I am here to Serve,Worship,Obey Madam Nicki

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The beauty of ‘sub space’ - that male mindset that comes about on the far side of his struggle to adapt to the new reality of his submission - has many facets:

I just obey her - fully surrendered, knowing I’ll be happiest when I do

My desire isn’t just mindless obedience though; what I really want is her pleasure. That’s what pleases me.

I don’t think about cumming anymore - don’t expect it, beg for it, fantasize about it. Instead, I cherish every second of arousal she offers, in whatever form she gives it, as a gift from her. yes, I’m always left wanting more and so am frustrated for a few moments or minutes. But that quickly passes and soon I’m once again in the bliss of clarity: She owns my pleasure, and I like it that way.

I love to try and exceed her expectations and surprise her with little pleasures.

I’m easily aroused, by her words, scent, hair, touch, by undressing hair, shaving her legs, kissing her feet, doing chores for her (often naked/caged) while she relaxes. It’s all pleasure to me.

Her orgasms are truly more pleasurable to me than my own, and if I was able to participate with my tongue? Nirvana.

Sub space isn’t a forever thing. Life gets in the way with work stress, illness, and various needs to communicate about things. But we work together at getting back to it, because it’s bliss for me, and makes her life easier and she feels adored, heard, honored, obeyed, and served.

Don’t quit! Keep working together to get him into sub space and keep him there, where he’s fully surrendered.

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[chastelovingobedience]

SEVA: a gift SHE can give her male, leading him to rest, peace, health.

You love him and respect him for all his hard work, so you don’t want to be demanding. But here’s the problem. It might well be that your being demanding is exactly what he needs in order to thrive and attain longed for balance.

Many of the men who thrive in a female led marriage are top level in their professions. CEO, COO, CFO, head of sales, etc. While everyone needs to learn service, shedding the ego and putting the needs and pleasures of others first, these men need it more than anyone, and those who know they need it want their wives to lead them there. This shedding of the ego is called SEVA. It’s needed for wholeness and…

a loving wife will guide her strong husband into SEVA by being firm. She demands and expects he’ll obey and serve her desires perfectly, both domestically and sexually. HE NEEDS THIS!

Sevā (also transcribed as sewa), in Hinduism and Sikhism, is the concept of selfless service that is performed without any expectation of reciprocation. So he cleans and does chores without expectation of sexual favors. He gives her oral pleasures and massages without any expectation of being unlocked. He receives explicit corrections and repeats chores, without falling into self pity, whining, or defensiveness. He works while she relaxes. He does chores and expects no ‘thank you’ at the end because he knows you are giving him the GIFT of learning to serve unconditionally.

As he enters SEVA experiences, your high capacity man will likely gain the gift of entering subspace, an emotional and bodily state where his ego is shattered. Your comfort and pleasure is all he cares about. The more demanding you are, the more explicit in your corrections when you’re not pleased, the more vulnerable he is (hence nudity), the more you rest while he obeys and serves, then the quicker and more deeply he gets to subspace. The more peace he enjoys.

You’ll likely both discover that he craves this space and is extremely happy there. This discovery, made during your intensive scheduled SEVA times, will spill over into one term changes in your regular life. In the picture below, her ‘mean’ tone is music to his ears, resonating with his longing to please her perfectly. He’s THRILLED that she loves him enough to be demanding and explicitly correct him

When these high capacity men indicate a desire to serve in their marriage, or a desire to surrender control, it’s because they have a deep longing, almost an ache to do so. It’s an ache that won’t be relieved until she exerts strong demanding leadership as his Queen. The wise woman will discover that what otherwise might appear outwardly as being sometimes selfish, controlling, or bitchy is for him exactly what he needs needs some times in order to find the bliss that comes with his TOTAL subjegation to the will of another. And when the one to whom he is subject praises him, arouses him, and becomes his queen sexually and domestically, that bliss becomes his favorite place, known as subspace.

Here’s how to help your man enter SEVA.

Tell him what you want done, with explicit direction and a timeline. You can be calm. In fact, there’s no need to shout. But whatever your tone, the desired result is that he consistently, and without complaint or challenge, does what tell him to do within the time frame you express according to your quality standards.

