Here Lies Caliber

Adult, BIPOC. Shi/Her/It/Neos*. Owner of @aspd-confessions. Wife of @fleshandbrandy.

[boneandbourbon]

hi, i'm naatowa'piinikimmyaakii, or better known as cognac. i own @aspd-confessions and @cotards-confessions. this is my personal account. read my rentry

i'm intersex, transfem, and two spirit. my collective/default pronouns are shi/hir/she/it/neos*, and i prefer feminine or nonhuman (corpse themed) descriptors. i'm also otherkin

*current primary fronter uses he/him and masculine descriptors

i have aspd, schizoaffective, cotards delusion, and did. my typing style may be different as i won't be intentionally keeping one consistent one like i do on my aspd blog

don't flirt with me, i'm married to @fleshandbrandy and he can hide a body ;)

ask me anything, don't be weird. my only "dni" is cornballs and minors on nsfw posts

tagging

lace and lichen - reblogs

river grave - personal

teeth in the roots - husband posting :)

bell ringers - asks

hung from antlers - tw / vent

half buried - horny posting

[emoji] [name] - alter specific tags

[boneandbourbon]

Hello! I received white sage as a gift from a friend for my bday. We're both white. I can't use white sage, you know why. What should I do with it? Would it be disrespectful to give it to a BIPOC person?

hi! sorry for the late response

no, not disrespectful. please bury it to return it to the earth or give it to a native person/community who can use it properly

thank you for asking this

[boneandbourbon]

Pardon my asking, but why is your husband on testosterone if he is cisgender?

He's intersex and his hormones are out of balance so he's testosterone deficient

[boneandbourbon]

your husband is talking about cheating on you again btw

Ah yes finally, someone brave enough to leak intel from the Husband Cheating Shadow Cabal. Stay safe out there, whistleblower

[boneandbourbon]

ur tumblr inbox rn got me like

YEAH MAN what's going on??? Babe u pedo radqueer now ok?

[boneandbourbon]

defend him all you want but i ran into him in a radqueer server with the map role so……

Crazy cause he's in 5 servers and none of them are radqueer. Neither of us have been in radqueer spaces in years

Insert bernie sanders meme "I am once again asking tumblr anons to provide proof"

[boneandbourbon]

how do you feel about dating a pedo radqueer

Being married to*

[boneandbourbon]

Shoutout

[boneandbourbon]

How do you feel about non-indigenous americans using the term "spirit animal" in means of feeling strongly connected to a type of animal? I have seen some people speak about how it is exclusively a cultural aspect of native american tribes, but i have seen others argue against that, and I'm not too sure of what to think.

I mean I'm not in the business of policing other people's words but I think it's cringe. It's just so painfully obvious that they don't have the cultural knowledge or background to know what the fuck they're talking about. I personally don't believe non-Indigenous people can even have spirit animals

But at this point the term is so bastardized and appropriated that I think I'm just going to sit back and enjoy the show because I do love to watch bilagáana make fools of themselves

[midnightxcoffin]

what does bilagáana mean?

[boneandbourbon]

That's the Diné bizaad (the "Navajo" language) word for a white person lol

[boneandbourbon]

How do you feel about non-indigenous americans using the term "spirit animal" in means of feeling strongly connected to a type of animal? I have seen some people speak about how it is exclusively a cultural aspect of native american tribes, but i have seen others argue against that, and I'm not too sure of what to think.

I mean I'm not in the business of policing other people's words but I think it's cringe. It's just so painfully obvious that they don't have the cultural knowledge or background to know what the fuck they're talking about. I personally don't believe non-Indigenous people can even have spirit animals

But at this point the term is so bastardized and appropriated that I think I'm just going to sit back and enjoy the show because I do love to watch bilagáana make fools of themselves

[boneandbourbon]

I’ll crack you and ur wife

Crack your head open on the fuckin pavement how about

[boneandbourbon]

your wife’s egg

Mmmmnope. My wife is still a dude. He just uses wife and husband like I do

[boneandbourbon]

how do you pronounce Naatowa'piinikimmyaakii ?

Nah-toe-wah (glottal stop, similar to the pause in uh-oh) pee-knee-kim-myah-key :)

The stress of certain syllables is important to the language but that's hard to communicate on tumblr lol

[boneandbourbon]

Well please share. I'm genuinely so curious what color my name is??

And hey thanks :) I think it's super pretty too

[boneandbourbon]

how do you pronounce Naatowa'piinikimmyaakii ?

Nah-toe-wah (glottal stop, similar to the pause in uh-oh) pee-knee-kim-myah-key :)

The stress of certain syllables is important to the language but that's hard to communicate on tumblr lol

[boneandbourbon]

The egg finally cracked, huh?

What are you talking about, retard? My egg has been cracked

[boneandbourbon]

I fucking love my wife so much you guys. I love doing everything with him. I love being on the phone with him and waking up next to him and playing games together and getting into shows together and just EVERYTHING. My wife is the funniest, handsomest, most intelligent, most caring, and most incredibly loving man I've ever met. No language could ever have the amount of words I need to describe him

[boneandbourbon]

Your name is really awesome. Do I have your permission to give it to an oc?

Thank you lol. I'm flattered. You can totally take Cognac but Naatowa'piinikimmyaakii is my native name, which are closed and also pretty personal, so I'd prefer if you didn't use that one. Thank you for checking first :)