BPDsuperhero

Female, borderline personality disorder. trying to empower others with BPD. not here for sociopaths or narcissists.

[bpdsuperhero]

Do you really expect people to believe you're "a friend" when you type in exactly the same way, and have the same tone and demeanor? The amount of abusive rhetoric and misinformation you are spreading is absolutely appalling. You are so manipulative and out of touch that people are more willing to believe you lied about something so serious like suicide. I really hope you get help and recover. Everyone deserves recovery. Please seek help before you hurt yourself or someone else.

Most people have sent support for the family and friends, and thanks go out to them. Will be deactivating account after today.

[bpdsuperhero]

Can you please stop faking that you killed your self? This isn’t your best friend, it’s you. This is why people like me, who actually have bpd, are looked down upon.

Sadly, it's not, and these posts aren't to give you comfort or to do anything about you having a "bad name." This is what she would have wanted. I'll be deleting the account in a few days.

[bpdsuperhero]

I mean you really seem like the type of gal who would fake your suicide and milk it, which is really not okay. If it did happen, why not just delete the account and stop fielding asks from anonymous accounts? (But if it is true, I am so sorry for your loss)

This account is likely going to be deleted soon, or at least locked. Yes, it is true, and yes, she was tired of being hurt and abused. I wanted to address some of these things because this was very important to her, and she mentioned it in her last Facebook post. The people who loved her are still numb over her death, and I don't think anyone here really understood what she was trying to say because she didn't say it very well. Believe me when I say that she was hurt very deeply by a very, very bad person and that she was never the same after what he did to her. He toyed with her over and over again until she would call us, her friends, begging us to tell her she wasn't worthless. I honestly hope that he burns in hell.

[bpdsuperhero]

Don’t be fucking surprised when someone retaliates against you if you abandon them. Abandonment is abuse. Eye for an eye.

[homophobe-hating-radfem]

I guess I shouldn’t have been surprised when he raped and stalked me

[babysfirstradfem-deactivated201]

they claim they’re “empowering” people with bpd i’m pretty sure they meant “enabling abusive behavior” 

this is so messed up jfc

[sapphic-matriarchy]

This is literally so fucking ridiculous, abusive and deluded. I have professionally diagnosed bpd, and you are a fucking piece of actual garbage because that is not behaviour that you should be doing, talking about on a forum in a positive light and ESPECIALLY ENCOURAGING 

“empowering” people with bpd would be talking about DBT, about how these behaviours aren’t the norm in bpd individuals, about how to improve distress tolerance and emotion regulation, about how to have healthier interpersonal relationships and how to deal with trauma 

empowering people with bpd is fighting against the stigma that bpd makes you abusive or an abuser, and that it always results in toxic manipulative behaviour and in the destruction of the lives of the people around you 

You could be spreading awareness about the root of bpd being complex ptsd in women, you could be talking about the psychiatric bias against bpd women, you could be talking about the rampant hatred and mistrust for people diagnosed with bpd 

@bpdsuperhero all you are doing is REINFORCING the idea that bpd individuals are abusive, you are supporting IRRATIONAL, ABUSIVE BEHAVIOUR and you are fuelling the societal narrative that people with bpd are incurable narcissists with a propensity for ruining peoples lives on a whim 

The tumblr “bpd community” is a sick, twisted way for fucked up narcissists to reassure themselves that their abusive behaviour is warranted. Y’all are just a circle jerk fucking echo chamber of “i have self dx bpd so i cant be wrong or a bad person” 

If you have bpd and youre reading this, there are healthy, productive ways of dealing with your issues, theres a million conversations that need to be had about this disorder. Op’s? Not one of them. 

[bpdsuperhero]

The op is deceased. Show some respect.

[bpdsuperhero]

You gonna address the fact you want lesbians correctively raped?

I have no idea what you think lesbians had to do with any of this.

[bpdsuperhero]

The world is safer without your friend. At least he won't be raping anyone anymore

Bpdsuperhero was a woman, and not a rapist.

[bpdsuperhero]

You're not in a serious and happy relationship! You're not in a relationship at all.

The OP is deceased.

[bpdsuperhero]

Kill yourself please, and maybe I miss interpreted those message screenshots, but if not, kill yourself please

More abuse.

[bpdsuperhero]

wow when did she kill herself

A week ago.

[bpdsuperhero]

I’m so happy she killed herself :)

Yep this is abuse

[bpdsuperhero]

Stop sending yourself hate. It's embarrassing.

Not happening.

[bpdsuperhero]

People whose friends kill themselves don’t nonchalantly take over their tumblr accounts with no hesitation/easily. People who believe their friends killed themselves over cyber bullying report it. Pathological lying is one symptom prevalent in BPD people, which should be addressed and combatted. This is why people think borderlines are crazy. Jesus. Please just drop it all.