Find your mutual limits. You’re likely too afraid of being demanding and selfish. As a result, you’ll dial back domestic expectations, or let him spill too soon, or unlock his cock too often. Yes… he needs daily arousal somehow, but there are dozens of ways to get there without unlocking. And yes, he has hobbies and needs rest and free time too - but it’s wise for both of you to try and find his limits of service and obedience, and that’s best done through devoted times of experimenting with pushing the limits. SEVA isn’t a 24-7 thing, but rather an intensive, like a workout, that changes normal life for the better. During this time he should be completely devoted to serving you, doing things for you, and being as quiet as you desire.

Do it and debrief it. For us it started with one 48 hour period each month where his calendar was cleared and his life was devoted to my pleasures and plans for him. Can you put yourself first for 48 hours? He wants you to try! Now we write SEVA on the calendar for an evening, a day, or two days, and we know what it means (by the way, a day of SEVA serving me is all he wants for his birthday now). During SEVA my car gets cleaned, windows washed, floors scrubbed, full body massage, legs shaved, pussy trimmed, multiple orgasms, all my meals (menu chosen by me) cooked to perfection, and more. And for him? The joy of serving with no thought of reward, being corrected without defensiveness or excuses, and the privilege of participating in my climaxes and enjoying my scent, beauty and touch. Maybe I’ll grant a quick hand job for him too if I’m feeling generous and he’s been perfect. AND AS FOR LIMITS… if it’s too much for him, you’ll learn that in the debrief and can dial it back next time. So far, though, he’s still strong… still has a life… still leads many things - AND loves serving and obeying me more and more

Help him get to subspace. He’s looking for a sort of nirvana that awakens only when someone has completely surrendered their plans, appetites, lusts for sex and comfort, in favor of unrestricted service. When such service is for his Queen it will be sexual, but that’s good. He’ll channel the energy of his lust for you into pleasing and serving you, both sexually and domestically.

One older woman new to chastity and FLR says: ‘I’m not naturally dominant, and spent my life putting the needs of others before my own. SEVA has awakened me to my own need for self-care and given me the courage to state my desires. Now I voice my desires and expect them to be met, and know that they will, by this beautiful man who longs to please me. I have a confidence as a woman, lover, and leader in the relationship I never dreamed would be possible

We schedule SEVA sessions by writing the word on the calendar for an evening, a day, a weekend. We both know what it means and look forward to it, him at least as much as me, probably more.

Leading a man through intensive SEVA experiences isn’t selfish on your part at all. It’s exactly the opposite, so stop worrying about that. You both need intensives where your pleasure isn’t the first thing; It’s the only thing. He needs to serve. What you think are extreme demands on him are actually a high form of LOVE for both him and yourself.

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How to ensure your husband’s service doesn’t slip once he has a release from chastity

Release from chastity - how to ensure Husband remains obedient

How to ensure your husband maintains high levels of service after his release from chastity, a man in chastity can be an absolute delight

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29 ways to humiliate your husband

Humiliate your husband - 29 creative ways

learning to humiliate your husband as part of a Female-Led Relationship (FLR) can be a powerful and exciting aspect of the dynamic,

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How to be a good husband (1950’s style)

How to be a Good Husband (1950’s style) - Female Led

How to be a Good Husband, A reversal of the 1950s dynamic? Oh, now that's a tantalising thought! Imagine flipping the script on that

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Whispers and Secret Signals - The art of discreet dominance

Whispers and Secret Signals - The Art of Discreet Dominance

My daring darlings, within these subtle whispers and secret signals lies the strength of your sovereignty, the bond of your dominion, all

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She does “traffic jam” chastity

Help! My husband asked me to try chastity play but it’s not going well. Usually, right after I’ve let him out, things are fine. He can be a little cool toward me but that’s fine. But then over the next two days he grows steadily whinier until his begging to be unlocked is intolerable. Not much fun for me or him. I never tell him exactly when I’ll do it, but I almost always take pity on him in the evening on the third or fourth day and let him out to take care of himself. The whole thing has been a bit of a letdown. Is this what everyone is raving about? Surely not.

