"it is a metaphor for a child who is not allowed to grow up"

[Current Read(s): Death in the Jungle By Candace Fleming (does anyone actually look at what i'm currently reading LOL) ART TRADES OPEN

[apolladay]

Between those two, Who would be the worse one to date?

A man with a gun for a head that has exactly 1 bullet into his head, every time he climaxes, the bullet might shoot into your head, with a guaranteed death rate if shot.

A masked man who works in a resort that is cursed with a mysterious curse that makes his partner to have a agonizing, bizarre death that like normal death, it could happen any time as long you are in a relationship with him.

Both men are boyfriend material and are your type.

Which one you would choose?

- Gun man

- Curse Maskman

- I do not like men

- nuance

- results

Between those two, Who would be the worse one to date? A man with a gun for a head that has exactly 1 bullet into his head, every time he climaxes, the bullet might shoot into your head, with a guaranteed death rate if shot. A masked man who works in a resort that is cursed with a mysterious curse that makes his partner to have a agonizing, bizarre death that like normal death, it could happen any time as long you are in a relationship with him. Both men are boyfriend material and are your type. Which one you would choose?

Gun man

Cursed maskman

I do not like men

Nuance

Results

Remaining time: 6 days 23 hours

[sometiktoksarevalid]

[ekjohnston]

i have never felt so valued and able to sharpen a pencil why am i crying

[disparatemind]

I love her so much ♥️

[bubble-wrap-baby]

what is this game bro.

[dogposts]

getting pet by mama (via)

[toonskribblez]

[bubble-wrap-baby]

@kristxt

[titsay]

i am the luckiest because i have u

[bubble-wrap-baby]

@kristxt

[vesterium-ulpiani]

hello...!

so, many apologies for the throwaway account! i am being stalked by the abuser in question and we live in the same home so please understand i cannot use my main account...!

but, hi. its me. the seal. i am in the process of removing my abuser from my home and this is just assistance in making sure I can pay rent and have a place to stay while i am waiting to get hired somewhere and get checks coming in. she uses her rent payment as an excuse to feel like she can treat me poorly and I am...at my limit, genuinely...! i am just stuck until I can pull ahead. its been like this for years and honestly I'm ready to go no contact and move on with my life...!

GoFundMe here

All of the money will be stored in a savings I will not touch until I get my first employment check in and pay my first instance of rent...! (it's about $1300 a month).

I so genuinely appreciate any and all donations, as it will help me end the cycle with my egg donor and her partner here and I can finally start to heal.

[alphajn]

Reblogging on main because Emer is a friend of mine and I'd appreciate it immensely for this to get some reach, and for them to get out of this awful situation.

[vesterium-ulpiani]

hello...!

so, many apologies for the throwaway account! i am being stalked by the abuser in question and we live in the same home so please understand i cannot use my main account...!

but, hi. its me. the seal. i am in the process of removing my abuser from my home and this is just assistance in making sure I can pay rent and have a place to stay while i am waiting to get hired somewhere and get checks coming in. she uses her rent payment as an excuse to feel like she can treat me poorly and I am...at my limit, genuinely...! i am just stuck until I can pull ahead. its been like this for years and honestly I'm ready to go no contact and move on with my life...!

GoFundMe here

All of the money will be stored in a savings I will not touch until I get my first employment check in and pay my first instance of rent...! (it's about $1300 a month).

I so genuinely appreciate any and all donations, as it will help me end the cycle with my egg donor and her partner here and I can finally start to heal.

[alphajn]

Reblogging on main because Emer is a friend of mine and I'd appreciate it immensely for this to get some reach, and for them to get out of this awful situation.

[vesterium-ulpiani]

hello...!

so, many apologies for the throwaway account! i am being stalked by the abuser in question and we live in the same home so please understand i cannot use my main account...!

but, hi. its me. the seal. i am in the process of removing my abuser from my home and this is just assistance in making sure I can pay rent and have a place to stay while i am waiting to get hired somewhere and get checks coming in. she uses her rent payment as an excuse to feel like she can treat me poorly and I am...at my limit, genuinely...! i am just stuck until I can pull ahead. its been like this for years and honestly I'm ready to go no contact and move on with my life...!

GoFundMe here

All of the money will be stored in a savings I will not touch until I get my first employment check in and pay my first instance of rent...! (it's about $1300 a month).

I so genuinely appreciate any and all donations, as it will help me end the cycle with my egg donor and her partner here and I can finally start to heal.

[alphajn]

Reblogging on main because Emer is a friend of mine and I'd appreciate it immensely for this to get some reach, and for them to get out of this awful situation.

[commodore64]

[janayuga]

hello transformers prime fandom, have my first humble contribution

[janayuga]

hello transformers prime fandom, have my first humble contribution

[royaltealee]

I fear I may be getting better at drawing Simon and Grace respectively- HAVE MORE FOOD!

Friend: why does Simon’s nose shape keep changing?

Me: ….shhhhhh….no it isn’t…

[royaltealee]

I fear I may be getting better at drawing Simon and Grace respectively- HAVE MORE FOOD!

Friend: why does Simon’s nose shape keep changing?

