Borderline Babe

This is just a place for me to vent BPD feels and whatever else. Pronouns they.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference.”

— Elie Wiesel

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Loyalty isn’t grey. It’s black and white. You’re either loyal completely, or not loyal at all. And people have to understand this. You can’t be loyal only when it serves you.”

— Sharnay

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“It’s important to do what’s best for you, whether people approve of it or not. This is your life. You know what’s good for you. And remember that self love takes strength.”

— Unknown

[thedailyzen]

Focus less on being perceived well, and more on acting in a way that allows you to be confident with how you are actually perceived.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

You know it’s time to move on when …

1. They treat you as if you are not important.

2. They prioritise other people and things over you.

3. They show more interest in another person.

4. They push you away when you try to get close

5. They deliberately hurt you, and they don’t seem to care.

6. They complicate life in unnecessary ways.

7. They leave you feeling miserable, unwanted and upset.

[zenwords]

[adirabennett]

© ADIRA BENNETT

[gentle-paranoid-suggestion]

No one hates you, people enjoy your company. You are not a burden, you’re a good person.

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[thedailyzen]

Talk is cheap; we must act wisely.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Listen closely: the only time it’s too late to change yourself is when you’re dead. Until then, you’re simply making excuses or lying to yourself.”

— Unknown

[thedailyzen]

Listen to our podcast here.

[zenwords]

Reactive Life vs Conscious Life

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

7 Rules of Life

1. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

2. What others think of you is none of your business.

3. Time heals almost everything; give it time.

4. Don`t compare your life to others, and don`t judge them. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

5. Stop thinking too much; it`s alright not to know the answers. They will come to you when you least expect it.

6. No-one is in charge of your happiness, except you.

7. Smile. You don`t own all the problems in the world.

Source: Whisper of the heart.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in things we do for each other every day.”

— Nicholas Sparks

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“No matter how dark things seem to be, or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities. Always see them, for they’re always there.”

— Norman Vincent Peale