- Ms. M

No, Ms. M, it’s not and I dare say it’s because…

YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG

Okay, there’s no such thing as right and wrong with intimacy, just different tactics that will yield different results. The tactics you’re using are not aligned with the very achievable results you seek.

Traffic Jam Chastity

Don’t you hate idling in a traffic jam? The worst isn’t standstill traffic. The worst is traffic that is moving just slow enough so that you can’t leave your foot on the gas because you have to keep braking every five seconds. Starting and stopping in crowded traffic is enough to send any driver to road rage court. But that is exactly what you’re doing to your husband.

After a man orgasms his sexual response and interest drop precipitously to their lowest levels. We’ve all seen it. Interest in sex evaporates. Romance and flirting get shoved roughly in a drawer and the male brain hunkers down to git stuf dun.

But, as we know, those rascally males don’t stay heads-down for long. Within 24 hours the sexual response begins to slowly return as the prostate refills. He barely notices it at first but by the second and third days it has taken over his one-tracked mind and he’s getting pretty ready for some luvin’. Shouldn’t that mean you should give it to him? Give him some relief?

Days 2 and 3 are the most irritating for a man

No! Let me explain why not. Days 2 and 3 are the most irritating phase of chastity for a man. Why? For the same reason day 3 of any diet is the most temptation prone and why it eliminates so many dieters. He’s transitioning from getting exactly what his body demands to not. It’s an uncomfortable change and the body doesn’t like it. Every five minutes his body asks “Wait, wut? You mean I can’t have? Why can’t I have? I need! Give me now!” Frustration and irritation mount and, if you do let him orgasm, he will experience immediate relief.

The Goldilocks Phase

Relief is not pleasure. Relief is not useful. Relief, his relief, is not your friend. It lets him off the hook and unravels all that nice tension you just wound into his brain. If you want to experience the benefits of chastity and you want your husband to be floating on the fabled submissive cloud of chaste pleasure then you need to get him past the constant battle for relief and into the Goldilocks Phase.

Sometime after day 4, depending on the man, his body will slowly start to realize that an orgasm is not imminent and therefore it’s a waste of resources to keep expecting relief at any minute. This may take hours or days but he will eventually stabilize into acceptance. Not just mental, but physical acceptance. This is where you want his head.

In the Goldilocks Phase, his expectations have been lowered enough to stop fighting chastity but not so low that he gets depressed. In this phase he is free to simply experience chastity, to experience the sensation of ever growing arousal and ever intensifying desire. For men, desire is pleasure. This will be a sweet sensation that never stops, made just a little bittersweet by occasional waves of overwhelming need. (Don’t worry about those They pass quickly.)

Goldilocks is best for you too

It’s not just him that rides this wave. You benefit most in this period. Rather than spending time fighting chastity and pestering you, his only way out and only listening ear, he spends his time in quiet contemplation. It is this phase that he switches to the long game. Instead of busting out a couple of chores and expecting a tit-for-tat release, he begins to consider the keyholder’s point of view, her needs and her whims. He finds himself doing things that he knows she’ll appreciate and he hardly even notices that he’s doing them. He truly puts her first.

But you need to do it right

But for him to take that view you need to play above his level. Chastity must reinforce the dynamic you want. That means the following:

You never promise a date. You can hint at early release for good behavior or late release for bad, but he must never expect an actual date or time.

You must never cave to begging. He may ask politely once or twice during a stretch of chastity and, if you wish, you may give his request some consideration. But once your decision is made you must stick to it no matter what. I recommend that further begging result in a longer sentence.

Behavior should be tied to chastity. Don’t reward bad behavior. If you do you’re just teaching him he can do it and get the rewards.

How Long? Three-to-four weeks

The Goldilocks Period is about three to four weeks long. During this period he will slowly get more and more aroused, experience more and more submissive feelings toward you and become more and more malleable by you.

That long? I couldn’t possibly!

