documenting old callouts

this blog does not endorse harassement. do not engage. keep yourself safe. block and move on.

[calloutarchives]

I am against harassment towards anybody featured in this blog, this was made for archive reasons

this blog is for my own convenience and it isnt meant to be a public archive but if any blog deactivates feel free to snatch from here

do not contact the individuals listed in this blog. I do not condone or support any type of harassment . everything is allegedly until proven otherwise.

do not contact the victims listed in this blog. they don’t need to revive their experience if they do not want to.

I do not provide any professional service in any capacity, do not contact me for legal, mental or internet security purposes. I can perform research and point you in a direction, but in no way I am a qualified professional.

I do not actively seek callouts

I reblog when I see them on my dash and i don’t follow tags. now that this blog got traction the victims are the ones who come to me. if I get asks about someone usually means the person keeps making new victims and engaging in the same behaviour that got them a callout.

this blog is for archive/documentation purposes 

im also looking for older callouts for archival purposes. older callouts are queued, might be bumped up if contacted with info they are active

aku arke / mocha bird / ender / soulsbetrayed blue / divinebetrayed buttons / kirby / ofunholylambs / kirbybooo cecil / wilson / hcpeful / luckybcy / moralnorth / dearmaestro cedric curio / nil / concretefantasy danganronpakins deadcatwithaflamethrower dennis / den dustin /  nica / cent / Aries / solaetis jay / loyalbetrayed jael julie / snowy hearty / lucifer / khamimera kier / stitch libra / sage /  drakule mako matt mikami03 / nekomi03 miles / demonslayr / zagubionywilk / countitoff/ tenderborn neku / nene / loke / tangy nao / kompeito / komari nitro noka nemo ollie özlem / azar paradox / vic / rushifaas / espurr / satanaeruu problem-free / requiem-for-a-twinkie rowan / yoel / ripley snow / ares / jay star / usa whitley / rosario /  archclergy void / null / data / diavolo / outsider volodin / radio / joe / ultrahoped / towaheir  / chooscrs / bcggars / quotinggod /  uponlove / joesafterdark /  fearsideshow

google docs backups

[grimcallout-deactivated20230619]

This public warning / callout is for Grim, who exhibited predatory behaviour and manipulative tactics towards a vulnerable party on Discord and Tumblr. 

His known blogs are pulchramundii, dcmonshcad, and earthshakr.

WARNING: The screenshots and content in this document contain predation of a sexual nature, emotional manipulation / abuse, and discussion of a suicide attempt. Please read at your own discretion.

LINK TO CALLOUT and BACKUP DOC.

[featheredadora]

May this coming year be kinder than the last

[aresreceipts-deactivated2023080]

aresreceipts​:

    Ares is still in the community. He has reported the last blog until it was taken down making the post unable to be reblogged.

PAST URLS - brokcnlegacies, purosdecorazon*steve rogers called out for rape plots, motherfnstarlord, devianttm, abusemade, writteninthestcrs, seanceisms, heprofile,  witcherblooded, areswriites, makoeycd

Content warning for: graphic depictions of rape, graphic depictions of incest, graphic written pedophilia, fetishization of nonconsent and age gaps and incestual relationships, racism, transphobia, and harassment. 

YOU CAN FIND THE CALLOUT HERE.

CURRENT URLS: storieswrittcn, jadeheroics CURRENT ALIAS: Jay

[aresreceipts-deactivated2023080]

Ares/Jay continues to add more incest ships. He's currently shipping Lady Dimitrescu with her daughters and telling people to block the tag if it makes people uncomfortable. He's not tagging it as incest. He's only tagging it with a fancy ship tag. So anyone uncomfortable who has incest blacklisted would still be subjected to his disgusting need to ship parents with their children.

Lady D would kill anyone suggesting incest. She’s a good mom. This aint it.

[aresreceipts-deactivated2023080]

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[snowcallout]

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hey so writteninthestcrs / hookblooded is/was @ seanceisms who was called out alongside a few others for writing & vehemently Defending writing incest in the tua rpc. they also shipped with a Five who is portrayed by a 15 y.o. under the defense that the person was using an older fc. so yeah, that’s why they have in their rules “if you are a sjw, if you don’t think people can write what they want no matter what it is, if you think it’s okay to call out people based on fictional ships or fictional writing, do not follow me. this is not the blog for you. i will block you.”

edit: Snow also adamantly defends shipping minors with adults under the guise that “it’s just fiction” and will lash out at you if you dare to make your dash a safe space free of pedophilia.   they also run the blog @ devianttm        edit: they also run @ abusemade

in this doc i’m gonna add some screenshots taken from snow’s blogs  &  a dis.cord conversation provided by gemini in which snow defended  /  attempted to define what wouldn’t make someone a “pedophile”

edit: TW FOR RAPE / SEXUAL ASSAULT there is another doc with screenshots of snow writing rape / noncon on their old steve blog. i advise you look with caution. you can find it here.

