First Sugar date in years.
Wish me luck, sisters.

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First Sugar date in years.
Wish me luck, sisters.
The Social Calendar
January
Courchevel
Davos World Economic Forum
Snow Polo World Cup
Art Stage
February
Fashion Weeks {The Big 4: New York, London, Milan and Paris}
Gran Ballo Della Cavalchina,
Superbowl
Berlin Film Festival
March
Miami Winter Music Conference
Dubai World Cup
Cricket World Cup
Art Basel Hong Kong
April
Coachella
US Masters
Milken Institute Global Conference
Singapore Yacht Show
Antigua Sailing Week
May
Cannes Film Festival
Monaco Grand Prix
Kentucky Derby
Met Gala
Frieze Art Fair New York
June
Ibiza {Opening parties start this month}
Art Basel Switzerland
Royal Ascot
G8 Summit
The French Open
July
Wimbledon
Henley Royal Regatta
Montreux Jazz Festival
August
PGA Championship
September
Venice Film Festival,
Fashion Weeks {The Big 4: New York, London,Milan and Paris}
Ibiza {Closing parties start this month}
Clinton Global Initiative Annual Meeting
Monaco Yacht Show
US Open
Singapore Grand Prix
October
Ibiza {Closing parties end this month}
Frieze Art Fair London
November
Melbourne World Cup
December
Art Basel Miami
**Notable Mentions:**
Aspen
Mykonos
Marbella
Verbier
If I forgot anything (and I’m sure I did lol) add it to the list!
Ladies, also put together or find a social calendar in your city and do your best to go to these events! You can make a lot of connections that way.
Pro-tip: If a potential SD asks “what you’re willing to do,” as in sexually, instead of flying off the goddamn handle like some of you do, just say something like “What I will or won’t do depends on my comfort level with the person I’m with. There are things I like that I haven’t done with certain partners and things I’ve never tried that I enjoyed with certain partners and not others. Trust and respect are what shape what I’m willing to do, so I can’t give you a definite answer on that. I am very open minded if I truly enjoy the person I’m with.” It lets them know you won’t be easy (but that they have a chance), and gets you out of talking sexually. Answer any subsequent questions at your own discretion.
men are all the same, just pick the richest one
How to Fake Confidence
1. Hold your head high, and look others in the eye
2. Smile
3. Stop apologizing
4. Relax and be quick to laugh at yourself (but not at others!)
5. Dress in a way that indicates you have self worth
6. Use good manners (like saying please and thank you) as this is actually a mark of self respect
7. Expect other people to believe in you, and to see and appreciate your good qualities.
8. Before you know it, it’s no longer fake.
Stripper Pro Bathroom Tip
This is dumb as fuck but I’m sharing because maybe it’ll help someone.
Every time I went to the bathroom at work, my urine would never seem to go straight down and would usually end up running across my butt. I finally realized this was happening because of my labia being all squished down because of dancing in a thong for hours.
So: spread your labia before you pee unless you wanna be wiping pee from your butt and be stressed about it all night. Your outer labia cover your urethra and can divert the stream if they are squished all caddy-whompus.
Sugarbabies and Unprotected Sex: (how to insist on a condom)
I’m sure you’ve been faced with the scenario and if you haven’t I can bet you know someone who has.
Scenario: You’re starting to get closer with your SD/boyfriend and he wants to become intimate. But there’s a problem, he wants to have unprotected sex. You don’t feel comfortable with this and he may be pressuring you or you may simply feel like you will lose your connection/allowance if you do not become intimate with him.
I’ve been in this situation myself. I was 3 months into my relationship with my first sugardaddy and he brought up the topic of intimacy. I adored him as much as he adored me and my comfort was of the upmost importance to him, but he explained to me how he had this deep rooted desire to go ‘raw’ (bareback, condom less, naked) with his partners. This freaked the heck out of me as he was a very experienced sugar daddy and he had disclosed how many sexual partners he had had. He tried everything to convince me, like saying ‘his dick was too curved to sit well in a condom’ … sigh … ‘he was allergic to latex’ …again, *sigh* …to downright just saying ‘it kills the intimacy and just doesn't feel the same’.
Now when I think back to this time, I feel like gagging in disgust but at the time I was new to the sugar bowl, this was the first man to really treat me like I deserved (minus the whole sex thing) and I was so conflicted internally that it stressed me out on a daily basis. After a week of persistence I made my daddy aware that I was afraid I would catch an STD given his number of partners in the past. He could tell that I was really bothered about this so he suggested that he get tested, to show me everything was okay. I’ll tell you what happened at the end of this blog.***
First Things First
I’m always suspicious of men who are so quick to go without a condom. I’m a bit of a condom manic (I literally have about 50 condoms in my room and keep at least three in my handbag when I go on POT/SD/Vanilla dates) so I never want to put the trust of my sexual wellbeing in someone else’s hands. I like to take responsibility for my own sexual health.
Of course people have different views on this, i.e. if they are in a committed relationship, if a woman is using contraception and her partner trusts her, he may decide to stop using protection himself.
But as a sugarbaby, I’d be suspicious of a man, who, not knowing you all that well, or who is not exclusive with you (i.e. he has a wife or your relationship is NSA) is willing to say he doesn’t want to use a condom. If I was these men, I would be driven by so much flippin fear, that I wouldn’t even consider such a thing.