To some who are starting out, weeks of lockup might seem cruel. Believe me, it’s not as cruel as what you are doing to him by letting him out every three days, stop and go, hot and cold, up and down. If your doctor prescribed a 20-day course of antibiotics would you stop taking them after three days when you started feeling better? No. The same goes with the man. To get all those benefits you need to keep him locked for the full course. I would say that’s at least two weeks (in the case of some reward for extra good behavior) but usually three weeks. And up to four (in the case of bad behavior).

How will you know? He will thank you.

How will you know that you’re keeping him locked up long enough? He will thank you. That’s right, he will actually thank you for keeping him locked up. It might not happen right away. It might take several rounds, several months for his thinking to evolve but it surely will. I’ve done this to hundreds of men, some in person some online. Every single one of them proactively thanks me at some point. There are other signs as well. Aggressiveness toward you will disappear. Calm, quiet service to you will develop spontaneously. After the letdown of orgasm he will actually crave to go back in chastity. He’ll miss that glow so much he’ll want to skip past the next three days so he can get it. Eventually he’ll reach the point that he doesn’t want to be unlocked when the time rolls around. At that point you can have the magical discussion about… wait for it… permanent chastity. That, however, is a discussion for another day.

So man-up, ladies and lock him down and swear off traffic jam chastity forever.

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The Starting Rules

Chastity Rules

Basic Rules for beginners. The key is to be very strict and follow every rule.

1. Take control of his orgasms • He must wear a chastity device 24/7. • You should lock his chastity cage and only you should be the “KeyHolder”. You can also use a numeric padlock. • Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing. • Emphasize that he will never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm OR erection! without your permission. • He must experience ruined orgasms.  This emphasizes your control and stimulates his frustration. • He may only cum when wearing a buttplug and your panties. You may also gag him. • Peg him, make him cum like a real sissy • Milk his prostate • Always restrain his hands(handcuffs or rope) when letting him out of his cage. Many guys will resist after an orgasm or take control when you edge/ruin them.

Everytime you let him cum, you must ruin him. After that you make him eat his cum. You can edge him and forbid him to orgasm. You have to learn him that he may not orgasm. If he does then you have to make him eat his cum. 

Ruined -> Eat it Accidently -> Eat it

Only tease and edge! Edge every day!

2. Chastity devices • Make him buy secure permanent devices like the jailbird, holy trainer or metal cages with urethra plugs. Make sure you get the right size so he cannot escape. You can make many devices escape proof with medical glue. The best option is a PA. It is recommended to glue his foreskin with superglue so he won’t attempt to escape. This does not damage the skin but lays a sticky layer for 1 week. • The best devices can be worn 24/7 and only need cleaning every other day. He can clean it in the shower by putting soap in his cage and apply a full jet of the shower head right in the cage. it will clean his penis thoroughly. No need to take him out • Shaving can perfectly be done while wearing the device. Just move it a bit to reach the hard to reach spots. • If he has to clean his penis manually for a reason. Do it under supervision or tell him that only you may touch his penis. He is not allowed to play by himself. • Draw you name on his dick before putting him in the cage. That way you can check if he cheated or not! For him it is mind boggling not touching a body part for over a month when he used to touch it every hour.

3. Get into his head! • Learn his fantasies and what turns him on. • Tease him with his fantasies whenever possible. • Make him wear your panties all the time. Skirts, stockings, socks everything to make him remember he’s your slut at work or wherever he goes. • Make him sign these rules without letting him read it. He may experience the joy of chastity. • He must promise he will follow the rules strictly. You may threaten to leave him if he doesn’t. He will make up his mind soon enough. • Explain to him that he will only receive prostate orgasm. Sissies should cum like real girls. • Make him shave his WHOLE body! Nothing better then feeling a soft body next to you in bed at night. It will grow back so he has to maintain it.

4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible. • Taunt him.  Dress sexy • Talk sexy and dirty to him. • Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating. • Fondle him or let him fondle you. • Make him wear a buttplug or prostate massager everytime you go out. • Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual. • Make him give you orgasms frequently. • Edge him • Milk his prostate

5. Make him do something humiliating and learn when he will do anything for you. • Tease him to the edge then command the most humiliating activities.  He will do them. • Make him wear a butt-plug for a time. • Train him to submit to your strapon.   • Make him be naked when you are not. • Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum after your ruin his orgasm no matter where it is deposited. Sit on his face after a creampie or feed him off your hand or french kiss him!

6. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to taunt him. • Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private). • Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear. • Make him shop for lingerie or toys for you. • Leave notes with instructions like: “I want to see you caged and plugged with these when I get home”

7. Control your own feelings of guilt.

• He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your    permission. • If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it! • Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one. • Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).

Extra sissy rules:

• A sissy must wear panties. He does not own any male underwear. Take away his underwear and replace it. • A sissy may wear a bra and pink or brightly colored tights or leggings. Leggings and nylon are mandatory! • A sissy must sleep in lingerie. If he does not have any, he must sleep naked. • When alone, a sissy must dress as a girl. Good sissies wear lipstick while alone. • A sissy always keeps himself free of facial hair, and is otherwise well groomed. He must always be presentable, ready to please.  • Good sissies shave their legs • A sissy must never touch himself sexually without explicit permission from his Master or from his Muse • A sissy must wear as many lovely pink girly things as possible • Sissy must be in panties and a bra minimum at all times. • Sissy must keep shaved clean below the neck at all times. • Slave is not to masturbate with out permission, and when permission is given, it must be done in a slutty humiliating sissy way that reinforces my position.   

Some text to make him horny:

‘I love thinking about your cock in that cage

I’m thinking about you inside me right now, maybe I’ll let you tonight

Fancy a blow job? He replies yes. Shame you’ve got that cage on.

How are you going to convince me to unlock you tonight honey?

I’m really horny. Come and give me an orgasm, at least one of might as well

a list of tasks with ‘unlock cock’ as the final one lol

Read and learn new stuff: http://chastitycouples.tumblr.com/

[thecanadianhotwife]

Once again!!

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Good rules to live by!!🥰🥰🥰

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30 Days to Female Dominance.

Female Dominance in 30 days.

Let’s face it.  You need this.  Dominant women get what they want, and people get out of the way of them when they go after it.  Either that, or they help them achieve it.  Dominance is a beautiful word, and you are a beautiful dominant inner goddess waiting to be released.

In the past, you let people walk all over you, including your husband.  You let friends, family, and others take advantage of your good nature.

In this article, we are going to teach you how to become a powerful, assertive, dominant woman that gets what she wants, when and how she wants its.

Sounds good right?

You bet it is.

However, this isn’t going to happen by reading this article once.

Bookmark this and register at femdomtraining.ca for more training in becoming more dominant.

You have years of patterns, behaviours, and reactions that all have formed part of you.

In this training session, we are going to unravel the pieces that do not work for you, and replace them with a strong, dominant woman who gets what she wants….

So listen to me very carefully right now.  This is an absolute must.  If you are going to learn how to become dominant, one of your first lessons is that you must learn self discipline.

The first discipline that is imperative for you to follow, is that you need to read this article every day for the next 30 days.

You have taken decades of your life to get to where you are right now and I am not about to be able to change you in 1 day.  However, if you give me 30 days in a row WITHOUT MISSING 1 DAY of reading this, you will change dramatically.  You can expect to find:

New found confidence and self discipline.

A 100% compliant obedient husband.

An incredible feeling of self worth and peace.

So let’s get started.

The dominant nature inside of you has always been there.  Every woman has it.  Few tap into it.

You and you alone are responsible for the way people treat you.  So, you will be re-training the people in your life to make sure that you are treated as the dominant goddess you are.

If you are to train people on how to treat you, it is not their say in what you do to train them.  It is yours, and yours alone.

Here are some proven methods to train your man so that he is 100% compliant and obedient to your will.  Always start with your man in training, because when you train him, others will follow.  To be dominant, one just needs to break another dominant person to their will, and everything else just starts to fall in place.

Pull your man aside at your earliest convenience, and have this discussion with him.

Let him know that for the next 30 days you will be training to be a dominant woman, and that his assistance in this is absolutely vital for your success.

You will require a few things of him.

Here is a list of things that you will require of him.

