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livin on the east coast just tryin to make it

[consciousnessexpansionpack]

Before you become a sex worker,...

This job will isolate you. You have to be prepared to see the world differently. And be aware that the world will see you differently. Good luck making friends without playing 20 questions about your job. Have fun finding a partner, because not many people are willing to be with you. Eventually your co workers will be the only ones who understand you. This job will isolate you.

Before you become a sex worker, ask yourself

How do you feel about isolation?

[newyorkbackpage-blog]

#escorts 

[kimreesesdaughter]

Some of y’all are so beautiful and funny, goal oriented and shit. I can’t believe niggas is playing y’all. Stupid. 

[yallstillhere]

[thesnobbyartsyblog]

Who is she?

[dabeatnik]

give her all the awards

[theryanproject]

She a real one

[hypnotic-flow]

stay healthy, keep the hive alive

[mangopapi-deactivated20210928]

Ima be the unlce screaming “Freebandzgang ”

[zenmister]

Attachment and Love

If love leads to happiness and attachment leads to suffering, how can we expect to love without attachment? Love is bigger than attachment. Love is a force that binds us all together. Attachment is what happens when we think of ourselves as separate. As soon as we think of ourselves as something other than what we love, we start grabbing onto love and that grabbing causes us pain.

Buddhism teaches us that attachment causes suffering. It is the glue of desire. When we desire something that we don’t have, or that we imagine we don’t have, we start to suffer. The suffering is not in the having as much as in the imagining. We attach to ideas about what we are and what love is. We imagine that we are lovable or not lovable. We base our happiness on being loved by a certain person in a certain way. When we are happy in love, love seems to work that way. When we are sad in love, love seems to be missing. Love is always there. Other people’s love for us does not make us happy. Loving makes us happy.

When somebody loves us, and that love awakens the love in us, we will feel happy. If we attach that feeling of happiness to love, when the happiness goes away, we may imagine that the love has gone away too. Happiness comes and goes. Love is eternal. When we attach to things that go away, we feel the pain of loss. When our happiness comes and goes with our thoughts about how we are loved, we like regular reassurances that we are loved. We are loved. Rest assured.

Love is easy. Relationships are hard. In love we are one. In relationships we are two. When we become two, we begin looking at ourselves as though in a mirror. If we don’t love what we see, we are probably attached to an idea of what love should be. If we do love what we see, we feel happy.

[fashionistasrus-deactivated2017]

[sfbrownsugar]

#truth

[howtogrowthefuckup]

Important Tax Links to Know

The IRS Homepage - [note the .gov]

Do I Need to File a Tax Return?

Which Form Do I Need? (1040, 1040A, or 1040EZ)

Authorized e-file Provider - Find an authorized e-file provider who can electronically file your tax return.

Free Tax Prep Volunteer Finder - For individuals who make less than $50K a year. All volunteers have to pass a test in order to do this!

Tax Payer Assistance Center - For in-person walk-ins

[cashrulezbisous]

[chimaeragray]

Private Sex Worker Forum

Hello! @norahgg and I got the irrits with feeling isolated as sex workers, so Norah decided to kick it like its 2005 and made a forum specifically for sex workers, run by sex workers. 

All sex workers are invited to join (fssw, cammers, pro dom(mes), dancers, pornographers, etc) and contribute (and give feedback!). 

Please send me an Ask and/or IM for the link to the forum, and we can approve your membership request once you sign up! (We need to be able to verify you’re a SW though, okay? We just want our peeps to be safe!)

[chimaeragray]

I’m going to bed, so anyone that sends me messages will have to wait until I get up! 

I’m working on bulking out the main informational threads tomorrow, but a few are up already.

If you’ve already got forum access please to be sending your feedback! 

and don’t forget to message to ask for forum access, and also SIGNAL BOOST to any sex workers you know. We want diversity! Sex workers teaching other sex workers!

[be-blackstar]

Honestly these cheating/side chick/I hate my girl/hiding my phone jokes/memes are so exhausting.

Like is the punchline that you don’t want to be in a relationship? Were all these men forced to be in relationships?

[blackcontemporaryart]

Blackness is a technology in and of itself. The way we survive and thrive has always been contingent on building technologies against the system that sets us up to fail.

Kimberly Drew, Founder of @blackcontemporaryart in The Lenny Interview: Kimberly Drew, aka @MuseumMammy​​ with Doreen St. Felix (via wavesoftware)

[mcdyke-deactivated20171112]

Hi, I am writing a paper for about sex worker rights and I am just wondering, what's your opinion on decriminalizing prostitution? It's my first time writing a paper of this nature and I want to make sure that I will write about what will protect women the most, which I can't seem to tell with this subject! I am asking you because everything you say is logical and makes more sense to me than a lot of mainstream articles. Thanks and I hope you can point me in the right direction.