Ask yourself why this man is so willing to not use a condom, as that to me just suggests bad judgement and a lack of concern for their health.
The second thing I would think about is, if he really doesn’t want to use a condom (fair enough, everyone is entitled to their own preferences when it comes to sex), what are your requirements for him not to use condom?
For me, the man would have to be in an exclusive relationship with me and be getting tested monthly for me to even consider going there with him. But let’s be realistic here. For men, it really sucks to get tested. A lot of men find it unpleasant to have the swab put in their penis (if you don’t know what I’m talking about, just google it) therefore, I know the probability of me finding a sugar daddy that is willing to get tested on a monthly basis is very, very low.
The final thing I consider is trust. Do you trust this man enough to believe that he is not having any other sexual partners? Girls, if you sugardaddy is married, do not trust him! No matter what, you need to always have your guard up. If he can cheat on his wife, what makes you think he won’t lie to you?
After reading the three points above, the majority of you will have decided (if you had not already seen the light) that you do not want to have unprotected sex.
So here’s how to broach the subject with your man.
“ I know it would feel wonderful and intimate to be able to connect with you in such a way but I really have to value myself and my health. I’m not saying that I don’t trust you (ahem..lies) it’s just that things happen and I can’t put my health in somebody else’s hands.” When you are saying this, make sure you put an emphasis on how you value the things he does for you and your connection but you value your health first. You cannot make compromises like this for any man just because he supports your lifestyle.
When not to bring this up: just before the act. Because the truth is when someone is horny, you are likely to get the least honest answer. But this doesn’t mean that you have to do it in a very serious manner either. I mean, I don’t want you going out to diner to discuss STD’s.
Ladies, a man will respect you more when you stand your ground in a classy way. A man will not value you if you cave into his outrageous demands just to build rapport with him or to keep your monthly allowance in check
And if he is scared off or stops your allowances because you refuse to have unsafe sex with him, then count your lucky stars that you got out of that relationship/ arrangement sooner rather than later. There are better men out there that will show a lot more understanding.
***What happened in the end… As some of you know I’m going to be a doctor in the future, so I started doing my research on STD’s such as herpes, gonorrhoea, HIV, genital warts.. you name it, I know the signs and symptoms. So once I learned about this, the pussy basically went on lockdown.
*I ended the relationship with this SD a few months later and I’m so happy didn’t lose my virginity to him. A blog post on being a virgin in the bowl is coming soon, so be on the lookout.
Xxx
BronzedSugarUK
Quick Reminder
♥ The Sugar Doll Survival Kit ♥
Survival kit you say?!
Yes.
After trial and error I have found that certain products/items are IMPORTANT on sugar dates. I’m going to keep this short and sweet.
✔ Compact Mirror
Every lady should carry some sort of mirror on her at all times. God forbid you have a booger hanging from your nostril. ☹ If you have an iPhone you can always use the FaceTime camera.
✔ Mascara
You should already know to carry this in your purse. I LUUUUURVE (yes, lurve) Maybelline Falsies!
Here is a before and after using Maybelline Falsies. What a difference!
✔ Breath mints/Gum
Self-explanatory.
(Especially after consuming anything with onions or garlic)
✔ Defensive weapon of choice
You never know what some of these men may try. You need to be prepared. I prefer a pocket knife or pepper spray. Please DO NOT go around spraying or stabbing innocent people. I will not be held responsible. I have this mace gun at home:
Sooo cute, right?
✔ Perfume (sample size)
Lets not carry 3.4 ounces of perfume in our purse. Your local Sephora store should be able to give you a sample size of your favorite perfume of choice. It should look something like this:
✔ Vaseline (Petroleum Jelly)
I love this stuff! It can be used as a lip balm, rubbed on ASHY body parts, dull mani’s (Just wipe on your fingernails for a last minute nail-pick-me-up), etc.
✔ Tide Pen
Spilling hot chocolate on your WHITE shirt is never a good thing. Luckily, I had my bf’s Tide pen in my purse and it worked perfectly fine. I carry it with me everywhere now.
✔ Business Cards
Do I really have to tell you why to get business cards? Perhaps one with your name on the front and your Google number on the back. You can get them dirt cheap at Vistaprint. SIMPLE.
Last but not least…
✔ Counterfeit Pen
I went on a date with a pot that gave me $200 just for meeting. Later that day while trying to buy a dress at Nordstroms I found out one of the bills were indeed FAKE. Ugh. The humiliation. Now I carry this baby EVERYWEHRE. You can buy them cheap here!
***EDIT: I wrote this post a while ago but I felt it would be beneficial to share with new and seasoned sb’s alike***
This text works every time
Hey handsome. How’s your day going? Just wanted to let you know that I’m thinking about you. Your smile, your face, other…things😏. Have a fantastic day.
I wanted to share some info on getting a DBA and how it’s helped me. A DBA stands for “doing business as.” So for example Katy Perry’s real name is Katy Hudson, but she does business as her stage name which is Katy Perry.
You can get a DBA from your county clerk’s office. Mine cost about $40. You put your sugar name as the name you wish to conduct business as. I’ve used this to check into hotels that were put under my sugar name. I’ve used this to open a bank account so that my SD can write me checks using my sugar name. I have yet to use it to fly with, but I’ve heard other girls say they’ve done it without a problem. Hope this helps!
Does anyone have any experience with this?
A true visionary. (via maggiearch3r)
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