I wish more people...cis and trans...understood that transitioning and passing is just not possible for a lot of us and never will be. I’m so tired of the trans narrative being focused on this supposedly universal experience.
I’m extremely disabled. I will probably never be able to transition in any capacity. I am dependent on my bigoted family and on a bigoted medical system to survive. HRT could hurt my body very badly and I cannot bind because of chronic chest pain. I cannot have top surgery for those same reasons.
There’s so much more to being a man, woman, non-binary than how you can present yourself. And a lot of us are trying desperately to come to terms with that. With the idea of being closeted forever or just straight up trying to navigate our own identies among other trans people more privileged than us.
[everyone can reblog but don't clown on this post, no t*rfs, no tr*sc*m]
👏 HUGE HUGE HUGE AGREE 👏
It’s so fucking frustrating. And frankly I’m getting pissed off because tucking and binding are dangerous! I get so worried, especially with trans youth who could really hurt themselves 😰 being told you HAVE to conform to this presentation or you aren’t trans, pushing it as the ONLY way to feel better if you're dysphoric is not safe! It’s not helpful!
okay everyone
somehow people missed this.
cis people, any kind of ‘I’m cis but....' or 'I don’t understand but...' comments are completely unasked for, you can reblog posts without adding commentary.
more pressing though, this post is absolutely not the place to goof around and act cutesy. your voice is not needed here. please learn how to listen to and boost trans voices by themselves.
I am talking about disability and the health and safety of real goddamn people, do not infantilize my words.
I’m genderqueer, which means I fall under the trans umbrella, and I confuse the shit out of people when I say I don’t feel the need to transition. It’s very simple, really: if I were going to swap anything I’ve got for anything else, it’d be a deeper voice and a penis. I’m not satisfied with the (very very expensive) options for getting a penis and I don’t want to deal with the facial hair that comes with testosterone for the voice, and I actually like my boobs most of the time, so.....no transition it is. I’m okay with that. It doesn’t make me “more cis” to feel that way. And if you have a problem with it, I need you to examine closely why you feel it should be distressing to you what I choose to do with MY BODY.



