For the next 30 days while you are training, your husband is not allowed to cum.  There are no exceptions, and no feeling sorry for him, no matter how much he begs or pleads. NO orgasms for your man.  Period.

He is to do everything he is asked without hesitation, questions, or talking back on all matters inside and out of the bedroom.  Failure to comply will result in an extreme spanking.

He is to wear a chastity device of some kind for the full 30 days.  It will be taken off only for tease and deny sessions or penetrating sex, without any release for him.

Let him know too, that at the end of your dominance training for you to be a successful dominant, that you will require him to eat his own cum.  You will require him to shoot his load on you, and lick it off your body, and then profess to you that he surrenders his will, decisions, cock, mind, body and soul to you as his loving dominant wife.

These are your requirements for him.

Here is what you need to do over the course of these next 30 days.

1. Read this article everyday.

2.  Make him do things that he does not like to do in and out of the bedroom to push his understanding of what true submission is.

3.  Cum as often as you can by his hands, mouth, tongue, or toys.

As you start to do these things on a daily basis, your dominance will grow.

This is a REAL BOOTCAMP for your man, and it should not be pleasant for him, except for the new bedroom games you will be playing with him this month.

Aside from him doing ALL AND ANYTHING you ask for this entire month in the way of chores, in the bedroom, he will do anything you ask.  This is your chance to learn what true domination is.  This is how you awaken your desires, and unleash your inner goddess.

Your man has become your complete boy toy, with no restrictions on how you use him.

To complete training in the next 30 days, the end goal of this 30 days is to make your man eat his own cum.

Most men will gag, or hate the thought of eating their own cum, and your husband is likely no exception.  At the end of the 30 days, you are going to make him lick up every drop of his massive load off of your body, and profess to you, that he is yours eternally as your slave in and out of the bedroom.

He will do this out of sheer lust of not cumming for 30 days, and the training you will be doing all month long.

Each day, you will make him need to cum even more with teasing.  You will hint to him at times when he is very close to cuming, and desperate to cum, that the time is not right now.  Let him know that when the 30 days is up, he will be allowed to cum, but only if he eats his cum off of your body.  Constantly bring this up over the next 30 days.  You are planting suggestions in his head, so he will be able to follow through with what you ask.

Trust me when I say, that if you have him locked up for 30 days, he will do anything you want for him to cum, so this is what you want him to do.  The reasons you want him to do this, is so that you truly do dominate him.  It is all pretend until you make him do things he simply does not want to do under any circumstances.  Well, you are bending the circumstances so that YOU can make him do anything.  That is the purpose of domination.

IN this 30 days you will also fuck him regularly in the ass with a strap on, when you please.  If he protests, or is not in the mood, all the better.  This is when you do it the most.  Fuck him hard, and long until he begs for you to stop, and then a little longer after that.

This is an important part of submission training.  Each time you fuck him in the ass, he will feel humility, submission, and it works great coupled with orgasm denial to make him listen and respond to anything you say.

Make him do very degrading things during the month.

Here are some suggestions.

He should have a buttplug in as often as possible.  In fact, the only time he should have it out is when you are fucking his ass.  Somewhere in between always plugged and

sometimes plugged is likely the right place to be.  I am just a more dominant woman, and believe that my man should be plugged virtually 24/7.  It serves as a reminder to him that I am his boss.  If you try this, have 0 compassion when he begs you to take it out.  Say no.  Eventually, he will get used to it.  Use a metal one.  They are better for longterm use.

You should always make him get on his knees and suck your strap on for lube before you fuck him.

He will hate this, and you will feel very powerful with his inability to argue with you, or protest.

If he does, of course you know what happens.  He gets spanked extremely hard.

When he is in the kneeling position, and you enter your strap on into his mouth, grab the back of his head and slowly start fucking his face.  Think of the times when you were doing this for him.   Realize now, that you want him to feel true submission.

Start fucking his face hard. Make him gag on it.  Plug his nose with one hand, and fuck hard with your body and watch him gag.  This is great humility training.  It should be your goal to do this EVERYTIME you put on the strap on.  It goes hand in hand.  You need lube, and he is to provide it.

