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I see all my friends doing struggle love
And it’s such a tragedy, it truly is. They really out here splitting rent with a man, working 12+ hours a day, not receiving birthday/anniversary gifts, letting the man ‘lead’ them straight into poverty, and even after all this, they gotta go do a grande jeté on that d*** tonight.
*Wipes tears with money* Such a tragedy.
Girl friends are the secret weapon in hypergamy.
If you are unfamiliar with this secret, then you need to take a seat and memorize this post, because this might be one of the most important pieces of information I share!
For my ladies aiming for hypergamy, sugaring arrangements won’t work for you. If your goal is hypergamy, you need a whole different approach!
As a hypergamous woman, you probably spend a great deal of time freestyling (in wealthy areas), attending events where affluent people will be present, or online dating/dating apps. You’ve probably noticed that due to the pandemic, going out and meeting people won’t work as easily as it did before, and dating apps typically attract thirsty men rather than generous, affluent ones looking for a wife. So what’s a girl to do?
Make. Girl. Friends.
When you befriend other women, you give yourself access to their circle of people. This access can lead you to meet more people, or better yet, meet wealthy men. Hypergamy is a game of CONNECTIONS. The more connections you make, the better your chances of success are.
However, don’t just make girl friends with random girls. Try to befriend girls that you can build CONNECTS from! Be strategic with your friendships.
Ideas for types of girls to befriend:
- those active in philanthropic causes/charities
- those into fitness (takes yoga classes, Pilates, at the gym)
- girls into luxury/high fashion (shopping in upscale areas)
Girl friends offer you the following:
🌼 Camouflage: If you meet a man through a mutual girl friend, your true intentions are automatically camouflaged. He won’t think you’re seeking a hypergamous relationship because in his mind, you weren’t seeking for a wealthy man. The meeting just happened by “chance”. This works WONDERFULLY in your favor. Always be inconspicuous about your intentions.
🌼 Exposure: Most girls are active on a social media platform, which means there’s a good chance they will post on it whenever they’re doing something fun/hanging out with friends. This allows her followers to see you = exposure for you = better chance of being noticed by affluent men.
🌼 Social Climbing: Make a girl friend to meet another girl friend! Keep expanding your circle, but be selective with those who can access you. Aim for girls in higher circles, and befriend them to join the circles. Doing this will help you refine yourself in high society, while climbing the social ladder!
Girls are not your enemy, ladies. If you play your cards right, girls may be your key to hypergamous success.
💖 Follow me on Instagram @mademoisellehypergamy
Dating Rich Men
Hypergamy is not a bad word!
Some women feel guilty about wanting to date wealthy men. But those wealthy men must marry someone eventually. Why not let that someone be you?
You deserve to have the best in every area of your life. That includes your career, social life and romantic life
Rich people don't feel dirty about teaching their daughters to practice hypergamy. Their daughters aren't told that they are golddiggers, even if they are living of their parents money and using their parents connections to meet other wealthy people.
I once heard a man say that if he was a woman, he'd be rich. He's not the first man to say this. Men know the power that women hold. You could literally become rich just because you're a woman.
Identify Rich Men:
Avoid men who are overly flashy in the photos. They likely aren't very rich at all and are in debt.
Avoid men who have high end designer logos all over the jacket or shirt.
Look for men who are properly fitted suits or business casual outfit outfits in the photos. As they are likely businessman of some sort.
Don't discount men wear dress down. I know plenty of millionaires and wealthy men who wear jeans and a T-shirt.
Just check to see if he is well groomed at the very least. Does he take care of his hair? Does his clothes at least fit him right?
Many truly wealthy men, except for the nouveaux riche, don't want people to know they are rich and don't want to attract the wrong people, so they purposely dress down.
Make affluent girlfriends
The goal should be to build a network of classy, successful women are living the lifestyle that you desire. At least one of them should be married, single and in a relationship
Many successful men are going to trust the close friend for recommendations on the great girl, instead of trying to approach random women in public or going online
If they're getting married sometime soon, and you are invited to the wedding many of his and her male friends will be there, and they are most likely is just as successful as your friend and her boyfriend.
Meghan Markle didn't stumble upon prince harry by accident, she was introduced to him by a friend.
It is also important that you become the woman that other classy, successful women want to be around. The relationship shouldn't be one-sided in value you should offer them value as well.
You do have to carry yourself as a classy, successful lady would. You should have interesting things going on in your life. This is another reason why I tell women to build a side income, even if their goal is to meet a wealthy man who takes care of them.
If you've upgraded your friends, you will be up and dating again in no time, because they can introduce you to someone new.
You should always be working on your network and your net worth. Think of all the rich people who went bankrupt but remained fine because they had not only the knowledge but the network of other successful people who could help them in someway.
"Your dresses should be tight enough to show you’re a woman and lose enough to show you're a lady." - Edith Heard
most men want something to fantasize about. If you're overly proactive, they have nothing to daydream about.
