HOT LINE!

Calling on the hot line for your love!

[cafecouple]

ANGEL/JOHN # 23 Y/O # HE/SHE # GNC LESBIAN

Please check my Rentry for more details. No pro/com/whatever-shippers, please.

[kittehscribbles34]

computer friends

[virtualbutch]

I don't want to think of anything else now that I've thought of you

Reblogs appreciated! Indy (left) uses they/them! Snow White (right) uses she/her!

The pose is based on this picture :)

Taglist: ask/dm to be added/removed

@sapphicseal @magicalspheres @heartofelysia @spacestationstorybook @arsene-fixates @kruxband @cafecouple @vellichorsdesire @pomeamor @little-miss-selfships @starboy-lovebug @sworneconsort @ghost--girlfriend @aerodotwav @everynya @iwishihadfangs-ships @pumpkinpatchdarling @ryez-loveyz

[rotruff]

Who's taller?

f/o is taller than s/i by a pretty noteworthy amount

f/o is slightly taller than s/i

they're equal / about equal in height!

s/i is slightly taller than f/o

s/i is taller than f/o by a pretty noteworthy amount

Voting ended onMay 6

cr - sisterlucifergraphics , proship + adjacent dni and don't repost

[lov3dream]

happy lesbian visibility day to lesbian selfshippers!! you are a vital part of this community and your f/os are lucky to have you <3

[mrs-goemio]

You and your F/O don’t heal all at once. You’re both carrying things that still hurt, things that don’t just disappear, but you choose each other anyway. They see every broken part of you and stay, and you do the same for them. It isn’t about fixing each other…it’s about loving each other through the damage, through the bad days, through everything. And in loving your F/O, and being loved by them just as much, you both start to feel a little less alone and a little more whole together. 💞

[virtualbutch]

Today is a really special day- it's been an entire year since I saw Snow White for the first time, and completely fell in love with her. I wanted to do something extra special for her- I have absolutely no experience in making things like this, but I wanted to try. I hope you can feel all of the love I put into this.

Reblogs appreciated! Snow White uses she/her! Indy uses they/them!

Taglist (ask/dm to be added/removed):

@sapphicseal @magicalspheres @heartofelysia @spacestationstorybook @arsene-fixates @kruxband @cafecouple @vellichorsdesire @pomeamor @little-miss-selfships @starboy-lovebug @sworneconsort @ghost--girlfriend @aerodotwav @everynya @iwishihadfangs-ships @pumpkinpatchdarling @ryez-loveyz

[cafecouple]

Hey guys

A. am. am I allowed to. Have another character that is my friend. Just. Maybe

[cafecouple]

Guys is this a safe space. Am I allowed to be a little cringe with it if you will

[cafecouple]

I'M FREAKING SCARED

[cafecouple]

I miss my FREAKING Miku

[milestoneiv]

i <3 making low effort selfship art

taglist:

@virtualbutch @kruxband @jendotcom @antique8love @cafecouple

[cafecouple]

Something is happening.

[milestoneiv]

Kiss kiss kiss! 단 하루도 빼먹지 말고!

check out the sick comm from @/megalomari !!! it came out so well !!!

taglist:

@virtualbutch @kruxband @jendotcom @antique8love @cafecouple

[nebbymakesimagines]

Another PSA type thing:

There is no difference between selfshipping and yumeshipping. Any differences that people claim are going to vary based on their personal discretion. The reason we even have two terms for the same thing to begin with is because "yume" to describe selfshipping originated in Japanese communities before being picked up elsewhere.

While yumeshipping comes with specific terms to describe the person themself (yumejoshi for girls, yumedanshi for boys), it fundamentally describes the exact same thing as selfshipping.

Use whatever term you feel like, but please don't spread the idea that which term you use has any meaningful difference beyond what language the prefix came from.

[nebbymakesimagines]

Responsing to prev tags: The "who's more likely to take their relationships seriously" point was actually part of why I made this post, because I've never seen anybody agree on whether yumeship or selfship denotes a serious relationship. Even then, other terms such as fictosexual or even waifuist have existed to specifically define someone who's in a committed relationship with their F/O before either of the previous terms became popular.

That and I've also never agreed with the "yumeship includes OC/Canon" definition because plenty of selfshippers use OCs for their selfship, unless the idea is that the OC/Canon being included in the yumeship definition are OCs that aren't representing you, but what defines an OC, self-insert, or just "you" according to either term is so muddy that it feels pointless to make that distinction specifically in the first place.

I never made this post to discuss this directly but I feel like we needed to have this discussion anyways: Yumeship, as defined by English speakers, is not being used to describe its Japanese context. That is Orientalism. It deserves to be called Orientalism, not "thing, japan" or whatever funny term people wanna use to downplay the fact that Orientialism is a form of racism.

I think the selfship community at large is reluctant to talk about this beyond the occasional reminder post because being confronted with the idea that what they're doing is racist is a very scary thing for them; The main response people will give is that it feels far too bold of a claim to make for something seemingly inconsequential. But it only feels consequential because those who aren't affected by racism can brush it off as such. If you've never been in Japanese yumeship communities, of course you wouldn't know the difference between that and the way it's used interchangably with selfship.

There's people who are probably going to read this and just go "well i'm still calling myself a yume." Nobody can stop that, but at least think about why that's the term you want to latch onto

[stardewskies-deactivated2020081]

okay we all love the being held by your f/o trope but where’s my shippers who want to hold their f/os. the warmth of someone leaning into you and them relaxing and knowing they trust you enough to be vulnerable around you and them feeling safe in your arms and *dies*

[the-unreachable-star]

Happy Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week to all the arospec selfshippers out there! I know selfship tends to focus on romantic relationships, which can feel very isolating to arospec people (who may already struggle with feeling alone in their experiences outside of these spaces), so I just want to give a shoutout to everyone across the aromantic spectrum in this community:

Arospec selfshippers who have romantic f/os

Arospec selfshippers who have NO romantic f/os

Arospec selfshippers with queerplatonic f/os

Arospec selfshippers who have f/os they can't easily label their relationship with

Romance favorable arospec selfshippers

Romance averse arospec selfshippers

Arospec selfshippers whose feelings towards romance fluctuate

Arospec selfshippers who are also part of the asexual spectrum

Arospec selfshippers who AREN'T acespec

Arospec selfshippers who also happen to be aplatonic or identify with any other aspec identity

Arospec selfshippers of color

Arospec selfshippers who identify as women

Arospec selfshippers who also have any other queer identity

And any other type of arospec selfshipper

You are all amazing, valued members of the selfship community and deserve to be celebrated and listened to this week, and every other week of the year.