Mr. Responsible

they/them

[bovvv]

New profile pic is Boy by Charles Ray (1992) at the Art Institute of Chicago.

[bovvv]

tumblr has been the lesser of all the evils thus far on my journey to end my social media addiction but I just spent an hour scrolling through various radfems blogs and now I’m deleting this one too BYE

[bafahy]

Rare angel birth defect: wings in the front

[mourningkite]

Not sure if i like this but the swallows took me too long

[maidthings]

trans women are so beautiful

[fortuneaday]

[skelinor]

lost in the sauce

[rozieramati]

[krafterwrites]

[yurimartyr]

burgers are awesome. so are pussies. so you'd think something called the "borgussy" is something very good, but according to my friend Karl Marx such is not the case.

[capinejghafa]

[abbylonian-deactivated20220825]

Girls Will Be Boys by Sophia Wallace

I began Girls will be Bois, 2002-2007 because I was compelled to create a testament to my living history as a lesbian whose partners are often on the butch and masculine spectrum.

Butchness, particularly butch BIPOC are targeted with violence, repressed historically, and ignored by the media. Everywhere from popular culture to the law, female masculinity is treated as failed femininity – a monstrosity.

It was vital to me that I document and create a visual testimony of my community that could not be denied. As a queer photographer I felt that my medium was the best way to intervene in the ongoing attempt to marginalize my community. I also lost a friend during this time which had a profound impact on me. Kim, a young butch lesbian, tragically died from a brain aneurysm at 24 years old. Kim’s partner Michelle who had been with her virtually every day during the two years they were together, was not invited to the funeral where Kim was buried in pink suit and coffin with heavy makeup.  Kim’s history is like that of so many queer people. Written by those who seek to deny it.

Girls Will be Bois will always be a historical project for me. Losing a friend and watching another friend be written out of her partner’s life, was a painful reality check about what was at stake if we do not record our own stories.

[dragongirlbunny]

i wish there was an easier way to tell the difference between an "if it sucks hit da bricks" situation and a "sometimes being an adult means doing things that you dont wanna" situation

[respectissexy]

The best answer to this that I've seen is "You are free to do whatever you like. You must only live with the consequences."

"If it sucks, hit da bricks" is for when you realize that you actually definitely can live with the consequences of Not Doing The Thing.

"Sometimes being an adult means doing things that you don't wanna" is for when you've thought it over and it turns out you would strongly prefer NOT to live with the consequences of Not Doing The Thing.

[probuccalfat]

god forbid a woman has a hobby

[segamascott]

[doggosource]

[unfunsized]