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In two days it’ll be a month since I said I was done with a toxic, manipulative relationship. It’s been hard but everyday it gets easier and I’m really proud of my decision to block his phone number and block him on all social media. He doesn’t deserve any of my time or to see me happily living my life without him. He doesn’t deserve me at all, and I’m so so happy that I can see this now. The year and some months with him taught me about myself as I reflect on it and wish I would have been done much sooner. But now I think I have an idea of how I should be treated and what my love has to offer. And if it’s not accepted appropriately then I think I’m strong enough to move on. Life is too short to not smile everyday. Do it for yourself

blueskiesandfatthighs

Lmao he tried to get me to go out for a drink like 2 weeks ago 😂😂😂 absolutely fuck off

Just need picked up and held like a child for a couple minutes I think

#inner child #sad #sad b*tch hours #me

brightwanderer

I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.

Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.

The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.

I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.

demoncity

Mädchen Amick as Shelly Johnson in TWIN PEAKS (1990)

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fieriframes

[Diane, 11:30 AM, February 24th. Entering the town of Twin Peaks. Five miles south of the Canadian border. Twelve miles west of the state line. I've never seen so many trees in my life.]

I’m attracted to women and every member of Greta van fleet only

#greta van fleet #personal #women are beautiful #saphic #virgo