If you dress overly conservative or worse, if you dress masculine, then he won't want to fantasize about you at all.
It's easy to find a man but finding a good man of quality and requires you to do some upgrading to yourself and your life.
finding a good man is like finding a job good job, you don't stop improving yourself and looking for one until you finally find it.
Subscribe to magazines that wealthy people read in your town.
Many magazines that are popular and lower income areas are filled with gossip and celebrity topics because they know what people in these environments find entertaining.
Magazines that I popular amongst wealthy people tend to be filled with very different topics.
Only accept expensive Dates!
Some men and women make the argument that if you meet online, the guy doesn't really know yet and it may be a waste of money...but it's not a waste of money if you're selective about who ask out on dates.
If he is swiping right on every woman online, dating a new woman every week and taking none of them seriously, then of course a coffee date with him best because he's not looking for a serious relationship to begin with.
Remember, men follow the standards that women set. Men wouldn't offer a coffee date when Every woman said no to coffee dates.
You should want to date a man who is generous towards you, loves to wine and dine you and treats you the best.
Dating Etiquette:
Keep phone calls very short during the beginning of the relationship I'm talking 5 to 10 minutes.
If a man wants to know more about you and talk to you for hours he needs to take you out on a proper date.
If he hasn't asked you out with and text exchanges, start taking even longer to respond to his text messages. I'm talking days.
It is OK not to give an answer to a question that is too personal. Many women make the mistake of feeling the need to give an answer to everything.
But not a classy lady! If he asks you how many men you've slept with respond with "I'm a lady and I would rather not discuss something so personal".
Whenever man asks any other question that you deem to be too personal, just let him know that you would rather not discuss it at the moment and change the subject
Don't try to tell a ton of jokes, ask ton of questions or talk to much about yourself. All these are signs that you were trying to impress him
This doesn't mean that you should act shy and boring. Show that you were impressed when he tells you about his accomplishments. men love feeling smart.
The people who talk the least tend to be the most interesting. The people that let us do most of the talking are usually the people we find to be good conversationalist, when in reality, they just know how to keep you talking about yourself. Which most people enjoy doing.
Only allow him to see you once per week until you become exclusive. Why? Because why would he buy the whole package, when he can get it for free?
If he already has full access to your time, and can see you whenever he would like anyway, what incentive does he have to take things to the next level?
A woman who is living her best life doesn't have time to go out with the guy multiple times per week. She's not that easily obtainable.
I don't care how much he begs you or tells you he enjoys being around you, always keep it once per week. Men will always fast track a relationship and see you as much as possible in the beginning.
And most of the time they will genuinely mean it. You are new to them so the excitement (and let's be honest, the lust) makes them want to see you as much as they can. If you allow it, that excitement will die out fast and quickly turn into boredom.
Avoid serious topics like Marriage and starting a family. If he brings it up first then give them a light answer for example: "I could see myself getting married to the right person", "I could see myself having kids with the right man" etc.
How to get him to propose (or do anything else you want him to)
I once had a man admit to putting off proposing to his girlfriend because he already knew she would say yes. He said he thought no rush to propose because he knew she wasn't going anywhere.
Most guys are used to women constantly nagging them about marriage, so let them wonder why you don't mention it at all. Be more mysterious than the rest.
Many women make the mistake of nagging their partners in order to get what they want, yet this technique only leads to the man resenting you.
Now when I say ignore him, I'm not talking about doing the silent treatment. Not only does the silent treatment create the opposite effect of what you want, but it's very immature.
I once knew a woman who wanted to get married, but her boyfriend wasn't even bringing up marriage. Of course she didn't nag him, as it would go against my advice. Instead she told him she was taking a mini vacation to Europe and she didn't invite him.
Prior to that, she was constantly staying busy and texting and calling him less. She "punished" him by giving him less of her time. By the time she got back from her four-day trip, he asked her for her hand in marriage
When you show them that you care too much the chase is over.
Men are used to being spoiled by women's emotions and over-affections. It's part of the reason why the silent treatment doesn't work.
When you are sitting right next to him being angry and silent as he tries to talk to you, it shows that you truly do care too much and he knows it.
If you truly didn't care you would have walked out and left along time ago are you would be too busy to be sitting next to him and pouting.
When you pull away from the relationship even just a bit he will notice. He will begin to worry that you might leave or that you found someone better. He will feel losing you and he will do anything to fix it.
Now the catch is that if he isn't that into you, you will soon find out with this technique. So be sure that you are ready to handle the truth.
If you are following this rules, the wealthy man that you are seeing will have invested too much time, money and energy into you, to want to lose you so quickly.
Don’t build with a Man!
When you help a man build his career from the bottom up, you represent what he can get while he's on bottom. Which is why many men cheat or leave a woman altogether once he gets on top and becomes successful.
You want him to be doing well in his career before you except a proposal. This allows him to see you as a woman that he got while on top.
