i think tumblrās idea of boys is utterly misguided at times.Ā
boys are just as deserving of love as girls are. a woman fighting to break down a manās walls is notĀ āa waste of timeā, a woman being concerned of a manās mental health/feelings is not wrong. i think tumblr constantly spreads the idea that men are not worth womenās time and that their emotions are somehow less valid than womenās, and itās just not true. at least not in all cases.Ā
good young men who are struggling with mental illness need to know that they deserve happiness and that their feelings matter. if we constantly dismiss menās emotions and act like theyāre not worth our time, weāre just encouraging ideas of toxic masculinity.















