Caed 💮🌛

18 he/it/moth/skull just normal guy with problematic ship and cringe cultture

[cadengravity]

I'm back

[blue-phoria]

"But proshippers don't tag their art - " Block them "But its everywhere on the websit - " Find a different website

You are responsible for yourself. Act like it.

[littlefaeella]

got bored and made some blinkies lol xP feel free to steal and if you want to make your own here's a link to the website ^_^ !! link —> [°○♡!!click here!!♡○°]

[cadengravity]

omg thank you for making there!! I need to add them to my rentry someday!!

[gokbukesstuff]

motherfuckers be like "I'm pro mental health" until

Age regression and related

Coping through kink

Coping through fiction (+ if overused)

Poor hygiene

Disordered eating

Self destructive behaviour

"Evil"/"Scary" disorders (cluster b, schizo-spec, dissociative, paraphilia, etc)

Delusions

Visible mental breakdowns

Defensive lashing outs

Excessive drugs to cope

Thought disorder causing jumbled speech

Not learning ethics/morals/etc because of abuse

Dropping out of education

Venting ( or"trauma dumping" as they'd say)

Hoarding disorders

Phobias of things they like

Being unable to live without support/career

Breaking things during meltdowns

Childish behaviour

Saying things you don't actually mean

Any misunderstanding

Delusions, again

A messy past

Hypersexuality

Hyposexuality

Again, delusions

Balding, obesity, etc

Using outdated terminology

Being let down/abused by the medical system

Taking care of your children and/or pets as well as a "normal person" would be expected to, but not well as the unreasonable high standards mentally ill people held to

Other I can't currently remember

(Addition by @delusion-of-negation)

[miimeeks]

something i find worrying is that antis that are minors will call people pedos but will continue interacting and trying to harass them. like. kids if you genuinely think someone is a pedophile you should not be involving yourself with them. unless. maybe . you don't actually think that 🤔 and are just using whatever word makes someone a "bad" person

[catgirl-catboy]

"Your fic can trigger people" so can your graphic threats!! Hell, anything can trigger someone, but you only care about the triggers you personally deem gross.

"You're romanticising people's trauma"

and you're implying that some people deserve my trauma because of what they write. That my trauma is some karmic punishment and not just a random shitty thing that happened to me.

"You need to properly warn about your shit"

Your death threats have 0 tags, and are often phrased in ways that make it incredibly hard to block out. Also, my darkfic isn't getting directly sent to your inbox.

All anti arguments can easily be turned on the antis themselves. Yet they claim they have the moral high ground.

[cadengravity]

There is my takes

"this thing can trigger someon"

Alcohol triggers people, but stores still sell it. I think you won't have a mental breakdown because of it

"You romanticize people's trauma"

They are my traumas too. they are part of the character's story.

[blueirisboy]

Friendly reminder that antis never have any arguments grounded in research, fact, logic, or good faith 🤭

They are ableist, anti-intellectual, conservative bullies who are unable to distinguish fact from feeling. They use their discomfort of a topic as a marker for how immoral something is. And! They are unable to hold any conversations about proshipping without immediately assuming the people against their arguments are emotionless, violent, child-grooming monsters who deserve to burn in hell. They are not able to hold any conversations about this in good faith; and that is extremely telling.

This is all to say, please avoid them. It doesn’t matter how much we stay calm, how much we ask them to actually Listen and Research; they wont. Theyll just go red in the face, and block their ears. These arent people that are interested in fact.

I know exactly what it’s like to be them; because I was an anti not long ago. I have felt seething extreme hatred for proshippers, and their hatred is all too familiar. They have no interest in holding a dialogue; only in taking their anger out on majority mentally ill people.

I am genuinely ashamed of the person I was. I never want to be a person who bases their beliefs in heresay and word of mouth.

Save yourself the time, and energy. Focus your life on people who base their opinions and beliefs in research. It’ll cause a lot less headaches.

Signed, an ex-anti.

[cadengravity]

That just good text to read ^^^^^

I agree, antis don't care abbout our feeling and facts. They only want put their anger to us, that why i'm not interact with antis. Only tell them to block me and then i move on.

So please, keep yourself safe and focus on thing that make you happy and don't hurt anyone.

Have nice day

[unstabledumbdoll]

yea no i don’t think “normal” people tell others to kill themselves over a goddamn ship.

[mxsickfuck]

The amount of violence antis have bubbling up inside of them over fiction is deeply concerning and probably should be something that people look into.

The amount of hate these people have isn’t normal and neither is the abusive behaviours many of them have normalized. For a group obsessed with the possibility of harm caused by fiction, they certainly can’t see they very real and ongoing harm they themselves have caused over it.

[brettdoesdiscourse]

So, the thing about pro and anti shipping discourse is it's not really a "well I think both sides are stupid!" situation.

You can't really say "well both sides are stupid" when one side is just trying to exist and create fiction in peace while the other side is wishing them physical harm, harassing them, and sending them death threats.

[shozo-asayoru]

Friendly reminder

Fictional characters aren't real people. They're like dolls. You can do to them everything you wouldn't do to a living person. The only thing you have to do is to properly tag your things if you want to publish your work and everything will be fine.

For the people who can't read the post properly: "everything you wouldn't do to a living person" includes shipping. Yes, the ships you dislike for whatever reason, too!

[cadengravity]

Life update

Hi some sort of life update because i have be unactive so long.

I'm fine. A lot has happened in life that I had to focus on first and I just forgot about the existence of this user as well :']

I also finally have access to a psychologist, I've been waiting for this!

I hope you have been doing well too!!

See ya!

[arsynnotarson]

why do antis say we're "triggering ourselves" or "reliving our trauma" because we ship the way we do..... we're not..???? its fiction. not the actual figures.

and even if we were, thats none of your business, and death threats aren't gonna help us either

literally goes to show that antis dont care about victims that cope in a way thats not aesthetic to them.

fiction isnt real. harassment is.

[cadengravity]

Media: have canon profic/proship/comship stuff

Antis: PROSHITTER STAY AWAY FOR THIS MEDIA, THIS IS FOR US

[whitehairedanimeboyfriend]

lol what is "canon proship." OP you are using the term incorrectly.

[cadengravity]

Thanks for telling me and sorry for using the term incorrectly ^^`

[toh-proship-positivity]

Not mine but saw this on twitter: "Friendly reminder that some proshippers don’t like age gaps, fictional inc3st, loli/shotas ext; but guess what?? They don’t go around harassing ppl for those who do" FACTS, you can still be proship and not like anything problematic! Antis claiming that proship = problematic things only is false!

[cadengravity]

Proship = anti harrasment about fiction ships even if they are problematic.

Comship: ship problematic ship

[compship-culture]

proship culture is shipping a lot of age gap and underage pairings, and people assume you put yourself in the shoes of the older character, but really you imagine you're the younger one being taken advantage of. in my brain im a 12 year old shota.

Proship culture is!...

[ponke]

Antis: Ugh, there's so much disgusting ship shit on my fandom tag!! What am i supposed to do with this shit on my dash?!

Proshipper: BLOCK ME!!!! BLOCK ME!!! IM BEGGING U, BLOCK ME!! BLOCK MY ASS AND NEVER SEE ME AGAIN!!! I CAN GIVE YOU A STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO BLOCK ME!!!

Antis: Guess i'll have to send death threats and make them delete their shit