Good looking men (unless they are heirs, movie stars or celebrities) are usually broke.
Because of their good looks, these men have been spoiled by women, probably from infancy, so their role in life has been mainly to look good and be arm candy to a woman who takes responsibility for everything.
Their looks quickly fade and six packs are replaced by beer bellies. Six pack of beer becomes a daily staple and these men soon become a liability.
Don’t go for brutish, muscular guys either. These beefy types usually aren’t blessed with high IQ’s and good business sense.
They are usually blue-collar workers who work for nerds, who are built like Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg.
In their prime they may be good in the sack but as they grow older, money struggles and the daily grind causes them to lose their mojo.
The Difference between a single and a married target
If he is single, you should let him to chase you.
If he’s a married man or a taken male, he will simply love it if you chase him.
It wouldn’t matter what you look like or what you’re all about - if he is taken, he will welcome anything and anyone who makes it easy to cheat.
Most men cheat down (that what I experienced myself with cheating ex partners, they cheated with less attractive women!)
In most instances, men don’t really expect the affair to last. They hope they can have some hot, steamy sex and end it all before it gets messy, before their wife finds out.
So don’t be frustrated when he never shows sign of ending his “unhappy, miserable marriage to a wife that doesn’t understand him at all”
Married men most have more or less the same standard line, that they tell to their mistresses; “We haven’t had sex in years, we sleep in different bedrooms” etc. all lies to get to to be sympathetic with this cheating ass.
If the mistress gets desperate to keep the relationship and starts begging and pleading (something a gold digger never does!) or starts accusations and arguments, she will sound more like a wife and this is when a man will distance himself.
Men may not be impressed with smart women but they love smart questions! It gives them a chance to give you a smart answer, which is supposed to impress you.
You must always appear impressed by him, gush as to how you’ve never met someone like him before and display an outward yearning to be as smart as he is.
That way, your POT’s ego is stroked, his guard is lowered and that berth for seduction grows wider by the moment.
The Girl with the perfect nose, childbearing hips and proportional thighs is no luckier in love than the girl without those. Why? Because men don’t notice imperfections and neither should we.
Heather Mills bagged Paul McCartney, one of the most famous men in the world, while having only one leg.
How did she handle it? Did she try to hide it? Did she believe that it would make her less attractive to a man? Clearly, she didn’t care what anyone thought. Her confidence was hugely appealing to Paul.
When it comes to your looks, change what you can and what you can’t, ignore it.
If Camilla had obsessed over her looks, she would not have stolen the prince away from the beautiful Princess Diana.
You must simply tap into what makes you feel confident. If having your hair blowdried and your nails done feel glamorous and confident, you get this done.
You should appear attainable. Sexy within reach, the girl-next-door-type. Your hair should be a little messy, making him think that you just rolled out of bed.
A seductress is seldom drop dead gorgeous.
Unless she comes onto men in a huge way and makes it terribly easy for them to pick her up, they will be intimidated enough to pick a low hanging fruit instead of her.
Understand a targets’ fears and weakness
Powerful men have shitty days and disappointments just about every single day.
Inside that tycoon usually lies a boy in pain and emotionally scarred by hardships in life and by repeated rejection from business associates.
He is emotionally fragile and can be easily manipulated by you.
In front of his business associates, you must fawn over him and act besotted with him.
You play a critical role when it comes to impressing his friends, peers and business associates.
He will be highly amused by his delightful and intriguing companion in a roomful of boring, self-absorbed women.
Often, the executives is simply unable to indulge because of the demands of the day. He will always be afraid to slip down the ladder of success.
If he’s a self-made man, he will be afraid to be poor. If he was born into wealth, he may be afraid to lose all the family money and power.
Often his money and power that he so craved, serve as shackles and strips away all sense of play.
You don’t need to ‘grow up’
When asked what you would like to be when you grew up, did you declare that you wanted to be a mature, responsible adult?
Being a mature, responsible adult is no one’s fantasy. No man, no woman’s.
Being responsible and accountable is a trait born purely out of necessary, hardship and fear.
Create a buoyant, childlike, playful environment, granting him an experience different from his everyday life.
Playfulness serves you better in the long run than looks do.
Your flirtatiousness, your undivided attention, your playfulness all collectively helps recapture his lost youth.
Act thrilled, clap your hands and jump up and down like a little girl as he buys you gift after gift.
Make your Vision Board visible
When your POT enters your apartment, he will see your vision board and even though you have not said a word about it, it will register in his mind. You must ensure that he sees it.
Of course you will give him the impression that you plan to work hard to achieve those things.
He will then want to beat you to it and get it for you can and impress you
If you’re working on multiple seductions at the same time, you may need different vision boards for each target.
Treat’m mean to keen’m keen!
Do not make the mistake to treat him special, no matter how wealthy he is.
Treat him poorly, like a hired hand, like a servant even, and he will be in your thrall
Make him carry bags, chauffeur hin around and do things he wouldn’t otherwise do.
Never be intimidated by him, never try to match his lifestyle in any way and never treat him like he is above you.
Because he is powerful, he needs an even more powerful woman
Keeping him a little unbalanced and insecure, making him believe that he may not be the only one in your life
Playing mind games and mind-fucking a man is vital in seduction.
It guards against complacency, it prevents him from taking you for granted.
It calls for insecurity, which leads to arguments, which leads to fights, which leads to make-up sex, which leads to having a memorable relationship with you.
A seducer will keep her target insecure and on his toes by admiring the very thing in his competition, her target cannot achieve or give her.
If he isn’t academically educated, she will appear impressed with a competitor’s academic credentials: "A Harvard graduate? Wow, that sure is impressive. Wonder what it’s like to have a chat with him?"
Change it up and make him feel good
Men don’t care if you’re fake or putting on an act. They care about how you make them feel.
They are self-absorbed, so generally they believe you are that way for them. It’s always about them, always about the way you make them feel.
Men are not creatures who lead with feelings and emotions, however when it comes to what make them feel good, they do lead with it!
Logic flies out of the window and they become transfixed, even addicted to you, simply because you made them feel good.
A seductress seldom gets mad and engages in an argument using the words ‘seriously’. Thats his wife’s job
If you create an amusing, entertaining climate, your target will quickly forgive your trespasses.
In fact, he might play along, secretly flattered that you are going through such lengths to get his attention.
When he confronts you, smile, bat your eyelashes and giggle. Then lean in, press your hips against his and whisper: “For you, I would commit a crime.” Then touch him inappropriately and say “Just for you.”
Don’t be afraid to get married. If you no longer want to be married, you can always divorce him. If he has a ton of money and you don’t, what can you possibly lose?
The important thing for any married gold digger is to be vigilant when it comes to your husband.
Catch an affair early and nip it in the bud before she becomes a habit that is hard to break - protect your bag!
Its like cancer - catch it early and might outlive all those around you.
You have to ensure your husband has a substantial life insurance policy. It is a must.
The moment you marry a man with money, you should take out life insurance on both of you
Make sure, if possible, that you are the owner of the policy. Make sure you are the sole beneficiary of it as well.
Source: THE GOLD DIGGER’S GUIDE TO SEDUCTION: UNFAIR, UNDERHANDED AND DOWNRIGHT SHAMELESS TIPS TO GETTING THE MAN WITH MONEY by Eve Rabi