If all this humiliation becomes too much for him, and he wants to quit.  PERFECT.  You are doing a great job. If he doesn’t protest, find more humiliating things for him to do.  You are not doing your job right, if you he doesn’t want to quit at some point.  When he does  you tell him, that if he fails to do what you ask, that you will forget about all this femdom stuff, and he is to never bring it up again.

The part that most women do not understand in female dominance when they first get started, is that it is as real as you want to make it.  If you are just indulging in your husbands fantasies, and not really taking control by pushing your man into doing uncomfortable things, then you are really again, just being controlled by him.

In order for female dominance to become real, you must make it real, by forcing him to do things that he does not want to do.  You will either be done with all of this, or you will have the breakthrough, where you truly have brought your man to his knees in full servitude to you for the rest of your life.

Consider it like breaking a horse in.  Or training a dog.  Men are no different.  They can be trained to submit to your will on all matters but you do have to “break him in”.

What sounds better to you?

Indulging your mans fantasies….. or taking control of your man, your life, and your reality.

I know what I choose.  Join me, and make your man your bitch.

Take him, break him, mold him, and have a relationship with him, that few ever get to experience.

A relationship that puts you on a pedestal, with him serving you as you wish.

A relationship, where chores are the mans job, (unless you want to help), orgasms are an obligation for the men to give, and a privilege for him to be granted rarely for exceptional servitude.

This is your world now.  You are dominant, and your man is your submissive.  He asked for this, but he didn’t realize what it meant.  Too bad.  Either you take him now, or your window of opportunity will pass you by.

Do you want to be the passive, obligatory, serving wife, indulging your man’s fantasies, or do you want to be the dominant goddess that has all of her own fantasies fulfilled.

Make your man your bitch.  That is the secret to life for all womankind.

Now, that this article is almost over, you want to remember everything that we have discussed here.

You are now the dominant goddess of the house.

What you say goes, is what goes.

There are no exceptions.  What you want is what you get.

Be disciplined with yourself, and do not do things that contradict your dominance.

Your temple is your body and mind.  You and you alone can take your body and mind to places it has never been without the aid of alcohol or drugs.

Dominant women get a buzz off of dominating their men.  This is a high for you. You are now addicted to dominating your man.  You control him in every facet of your life and are free to explore boundaries limited only by consent, in which you can bend and manipulate to your favour.

Now, be a sweetheart, or a good sissy, and share this with as many women as you can.  The world needs more of us sweetie.  Help the cause.

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[lasvegaschris]

Great post

[luscious-liza]

This is a great way

[underwifey]

[worshipbrats2]

[flr4me]

i will not stop PRINCESS!

[sirsadistic]

12 Reasons I need to have a Dominant in my life

1.) I need the structure and rules in order to feel fulfilled.

2.) I need to have someone to care for and be valuable to

3.) I crave the intensity of D/s interactions

4.) The feeling of ownership makes me feel safe and free

5.) Having someone in my life who is willing to push my boundaries has made me a better person

6.) I need someone who craves me and wants me just as much as I do them and I have not found that in the vanilla world

7.) I need to be held accountable for my actions in a way that only a D/s relationship can provide

8.) I love having a person who will take me down dark paths of desire

9.) I have desires that require absolute trust in order to be fulfilled

10.) I crave that moment when I can finally let go and fully submit and my mind finally quiets

11.) Sometimes I just need the feelings of hands on my throat or buried in my hair and the whisper of “You are Mine” in my ear

12.) Pain is an incredible turn on and I have yet to meet a vanilla who understands why I want it

[wannabe-a-slut]

Yes. 100% yes

[strictpigowner]

And which one is the most important reason to you?

[417-faggot]

Know what you mean, truly know!

[alllockedup]

[heyhey0909]

Love my wife with all my heart . I would do any thing for her just so he life can be less stress . 😍😘😗😇😚😉

[mistressbabydollslaveboy-deacti]

Is and Always will be. Slaveboy will always be at your service @mistressbabydoll and ready for your discipline and punishment. 😁😚💖🔐😈