**Update. After reviewing the google doc I want to add that Terror has also been participating in this behavior and encouraging writing underage smut. THE GOOGLE DOC HAS BEEN UPDATED WITH TERROR DEFENDING PEDOPHILIA, INCEST, AND WRITING SMUT ON DANNY PHANTOM. Terror and Snow are taking advantage of CSA survivors in the rpc by writing out their fantasies. Their server mentioned on Snow’s blog is also home to many people who have been called out on racism, incest, pedophilia, and abusive behavior. 

Things they might say: YOU ARE POLICING THE CONTENT ON MY BLOG! Answer: We are allowed to warn people of the content that you participate in. If you want to write that, go ahead, but do not demonize people for protecting minors. There is a DIFFERENCE between “aw these two teens dating are cute” and writing detailed graphic sex on them. Things they might say: THIS IS HOW I COPE! Answer: Maybe look at alternative coping mechanisms. Do not enter fandoms friendly to minors for your kinks. Things they might say: THEN JUST BLOCK AND MOVE ON! Answer: People have, and you lash out like it is a personal offence, hating them for it. And then you enter into fandoms to write out your kinks.  Things defenders might say: PEOPLE CAN CHANGE Answer: Unfortunately, no. These two have been doing this for years and have been spoken to OOC about this many times in private. They have taken advantage of an environment of how tumblr used to be. Every time they are called out, they martyr themselves and make themselves into poor victims. 

RPC, please be warned about these two. You can make the decision to interact or not, but please stay safe. Please do not send anon hate or try to engage. Block and move on. They will use this as a platform to martyr themselves on. Do not hover on their blogs. 

 Terror - cursedempathy, ruintint, halfafreak, indifferentinu, defaultwrong, malfodd, darkbleeds, devialive, fightheart, antovch, magictaint  Snow - devianttm, abusemade, hookblooded, writteninthestcrs, seanceisms and probably more im tired at this point 

snow can now also be found on @heprofiles. they have since deactivated most of their blogs, but to be noted: they wrote billy hargroves on abusemade before deactivating it automatically following the reblog of this post.

[heedra]

I dont know how to make this any more crystal clear to people:

kiwifarms was founded as an imageboard explicitly dedicated to the stalking and harassment of a specific autistic trans woman

doxxing and harassment carried out via kiwifarms has been linked to the suicide of another trans woman (chloe sagal). their thread on her, in all its spiteful original language, remains up to this day.

kiwifarms’ founder is also the former lead developer of 8chan, one of the most prolific hives of violent white nationalists online today

kiwifarms as a whole is baldly transparent about the fact that it sees lbgt, neurodivergent, and mentally ill folks as a source of entertainment because of their lgbt/nd status and mental illness. they do not hide this fact.

Sometimes, kiwifarms may host a thread about someone who is a truly bad person. They are still a hate site. Stop using them as a source, full stop. Any information worth actually calling out on someone can be gathered elsewhere and by other means. Just because they dislike someone you also think is bad does not mean kf is worth giving the time of day. Some nazis hate cops- we still know better than to rub shoulders with them or trust them as sources on why the police should be dismantled, because we recognize that the problems we have with the police are completely different from the reason they dislike them. It should not be so hard to do the same for a website like this. I know that the individual views and aims of kiwifarm users may vary, but all of them are people who are ok with posting on a website where slurs and virulently hateful language wrt trans, neurodivergent, and mentally ill people are used regularly. All are people who are ok with posting on a website run by an antisemitic white nationalist. All are people who are ok with posting on a website founded on the stalking and harassment of a single human being. All of them are ok with posting on a website that has blood on its hands.

Do not put their information on my dash. Do not link to them in your callouts. If you haven’t already, block tumblr user cat//bountry, who appears on popular posts to this day despite being a very long-term and active mod on said website.

[akindplace]

Crazyheadcomics

[calloutarchives]

Are you in a discord server or friend group that makes you afraid of speaking out of turn? That you might say something that will upset someone, specially that one friend, and the consequences will be bad?

BITE

Steven Hassan’s BITE model of authoritian control might be a good tool for you to see if you are in a toxic friend group.