Me: ….shhhhhh….no it isn’t…

[royaltealee]

I fear I may be getting better at drawing Simon and Grace respectively- HAVE MORE FOOD!

Friend: why does Simon’s nose shape keep changing?

Me: ….shhhhhh….no it isn’t…

[logically-asexual]

i feel so seen!!

(twitter thread)

[boop-your-dragons]

Does everyone "have" a gender?

Examining 'gender detachment' in the asexual community

[snazzy-hats-and-adhd]

Saving @derinthescarletpescatarian 's tags because I just like the way they are worded.

[tsarq]

This is so cool

[runesinthenight]

This is so validating because the respondents in this paper are saying some of the same things I've been feeling and thinking for years.

I'm asexual. I figured that out not long after I first came across the term in high school. But figuring out my gender took a lot longer. I didn't really think about my gender identity for years, it wasn't until I was in college that I started trying to figure out what my gender was. That process took years.

I didn't really feel attached to my assigned gender, but I also didn't feel the gender dysphoria that trans people described. I didn't particularly feel like I was neither of those either. For a long time, I honestly didn't feel like any of the gender descriptions and identities I was coming across really fit. I just didn't care that much about what my actual gender was. Eventually I decided upon the agender label as that seemed the most apt. As the paper says, it's really hard to be truly without gender in this highly gendered world. Agender is a way of defining myself in a way that people who experience gender might be able to understand when "I'm just me." isn't really an acceptable answer to the "what's your gender?" question.

I don't mind being perceived as a gender, none of them are offensive to me. While I do like when I am perceived as male or at least not female, I think that more has to do with growing up female and not wanting to be pushed into traditional female roles and values than a connection or repulsion to any gender. I'm impossible to misgender because I frankly don't care.

Honestly, the biggest problem I have with my gender, is trying to define it to people. There's been a large push in recent years for asking people for their pronouns, or including pronouns in things like email signatures and surveys. And don't get me wrong, I'm not saying this is a bad thing! This is very affirming for a lot of people. But it feels like I need to pick something that doesn't quite fit. At pride, for instance, there's always pronoun buttons. But they're all she/her, he/him, they/them, she/they, he/they, it/it, xe/xir, etc etc. And that's great. I'm always glad that there are a lot of options for people. But there's never any pins for any/all pronouns. I've never picked up a free pronoun pin at pride, despite always looking, because they all feel like picking what pronouns I don't want poeple to use and the answer is that I don't care. I fround an any/all pronoun pin once at a queer museum and I cried.

I really suggest you read the paper if you haven't. Not just the article, the whole paper. This is probably the most seen I've felt in a long time.

[logically-asexual]

i feel so seen!!

(twitter thread)

[boop-your-dragons]

Does everyone "have" a gender?

Examining 'gender detachment' in the asexual community

[snazzy-hats-and-adhd]

Saving @derinthescarletpescatarian 's tags because I just like the way they are worded.

[tsarq]

This is so cool

[runesinthenight]

This is so validating because the respondents in this paper are saying some of the same things I've been feeling and thinking for years.

I'm asexual. I figured that out not long after I first came across the term in high school. But figuring out my gender took a lot longer. I didn't really think about my gender identity for years, it wasn't until I was in college that I started trying to figure out what my gender was. That process took years.

I didn't really feel attached to my assigned gender, but I also didn't feel the gender dysphoria that trans people described. I didn't particularly feel like I was neither of those either. For a long time, I honestly didn't feel like any of the gender descriptions and identities I was coming across really fit. I just didn't care that much about what my actual gender was. Eventually I decided upon the agender label as that seemed the most apt. As the paper says, it's really hard to be truly without gender in this highly gendered world. Agender is a way of defining myself in a way that people who experience gender might be able to understand when "I'm just me." isn't really an acceptable answer to the "what's your gender?" question.

I don't mind being perceived as a gender, none of them are offensive to me. While I do like when I am perceived as male or at least not female, I think that more has to do with growing up female and not wanting to be pushed into traditional female roles and values than a connection or repulsion to any gender. I'm impossible to misgender because I frankly don't care.

Honestly, the biggest problem I have with my gender, is trying to define it to people. There's been a large push in recent years for asking people for their pronouns, or including pronouns in things like email signatures and surveys. And don't get me wrong, I'm not saying this is a bad thing! This is very affirming for a lot of people. But it feels like I need to pick something that doesn't quite fit. At pride, for instance, there's always pronoun buttons. But they're all she/her, he/him, they/them, she/they, he/they, it/it, xe/xir, etc etc. And that's great. I'm always glad that there are a lot of options for people. But there's never any pins for any/all pronouns. I've never picked up a free pronoun pin at pride, despite always looking, because they all feel like picking what pronouns I don't want poeple to use and the answer is that I don't care. I fround an any/all pronoun pin once at a queer museum and I cried.

I really suggest you read the paper if you haven't. Not just the article, the whole paper. This is probably the most seen I've felt in a long time.

[doodlesfromjupiter]

My latest obsession

Please look at my drawing I'm actually so proud of it

(Also if any of u could like it in my other socials thatd be great I'm stuggling to get more people to see my art 🥺