dumb slut

25. dutch. queer. they/them. Minors DNI! running a queue so i might not actually be online

[nerviswitch]

World BDSM day seems like a good time to remind you:

If the idea of being cuddled and kissed and doted on after a scene makes you want to crawl out of your skin, that doesn't mean you don't need aftercare, it might just mean that what aftercare looks like for you is being left alone for a little while.

Aftercare isn't one-size-fits-all. Maybe you need a snack. Maybe you want to watch a youtube video. Maybe you just need to have a calm conversation to debrief about the scene you just had. Or maybe you do want to snuggle.

Do what works for you, because doing aftercare you hate because you think that's what it's supposed to look like or skipping any aftercare to avoid a particular kind isn't going to work out well for anyone in the long run.

Also, while I'm here:

check on your dominants. They need aftercare just as much as subs do but we so often see aftercare framed as "dom-comforts-sub" that folks forget about that.

While I'm at it, safewording isn't just for the sub either, and it doesn't make you less of a dom to use it. In fact:

Safewording when you need to makes you a good play partner.

Any reason you feel like safewording is a good enough reason.

You aren't boring or less fun to play with for knowing your limits or having a lot of them. The fun part happens inside the bounds, and knowing where those lines are can only help you have a better scene.

[akhilleusunsarkisi]

[depravedangelbaby]

going absolutely feral spanking myself tonight ♡

[666-lilith]

[myescape-mydesires]

CNC because choices overwhelm me. 💞

[sssaravegas]

being called a fleshlight by someone who respects and cherishes me really does hit different

[scarletbottoms]

[angelbbboy-deactivated20221220]

consensual somnophilia is like a surprise party. you’ve talked to your partner about what you like and they know what you would and wouldn’t want, and then all that’s left is to fall asleep one night not knowing they’re planning anything for you, but then you slowly wake up and surprise! you don’t know how long they’ve been fingering you but you feel amazing and you’re comfy and sleepy and someone you love is making you feel so good.

[hex-gooning]

Let’s play a game. I fuck you in to a cock drunk state where every fiber of your being wants to roll your eyes back, but I’ve told you to keep eyes on me. And every time you look away… I slap that pretty face of yours back into focus

[grimtxt]

aw, you want me to hit you, angel? okay, are you gonna say please? are you gonna kneel for me & nuzzle my knuckles like a good pet? go on... kiss the hand you want me to hurt you with.

[punishment4u]

Making them repeat back to you the degrading things you're calling them 'what are you, huh baby, are you a dirty little slut, are you my whore baby, go on baby tell me what you are'

'oh god, I'm your slut, yeah, please- fuck I'm your dirty whore'

Do this whilst ur thrusting into them, it's the best way to make their brain melt, trust me

[pushypinkpsycho]

[crowttore]

Being put through the mattress until they're at the brink of exhaustion and collapse on top of you.. crushing you beneath their weight.. lazily rolling their hips against yours while their cock softens and mumbling into your neck that you can survive a few more seconds

[exploringflesh]

Every time i sleep nude i wish i was waking up feeling a thick hard warm cock sliding in and out of me. Heavy hips slapping against my ass making me feel the force of each thrust. I wonder what my thoughts would be, how wet Id already have gotten, how much Id submit and let him finish using me and filling me up only to lay on me and fall back asleep with his cock still stuffed in my cunt. A guy can only dream…

[softdomsworld]

wet eyes, aching body, cum leaking down trembling legs. whimpering, "i can't take anymore," and "no more, please, no more." a soft, devilish chuckle, fingers drag through the mess between soft thighs and a murmur, "you can handle one more."

[roughribo]

I've always wanted to get one of those cock gags that looks like a facemask. So we could spend some time out in public with her mouth full of cock lite and no one else the wiser.

Ideally no one would inquire about her while we're out. But I have always wondered about what would happen if someone asked about her lack of voice or about the mask she's wearing, like a cashier making conversation at the bookstore. She'd hold on to my arm tight and close and nod her head to me telling them:

"Yes, she is getting over a nasty cold. I got lucky, somehow it skipped me. She didn't want to spread it to anyone, it's already robbed her of her voice and her time so she's playing it safe. The less she speaks the better."

Just saying all that as the stranger smiles and says "well feel better hun" and she already feels better. A wetter type of better. Because my partner knows what I meant with my words. Because I just want her to know that I can dominate her with something as simple as wordplay. That I can dominate her discreetly right under anyone's nose. It's like a display of raw power over my sub only she can see.

[neutralkink]

Hearing them pant and grunt in my ear while they use me like a fleshlight would fix me tbh