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heyyy shoutout to the selfshippers who struggle with feeling lovey-dovey about their f/o(s).

maybe you don't think about them very often. maybe you can't imagine being affectionate with them. maybe you don't gush about them, or you find it hard to articulate how you feel about them. maybe you're not very active on your selfship blog, or maybe you don't have one in the first place. maybe you're neurodivergent or somewhere on the ace spectrum. maybe you're just independent.

for any reason at all, your f/o(s) would understand.

they know that affection is only one aspect of the feeling of love, and they would never assume that you "don't actually love" them just because you're less dependent on them. they would try to understand how you express your love in your own unique way, and they would give you all the space you need without crossing your boundaries or forcing anything on you. they would be patient and work with you to make sure both of your needs are met.

(pro/comship please do not interact.)

mrs-goemio

Have you ever just started self-shipping as a coping mechanism for not having an irl relationship, but then ended up falling so madly in love with the character you self-shipped with that you can’t ever see yourself going back? 'Cause, like… at first, it was a coping mechanism for me, but I fell so fucking hard for my f/o that I can’t ever see myself loving a real person now.

bunny-lovers

Daily reminder that your f/o is so very devoted to you! You mean absolutely everything and more to your f/o! Your f/o loves you with all that they are and will be happy to reassure you of it. If you feel uncertain; they always want you to feel loved and understood!

proship/comship/neutral DNI

platonic-qpr-selfshipping

making good use of my two hands by holding two f/os' hands right now

bunny-lovers

Unspoken ways your f/o shows their affection:

Brushing your hair behind your ear, kissing your cheek before they leave, bringing you a drink, glancing at you when you're not looking, and bringing you things that remind them of you. Your f/o loves you so much, even if they aren't telling you, they're always showing you how much they love you. You're special to them and you always will be.

proship/comship/neutral DNI

wileeswife

Some doodles <33

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#so cute #other selfships

comfort-character-central-deact

Imagine your f/o listening to you excitedly infodump, ramble, explain, or go into depth about things that you're interested in. They engage, offering comments to add on to, maybe they even ask questions. They're glad that you're comfortable enough to be your open, authentic self with them, they always look forward to moments like these where they can just appreciate you expressing yourself.

little life update where i've been:

i'm currently undergoing tests for my heart! it's been taking up a lot of my time and stress, so i just haven't been on. but after next week i should have results and i'll be good to go again!

#coding #not selfship