Behaviour Control

Dictate where, how and with whom you live, associates or isolate (example: telling who you should interact on tumblr or twitter)

Regulate and influences your physical reality (example: the times you must be online, your real life relationships)

Manipulation and deprivation of sleep

Financial exploitation, manipulation or dependence

Restrict leisure, entertainment, vacation time (also includes which shows and series you may enjoy and which ones you shouldn't)

Most of your time must be spent with the group

Information Control

Deception; - Deliberately withholding information - Distort information to make it more acceptable or fall into the group reality - Systematically lie

Minimize or discourage access to sources of information outside the group, including; - social media, TV, books, articles - critical information - former members of the group - keep members busy so they don’t have the time to think - stalk and control access to information

Compartmentalize information into outsider vs Insider, aka “Us versus Them”

Stalking members and encouraging reporting on others

Unethical use of personal information, including blackmail, using it to disrupt and/or dissolve identity boundaries, withhold forgiveness, gaslighting making one doubt their memories

Thought Control

Require members to internalize the group’s ideas as the truth - Instill black and white thinking - the group decides what is good and what is evil - instigate a “us versus the the world” mentality

Blatant use of buzz words and loaded language to constrict knowledge and stop critical thoughts

Encourage only “proper” thoughts

Manipulation of memories (also known as gaslighting into making you questioning your memories)

Forbid critical question about leader, policy or critical thinking altogether

Rejection of rational analysis, critical thinking, constructive criticism

Emotional Control

Manipulate and narrow the range of feelings, some emotions or needs are deemed as evil, wrong or selfish

Make you think that your problems are always your own fault, never the leader or the group’s (victim-blaming)

Promote feelings of guilt or unworthiness, such as: identity guilt; not being good enough; your affiliations must be approved; your thoughts, feelings and actions are either irrelevant or selfish

Instill fear, such as : fear of thinking independently; the outside of the group; being shunned by the group; disapproval of the group

Extremes of emotional high and lows, from lovebombing and praise to the group saying how bad of a person you are

 Phobia indoctrination, instilling irrational fears about leaving the group or questioning the leader. As in: no happiness outside the group, terrible consequences, being rejected by your friends, never a legitimate reason to leave, threats

You can read about it here.

If your friend group makes you feel more than one of the items mentioned, you might want to take a step back. Ask for a second opinion from outside the group or a mental health professional if you can. You are always worth being happy and being treated with respect.

This is the reason why people like those mentioned in this blog manage to strive, it is because they make that you are nothing without them. It is the other way around: they are the ones who are nothing without the people they manipulate.

Stay safe.

[mentalquotes]

[honeypsd]

ivoryblessed​:

Hey @sheworthied / @heprogress / @shebrilliant / @shefallen / @shesurvivor

Now you dont really know me, bowie, but I surely know you. You’re pretty notorious if I do say so myself. If its not gaslighting , its theft . if its not theft , its lying. If it’s not lying its, well you get it. Beware this call out is…long. Bowie I genuinely hope you get better. But if you don’t…I mean…sucks to suck.

CONTENT WARNINGS: manipulation, abusive behaviour, bullying, gaslighting, lying, incest ment., ableism, and many others, please take care when reading this and put your own mental health first.

Link

As some of you know, Mox finally owned up to lying about being Bowie. As she continues to lie about what she was being called out for 3 years ago, and she’s already manipulated people enough, you can find the original document reuploaded HERE, and another document of updates, showing her behaviour hasn’t changed HERE. These are being posted so Bowie cannot keep lying to and manipulating people due to there being a lack of evidence against her. 

DISCLAIMER 1: all of this has come out shortly after Bowie called someone out for lying about their identity, with proof provided by someone else. We don’t know much about that situation, but we’re going to ask that you use your own judgement and treat it like you would if it had not been made by Bowie, the proof contained did not come from Bowie, so do not disregard the contents just because it was made public by a hypocrite. A stopped clock is right twice a day.

DISCLAIMER 2: the caps in the original document are all uncut. some people engaged in behaviour they apologised for and it was put to rest, don’t send anyone hate when they owned up, apologised, and grew from it (unlike Bowie).

[moxisbowie]

PINNED DIRECTORY ! * I have posted the master list of the Bowie saga so that you don’t have to hunt for it. Moxwie managed to get multiple Google docs taken down to hide the proof. We are smarter than her and we make copies. ✌🏻

2018 callout / late 2019 callout / 2022 callout.

Testimonial of abuse

Latest tumblr callout.

In 2022, Mox admitted that she is Bowie. I don’t think it’s gucci that she dedicated years to defacing anyone who suggested that she is Bowie, so I am reblogging posts where she attacked people for that very suggestion. Enjoy reading!

[chaos-in-one]

Okay been seeing arguments over blocklists and callouts a lot lately, mainly in syscourse so here's my 2 cents

Most of the time neither are helpful. They lead to drama being prolonged and made worse, toxicity being spread, misinformation at times, harassment (both of the person on the blocklist/callout and sometimes the creator of it), and a lot of other toxic bullshit, and, on top of that, rarely change very many people's opinion on the person.