Keep them chasing you from the beginning. He will feel like you are still the prize to be won, once he's on top, because he still hasn't fully "caught" you.
And after that, the fact that you let him build his career alone without you helping him, he will feel like he truly got to impress you.
In the end men just like to feel as though they got the best women that they could while they are successful. They don't want to feel like they've settled.
Source: „The seven rules of Dating Rich men - Learn How to Attract AND Marry The Rich Man Who Will Love And Spoil You Forever“ By Grace Harper
5 Things...
Never allow yourself to play the part of another woman. If you're with a man who can't live in the moment and is desperately trying to recapture the moments he had with another woman with you playing her part, leave. You'll never be her and you don't want to spend your life trying to be her. Their relationship failed and yours began for a reason, don't let him try to relive the days of yore through you. If a relationship has ended, there's a time and a place to let go and that's before your new one has started, if he's unable up do that, let him go find himself on his own time. Don't stick around waiting for him to change or change yourself to be more like his former lover, it's a lose-lose situation for you whichever way you choose.
Don't date men who aren't stable before you meet them. Yes, once in a while you'll hear those stories about women who've stuck by their men through scandals, cheating, hard times, rough rides, and so much more only to truly reap the benefits in the end, but wouldn't it be nice to just be with a man who's already emotionally, financially, and mentally stable? There's only so much support you can give to someone else before having to realise that they're just taking from you, draining you, and depleting you. I'm not saying that your best guy has to be perfect, I'm saying that for your own mental health, you shouldn't stay with a man who you're expected to completely support and stand by through everything but who has never given you a reason to trust him and violates what trust you have left in him on a daily basis. Love can be conditional and sometimes you need to realise that and leave.
Don't settle for a man who's only willing to love you in bits and pieces instead of loving you for who you are. Don't date men who think that they can choose all of the good parts of you and claim them for themselves. Men who think that they can take whatever they want from you and never give you anything from themselves in return will leave you waking up in 10 years and wondering when you stopped loving yourself in order to love a man who's love comes with strings attached. You may not be able to tell at first but it'll become apparent as time goes on, he'll hold things over your head, he won't listen to you, and every "happy" moment that you're supposed to be having with him will just feel empty to you.
He doesn't make a real effort for you. Grandpa and Grandma were both Catholic, they didn't speak each other's language when they first met and so Grandpa found a bible in Spanish, figured out which verses were which by comparing them to his German bible, and went on ahead and copied out the Song of Solomon for Grandma so she'd be able to see his point. Grandma was amazing at math and solving puzzles and that's what Grandpa had basically done in the Kriegsmarine so when he realised that she was a genius at math and puzzles, he put his brain to work and found a way to talk to her through ciphers. My point is that it took him time to learn Spanish, it took her time to learn German, and it took them both time to learn English but Grandpa didn't let that deter him from finding ways to talk to Grandma. He'd sit next to her and point to himself, point towards her, and make his hands into the shape of a heart until he learned enough Spanish to properly tell her how he loved her. If a man refuses to make a real effort and find a way (within reason) to be with you, he doesn't want to be with you and his silence and lack of effort should make that crystal clear. Don't make yourself into some sort of fool for a man who can't bother to consider you or your feelings.
Don't just take what you can get, you shouldn't have to scramble for affection and hoard it up because the man that you're with doesn't believe in showing emotion and telling you how he feels about you or how he loves you. I spent my teenage years being starved of affection from my boyfriends and so I'd take any good love or compliment from any man that gave me anything that I considered a form of affection. It was a toxic way to live and I was deeply insecure during those years. When I met The Prof, he gave me what I needed and what I wanted without me having to prompt. It flowed smoothly and naturally and I was able to love him in the way I love him without feeling like I was too much or like I was weird. If a man who's supposed to love you makes you feel like they're uncomfortable with being with you or like you're unworthy of their love, leave him and find someone who'll truly value and love you.
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Once you learn how to be alone & love it You’re unstoppable.
looks at 16yr old boy: ew
looks at 40yr old man: yes
ready for Monday
““I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don’t know why, some people fill the gaps and others emphasize my loneliness.””
— Anaïs Nin (via amargedom)
I like older Men
Does that mean I have Daddy Issues: No
Does that mean I’m a whore: No
Does that mean I’m a gold digger: No
Does that mean I’m codependent: No
Does that mean I condone illegal relationships: Nope
But Susan..He’s old enough to be your father..
Spoiling your girl doesn’t mean you need to constantly spend hundreds of dollars on her. It doesn’t mean you need to buy her the top of the line technology or clothes or concert tickets. It doesn’t mean you have to pay for fancy vacations for the two of you. Spoiling your girl can be as easy as picking flowers for her while you take a walk or leaving her a note about how much you adore her. It can be waking up a little early to make her breakfast in bed or rubbing her feet after she’s been at work all day. It can be spending a day watching her favorite movies or letting her pick all the songs during a car ride. Spoiling your girl doesn’t have to be with money but with love
