An ode to lees with âuglyâ laughs
Personally, I love âuglyâ laughs.
I find them adorable, endearing, amazing, and indeed the best kinds of laughs.
Iâve heard so many people talking about how their laughs are âuglyâ⊠talking about things like how they snort, how they squeal.
How some get really low with their laughs, or how they make âunconventionalâ noises when they laugh.
Maybe they barely laugh at all, but the sensations are still there as they squirm and their faces contort to pleasurable smiles.
But to me, do you know what an âuglyâ laugh shows? It shows that my Lee has given themselves over completely. They are completely comfortable, at the mercy of me, their Ler.
One of the great joys of being a Ler (and a Dom in general), to me, is that the Lee is completely giving themselves over to me. They have that complete trust and comfort to know that I will have their pleasure, comfort, and best interest in mind. They can let go of everything and just go along for the ride.
And that is why  I love âuglyâ laughs. It indicates such a wonderful, intimate moment between Lee and Ler.
So to all of you Lees out there who think  that their laughs when their âdeath spotâ is targeted are âuglyâ, or âweirdâ, or âunattractiveâ.
Quite the opposite⊠you are valid, you are worthy of your tickles, and I think your laugh is absolutely beautiful.
I was asked about this post and itâs honestly one of my fav posts Iâve made so⊠reblogging it since I canât edit it directly as a pinned post.