research the Nordic Model. yeah, it’s not perfect - but it’s my idea of a good bridging situation to reach the end goal of complete abolition. basically, johns and pimps will be in trouble and the prostitutes won’t. it empathizes with the fact that prostitution isn’t a regular job, that women entering it are often coerced by men, poverty, schooling, drug addictions etc. - and anyone that sees joining prostitution as the same as working at mcdonald’s deserves to be shot tbh

the nordic model is a good short term goal. a long term goal for prostitution would be putting extreme pressure on the government to fund the exiting women. give them free education, free help to find a job, free housing - whatever it takes. make them feel supported. make them feel like they have another option - not just prostitution. this would be a good follow on from the nordic model because hopefully with the lack of clients, the government will step in to pick up the pieces. the women will still be in poverty regardless, so it’s the government’s responsibility to find an alternative for them that’ll keep them healthy and safe!

for more stuff, look at my tags page (the link’s on my blog)

[hallethequeen]

Hey let’s take away my choice of work, one that fits my needs and lifestyle to throw me back into school- because look at how successful school is to getting a well paying job these days and also if you disagree with me you should be shot

Ignorant shit. Why the fuck does Tumblr promote these posts on my dash because of the tags get lost cunt

[arcanalovesyou-deactivated20170]

“this would be a good follow on from the nordic model because hopefully with the lack of clients, the government will step in to pick up the pieces. the women will still be in poverty regardless, so it’s the government’s responsibility to find an alternative for them that’ll keep them healthy and safe!” AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA sounds likely A++ Do we all get shot before or after we’re saved from The Menz? And how come radfems are always more abusive, threatening and scary than the guys I see?

[arcanalovesyou-deactivated20170]

OH SORRY I FORGOT! It’s because we’re not the real prostituted women, we’re just the empowered minority talking over those poor abused women. You can tell which ones we are because we have access to the internet. 

[octopusghostcouncil]

This is absolute trash. The government has never ONCE prioritised the safety and welfare of impoverished women. Why do you want us all to starve so badly? Why do you demand that I live my life on welfare when I am PERFECTLY CAPABLE AND WILLING to earn an income that for once in my fucking life pushes me over the poverty line.

Decriminalise, there are MILLIONS of sex workers calling for decriminalisation and you won’t fucking listen to us because in your mind we are impoverished women, unable and incapable of articulating what we need. If YOU don’t listen to us now, what on earth makes you think the government would listen to us after they’ve criminalised and stigmatised us?

Your opinion is toxic and actively harmful to more lives than you can comprehend. I suggest you reconsider spewing hate speech and calling it activism, it’s shameful.

[pedantic-pepperoni-deactivated2]

we’re either impoverished an incapable of knowing our own needs or we’re the privileged elite talking over everyone else according to swerfs. Either way they think they can speak for us and have very little understanding of what the reality of sex work is like. If my clients ever disrespected me and other sex workers the way these people claiming to support us do they would be blacklisted. 

Let’s face it if they had any respect for us they would stop using the word prostitute when repeatedly asked to. 

[theescortbunny-blog]

😞

[kerryrenaissance]

The government does crap for the impoverished now. Leaving sex workers with no clients – and therefore no income – will not “force the government to step in”. It will force people to starve and die.

That’s not a solution. That’s a sentence.

Or maybe you think the government will step in as it often has and still continue to arrest sex workers, providing them with a cell and food while extorting cheap labor from them – while still often subjecting them to rape and abuse as well as loss of freedom and loved ones?

That’s also the model the rescue industry uses, except they use it to their profit, not the government.

“It’s not perfect” is a piss-poor excuse to enact something that will do greater harm to people trying to survive. Fix the flaws. Listen to those you are affecting – _really_ listen, not just say, “oh, I see this person on tumblr, they must be privileged and unrepresentative”.

Or stay out of it entirely, and let sex workers speak and act for ourselves.

[mashingitlikegailthesnail-blog]

“the women will still be in poverty regardless” WOW THAT SOUNDS GREAT WHERE DO I SIGN UP

[sinaachante-deactivated20140918]

[surra-de-bunda]

Music video concept: Frank Ocean & Amiyah Scott under water in love story.

[blondeescort]

Me, a borderline: I adopt the interests and traits of those around me as a defense mechanism so they don't abandon me, even when I'm not genuinely interested in those interests.

A friend: But literally everything is adapted from other people. Nothing is truly original.

Me: No you don't understa-

Friend: See! You're just like everyone else. Stop trying to attribute every little thing to your illness

Me: *dissociates*

[flamande]

[whysperforsugar]

You bitches are really annoying.

And missing the damn point. If you go for a job interview & they offer you $x.xx amount per hour & you feel as though that isn’t enough, you know what you do? YOU DONT ACCEPT THE FUCKING OFFER. But what you need to understand is that no matter how damn special & unique you think you are, we come a dime a dozen. There will always be somebody willing to do that job for the same, if not a lesser amount. By no means should you ever settle for less than what you deserve. But we all have different priorities. Not everybody wants designer this & that. Some people have real bills. A real tuition, real rent & a real mouth to feed. So if $x.xx per hour gets somebody’s bills paid & keeps food in somebody’s stomach, don’t dare open your mouth & call them a “cheap whore” because they’re trying to provide for themselves.

Of course we all feel we deserve better or a higher amount. We are priceless. So you can either sit in your castle & wait for Prince Charming with your dream allowance. Or come down to reality & hustle just like everybody else. A goal without a plan is just a wish ladies!