Another Tuesday and another episode of Hotwifing 101. I tend to base these episodes on things that I hear during the week, and this past week I’ve seen and heard a number of guys trying to get with me and with a couple other girls trying the lifestyle,…and this subject came up like a sore thumb. Today I will be talking about something that I have mentioned a little before but didn’t go into much depth. That subject is Respect.
Guys…Yes YOU! Guys who are looking to be Bulls to us Hotwives! This is by far, the most important lesson for you! Sometimes, or should I say most of the time….you guys aren’t thinking with the right head. Believe me, I understand how exciting it may be for you to think about getting with a Hotwife! Trust me…I get it! But what you seem to misunderand is that most of you are going about it entirely the wrong way!
You young Bulls or wannabe Bulls assume that just because a woman declares herself a “Hotwife”, then surely she must be a woman with no care in the world how you approach her and how you talk to her. In your mind, you place her in the category of a slut or a whore with no moral fiber whatsoever. And this couldn’t be further from the truth. Yes, we may call ourselves sluts! Yes, we may call ourselves whores! But…most of that talk is for our Stag! And most of that talk is not meant in a disgusting way! In fact, most of us lead a very vanilla life outside of the lifestyle and consider ourselves normal ladies with normal day to day lives. So…Let me help educate you in how to Respect the Hotwives that you may encounter or approach.
Bulls, DO NOT approach with pics of your damn cock! Yours is probably no more impressive than the 50,000 others she has been sent. She most likely doesn’t want to be introduced to your cock right away. And she certainly doesn’t want a bull that brags about his 20 inches. Humility goes a long ways! And size is not important at all if you can’t use it right.
Bulls, DO NOT ask her about sexual positions, how many men she has been with, does she do anal, where does she want your warm hot load of cum, or that you want to bang the shit out of her pussy! The likelihood is that she will roll her eyes and not respond.
Bulls, DO NOT ask her if she will ignore her Stag and hook up alone! This is just a bad idea all around. Respect of the Stag is even more important than your respect of the Vixen.
Bulls, DO NOT talk about yourself! Let her ask the questions that she wants to know about you. Your focus should be doing the same about her. But not sexually….at least not on the first chats…and even then, The Hotwife should be the one moving the conversation into the sexual arena.
Knowing the Do NOTS…now the DO’s!…
Bulls, DO learn all about the Hotwife! Learn all about her as a person! As much as she will let you in on. Not sexually, just about her!
Bulls, DO treat the Stag as the one who holds the keys to the oasis! Buy him a drink! Find out all about him! Be courteous! Because the more he likes you, the more you will be allowed to share the bedroom!
Bulls, DO be a gentleman! Be charming! Make the Hotwife feel like a Queen! Believe me, she loves this! Make everything about HER….not you!
Bulls, DO follow all rules! Never question them! You are being invited into a relationship where this Hotwife and Stag expect certain things from you. Be alert and mindful of what those are. When in doubt….Ask the Stag!
Now, with all of this being adhered to, your desire to be naughty can and will be accomplished…but at her pace. Not Yours! She will eventually want to see the tool that you are going to be working with and she will ask for that. Only then do you send cock pics! She will also eventually want to talk naughty and be naughty….but only at her pace! Not Yours! And if you do all of this correctly, you will be able to fuck her to your hearts content exactly the way you like! Just be sure to follow the above advice or you may not even get a response! And that ends this week’s Hotwifing 101.
This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and stories of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions and stories today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! 💋 ~LillybGoddess