She's been gone for like a week. Her funeral is in a few days. Nobody "nonchalantly" took over everything. Her family and friends are in the process of changing her Facebook to say "remembering" in front of her name, etc.

[bpdsuperhero]

Hey. I’m so sorry for all of these hateful messages you’ve been getting and I’m so sorry for your loss. I know what it’s like to lose a friend to Suicide and that shit hurts, especially when people are hateful about it. I hope you find some way to get through this tragedy and to continue on. I’m sure your friend will be dearly missed. Sending you love, hope, and peace.

Thank you.

[bpdsuperhero]

Please stop. Your outburst is one reason people perceive those of us with BPD the way that they do. We have a disorder but it doesn’t mean we are abusive.

For the millionth time: the OP is deceased. I am her best friend and I have been fielding insane messages, threats, and photoshopped "messages" for a couple hours now. You guys are obsessed.

[bpdsuperhero]

no one believes you killed yourself you absolute embarrassment. you definitely should, though. typical bpd things is faking your own suicide to manipulate people and derive pity. seriously, kill yourself. we all know you’re still there you pathetic piece of shit, but you shouldn’t be. KILL YOURSELF YOU ABUSIVE, MANIPULATIVE PIECE OF DOG SHIT. 😘

Again, these are the people who stalked my friend until she killed herself.

[bpdsuperhero]

not surprised you’re a piece of shit, all the most manipulative, abusive pieces of shit have bpd. lol. this is in your best interest: go kill yourself. no one would really give half a shit. in fact I’m pretty sure most would be happy 🤷‍♀️ your sad excuse for a life is absolutely miserable. do it. literally nobody is going to give a shit. people are actually going to rejoice that you, a parasite in human form, are gone from this world. oh by the way, I’m laughing at your rape LOL

But my friend was the abuser?

[bpdsuperhero]

Tired of hearing that “threatening suicide to get someone to stay” is abuse. No, it’s fucking not. What IS abusive, is calling a suicidal person manipulative. If you need someone to stay, you’re not wrong for telling them so, and you’re not wrong for telling them that THEIR poor behavior is causing you to be suicidal. It is THEIR fault. You are NOT manipulative for being suicidal and telling someone.

[ragingvulvasaur]

Nope. Nope. Nope.

It is absolutely emotionally abusive to threaten to kill yourself if your partner leaves. Yes, them breaking up with you can cause you to feel suicidal. But it will always be emotionally abusive to put them in a situation where they feel they HAVE to stay or else you will harm yourself. Just because youre mentally ill doesnt mean people are obligated to stay and put up with it. If your mental illness is causing you to be toxic they are 100% allowed to leave for their own good. Learn the lesson, and do better. Try harder in therapy, take your meds, and stop following mental illness affirmation/positivity blogs that tell you its okay to use your mental health status to manipulate people and get out of taking responsibility for your toxic/abusive behaviors.

Signed,

A person with a veritable alphebet soup of mental illness diagnoses, including BPD.

[tetraterezi]

Looks like someone drank the taylor swift “look what you made me do” kool aid

[womyn-are-rad-deactivated202003]

Oh look! It is so obvious that op has never been on the other side of this interaction. You are an asshole, just like my ex who threatened suicide in order for me to stay and only took back his statement when I was strong enough to stay with my decision and threatened to call 911 on his suicidal ass.

I have mental illness, don’t you think that him using this tactic on me is just another way to keep a mentally ill girl in a horribly toxic and unloving relationship? Don’t you think that this man knew what he was doing when he contacted all of his friends and me, saying that he was gonna commit suicide to pressure me into staying? 

Suicide is all on the person who is doing it and don’t you dare place the blame of your own psyche on someone else.

[gaykarathrace-deactivated202502]

Maybe seek out treatment instead of holding your loved ones hostage. DBT worked for me.

[turn-off-the-dark-blog1]

This. This this this this THIS

[bpdsuperhero]

Bpdsuperhero killed herself, you fucking savages. This is her best friend.

[beebeeprincess-deactivated20190]

Okay but no. Im sorry for your loss and i know personally how that feels but you cant shirk her actions onto someone else. Everytime i had the courage to leave my abusive relationship my bf would talk about killing himself and no one would miss him etc. This is abusive in itself. And i have to admit ive also done this once. Its not okay. All it does is hurt people. Again, im sorry for you losing your friend but you should understand that yes, her partners actions could have made her feel suicidal, but its her fault for actually taking her life.

[bpdsuperhero]

You actually think that it's her fault she was pushed into suicide. My god, there is no reasoning with you maniacs.