[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“In order to move on, you must understand why you felt what you did and why you no longer need to feel it.”

— Mitch Albom

[freshprincesubs]

“How come he don’t want me, man?”   Season 4, Episode 24: Papa’s Got A Brand New Excuse

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“It’s not who you are that holds you back. It’s who you think you are.”

— Unknown

[just-shower-thoughts]

Mistakes make you smarter. Yet after you make one, you are treated as if you were dumber

[whitneyehouston]

Whitney houston Rare star spangled banner.

1991

[11-bubbles]

When you finally move on and away from those types of people, focus on yourself. When you do its amazing the kind of people youll naturally attract. 🧡

[rebootera]

im still crying

[berniesrevolution]

[blacksocialists]

Happy Birthday, Fred.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“You cannot change what you refuse to confront.”

— Unknown

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Stay afraid but do it anyway. What’s important is the action. You don’t have to wait to be confident. Just do it and eventually the confidence will follow.”

— Carrie Fisher

[philosophybits]

“The surest way to corrupt a youth is to instruct him to hold in higher esteem those who think alike than those who think differently.”

— Friedrich Nietzsche, The Dawn

[theemotionmachine]

“You can’t change the facts of the past, but you can add new layers of meaning to it. By revisiting it, writing about it, using it as an outlet for creative expression…you can slowly reconstruct how you view your past and how it fits into the narrative of your life.”

— Steven Handel, Self-Improvement Coach (via theemotionmachine)

[philosophybits]

“Be not hasty in making friends; and do not cast off those whom you have made.”

— Solon, in Lives and Opinions of Eminent Philosophers, by Diogenes Laërtius

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Spend your time with people who make you happy - not with people you have to impress.”

— Unknown

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to be your own best friend

1. Treat yourself the way you would treat a person who you loved, valued, and cared about.

2. Always love yourself – no matter what!

3. Only say positive, compassionate, understanding and affirming things about, and to, yourself.

4. Hold your own hand in tough and stressful times. Don’t abandon yourself, or let yourself down.

5. Respect yourself, and the efforts that you’re making to be a better person, and to change and to grow.

6. Understand your limitations, be patient with yourself. Accept that it takes time to master anything.

7. Be kind to yourself when you feel self-critical, or you want to be judgmental and hard on yourself.

[philosophybits]

“If we only wanted to be happy it would be easy; but we want to be happier than other people, which is almost always difficult, since we think them happier than they are.”

— Montesquieu, Pensées

[just-shower-thoughts]

People who like rocks see cool rocks everywhere. People who like birds see interesting birds everywhere. The tree on your yard could be an exceptional specimen. The world around you could be amazing and magical, but you aren’t enough of a nerd to see it.