who I am.

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ALL 5.03 “The Quarterback” AUDIO CLIPS

Glee Pays homage to Finn Hudson by singing “Seasons Of Love”.

Kurt reminisces about Finn before returning to Lima for a special memorial that Will Schuester is planning.

Emma addresses her concern for Will’s grieving on Finn’s passing.

To mourn Finn’s passing, Sue has erected a memorial garden.

Santana gives her memorial remembrance to the glee club by singing “If I Die Young”.

Rachel shares her thoughts & feelings for Finn with the glee club by singing “Make You Feel My Love”.

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All the feels...

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shit that makes me sad.. Okay? Okay.

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I will always reblog this. Always.

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James and Lily reading Tales of Beedle the Bard: Pop up version to Harry

Which he’ll never remember

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CAN YOU PLEASE NOT

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Reasons why Harry Potter is life.

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So a while ago I posted up a snippet of a working version of a song I wrote based on John Green’s novel, The Fault In Our Stars. Since then, i’ve been working on an extremely rewarding, exciting video project to go along with the song, but with travel setbacks, the video is at least a month and a half away. So i thought i’d give you the 99% finished full version of the song tonight. Hope you guys like it. Keep in mind that it’s only the third song i’ve ever written and i made it with my keyboard in my bedroom without knowing how to play keyboard so it mAY NOT BE PERFECT.

CLICK HURR FOR LYRICS.

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Amazing.

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i found it

the ugliest shoe ever

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i see your high heeled sandal and raise you an uggs/crocs hybrid with toes

the anti-christ of footwear

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Today would have been Mr Rogers’ 84th birthday. Thanks for showing me how to rock a cardigan and always been a kind neighbor.

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true story:

one time some dudes stole mr. rogers’s car, and it got into the news, like you’d expect

the next day the car was back where he’d left it with a note that said “we’re so sorry, we never would’ve taken it if we’d known it was yours”

I like to think they recognized this as a sign from god and turned their lives around

another true story: mr. rogers lobbied in favor of vcrs back when the tv and movie industries were against them, because he wanted families to be able to record shows and watch them together

he was always, always thinking about children, letting them know it’s okay to be sad or scared or mad and how to deal with it, letting them know there’s at least one person in the world who loves them just the way they are

and no matter who you were, no matter why you crossed his path, he wanted to know about your life and understand you and be your friend

I believe he is a for-real saint and I wish I could be more like him but it’s okay, I know he loves me just the way I am

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Another true story: one time he received a letter from a blind girl who mentioned that she gets nervous sometimes that he’d forget to feed the fish. From that moment on, he made some comment outloud about how he was feeding the fish so she and any other blind viewers would know that he hadn’t forgotten.