*Unapologetically Me*

34 | STL | Lesbian | Exceptionally average | "Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn."

[nolongersilkbox]

In order to stop the culture of faking orgasms, we need to stop the culture of shaming others for their sexual experiences.

Can’t get your partner off on the first try? Cool. You can still be thoughtful and make them feel good.

Can get your partner off within 30 seconds? Awesome, good for you both, don’t let it get to your head.

Can make someone cum in less than 5, but for others, it’s a process that takes an hour? That’s alright, everyone’s different. 

Does it take you 30 minutes to cum? That’s okay, you’re not broken, you’re not a failure.

Does it take you 10 seconds to cum? That’s great, you’re not a slut, you’re not overly sensitive or dirty. 

Can’t cum without toys/vibrators? That’s awesome, that’s a valid part of sexual play!

Can only cum with loving, vanilla sex? That’s perfectly normal, and you will find lots of great partners to experience that with!

Can’t orgasm at all? THAT’S ALSO COOL. It’s not a bad thing, you can still enjoy sex TONNES just like others.

Orgasms are NOT the defining characteristic of your sexual prowess. They are great, they’re lovely when they happen, but for the love of science, stop bringing them up higher than they need to be. 

[fffddd09-deactivated20170610]

I wish I had this post when I was 18

[bruisedbutnotbroken82]

I really needed this.... wow!

[goodquoteco]

[kushandwizdom]

You’re going to meet this girl, this woman, and she’s going to flip your world upside down. But if she’s the one, you’ll ask yourself how you ever lived right side up.

Nicholas A Browne (via kushandwizdom)

[kushandwizdom]

"Don't allow negative people to rob you of you peace. Take a deep breath, and remember that you're blessed."

- Unknown

[australiansanta]

hey sorry for not replying i didnt want to

[bruisedbutnotbroken82]

Ha!

[kushandwizdom]

There must be a word for the disorder of listening to the same song for an entire day when you’re alone.

[kushandwizdom]

That "I need to make sure I'm being the best man I can be, so I can lead by example and encourage you to become the best woman you can be" type love..

[loveurbeautyhun]

Say it louder for the people in the back! Don’t get into these “I gotta take care of you” relationships! I push myself, you push yourself and we’re stronger because of it!

[kushandwizdom]

Trust me I don’t ever want dependency. People think love is a game. Just like someone said in the comments, iron strengthens iron.

[bruisedbutnotbroken82]

#yes

[kushandwizdom]

[kushandwizdom]

I can’t be in a relationship with anyone. I’m still having an affair with my insecurities.

(via kushandwizdom)

[bobbsayshi]

SUPPORT THE BLACK LGBT+ COMMUNITY

[thequeenadwoa]

I wonder what it feels like to have someone really want and appreciate you

[dxrissa]

When the thirst is mutual >

[kushandwizdom]

When the honesty is mutual >

[trippiehippieee]

When the effort it mutual >

[enlightenedsilverking]

When the trust is mutual >

[aintnosuchthingastoothick]

When the respect is mutual >

[mieshasmoore-deactivated2021091]

When the humor is mutual >

[yoterribee]

When the love is mutual >

[lesbianfemmes]

[goldshorty]

[cartnsncreal]

🌸 black lesbians 🌸

[oshun67]

We will not, cannot, and refuse to be ERASED!

[nonotnever]

[bruisedbutnotbroken82]

Beautiful