So here's the guidelines I go by for whether or not it is responsible or reasonable to make something like that for someone:

1. Is the person directly causing tangible harm to others?

Yes a person can be indirectly harming a person or sometimes it could be argued that a person is the cause of another being hurt, but if it is either of those situations, making that kind of post on them will simply stir up drama, cause arguments, etc. And sometimes a person's ideology can be harmful (would be indirectly harmful in most cases as it can lead to someone being hurt but they are not directly trying to hurt any specific person), but making a callout for 1 person based on ideology also ignores the root problem: the ideology. There are most likely many others that share their ideology. Singling a specific one of them out will give their entire group fuel to add onto existing issues even more, it does more harm than good.

2. Are you mentally equipped to handle possible backlash for the post?

If the answer is no, DO NOT DO IT! Do not risk your own safety and wellbeing for this! If the 1st guideline is met but you are not equipped to handle it, try to find someone else who is to help!

3. Is the victim of the situation you?

If you are not the one who was hurt by the persons actions: ask the person/people affected if they are okay with you making the post before you make it. If they say no, respect that. They, as the victims, are the ones most at risk for being attacked in the aftermath. Same goes for if you are also a victim but want to share that other people where hurt too. And once again, if they say they don't want it, leave them out of the post. Period, end of story.

4. Consider who all will be put in danger, both by posting it and by not posting it

It is so very important to weigh the consequences of your actions, especially in serious situations! If posting the callout/blocklist will endanger more people than not posting it will, don't do it. At that point you are not being helpful.

5. Make sure you have all the *correct* information on the situation to the best of your ability

Not spreading misinformation is so important. If you are not sure you know what is going on or if things have changed, check. If you can't then either don't post it or make it clear that you are not sure on something so you don't spread assumptions as facts.

6. Consider if the person has apologized (and, more importantly, if they stopped)

If the person has already apologized and improved on their behavior, leave it the fuck alone. Brining back an already fully resolved issue unnecessarily stirs up old issues and restarts old toxicity that would have stayed gone otherwise is not worth it. If they haven't changed or they didn't apologize that's a different story (mainly with the former, the apology depends, sometimes even if they didn't apologize stirring it back up isn't worth it).

Often times rather than do something with all these risks and potential to get people hurt, you can simply let individual people you think will agree with you know that the person did something you don't agree with. It causes so much less problems, I can assure you.

[healing-is-cool]

You deserve it<3

[marnerwrites]

TW: misogyny, brief mention of internalized homophobia, racism, whitewashing, and mentions of pr*datory behaviour.

I told myself that I would absolutely never make a callout post and yet here I am. I feel as if I need to do my part and protect other admins and groups within the rpc as well as clear the air since my roleplay has been mentioned in the rph/rpt tags. I am an admin over at @scatteredtaleshq. We’re a small next-gen-based Disney group that tries to foster an inclusive and creative safe space for our members. With that being said, I want to warn the roleplay community about two members we had named Red (musingsbyred) and Hanne. They applied at the same time and it was clear from the get-go that they were friends. Red applied as the Cheshire Cat with Chris Wood as the faceclaim and Hanne applied as Mr. Mittens from Pixar’s Soul with Melissa Benoist as the faceclaim. We had to approach Hanne and let her know that Mr. Mittens was canonically a man and she swapped out her character for Duchess from the Aristocats. They both then applied for Copper and Tod from The Fox and the Hound. 

The first red flag appeared when Copper and Tod’s bios were posted and Red asked for Tod to have a family with Vixey while identifying as gay and being in the closet about his sexuality. Red was insistent on having Vixey and their shared child in the group despite Tod having feelings for Copper, which felt strange to the admin team. It felt like they were trying to form some sort of plot point rooted in latent misogyny. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with having two men in love or being in the closet about one’s sexuality, but don’t use their wife of convenience as a wanted connection. It’s not fair and sends a weird misogynistic message. With that being said, it was sort of brushed off because we didn’t feel as if we had proper grounds to approach them yet unless one of our members expressed discomfort. The next thing that unfolded was Hanne applying for Kida from Atlantis with Laura Harrier as the faceclaim. Since Laura is half white and both of Kida’s parents appear in the movie and are both people of colour, we told Hanne we would be more comfortable with her using a fully black faceclaim or a non-white fcoc. 

She apologized for choosing Laura and then continued to say that she was just trying to use someone she already had resources of and that Laura matched Kida’s ‘shade’. She then tried to argue the whole Laura being used as a faceclaim further and asked if she could get some “leeway” on it. There is NO leeway on white-washing characters. It’s unacceptable, especially after we provided some beautiful dark skinned women as options for Kida. Disney might’ve been racially ambiguous in terms of Kida, but we don’t have to follow that same route. We of course told her no and despite being dejected, she found an alternative faceclaim on her own. After that, two other issues arose with Red and Hanne. 

First of all, Red applied for the child of Sulley named Jasper Sullivan. She posted an intro establishing another family when we prohibit anyone from setting up a family that isn’t currently present to maintain creative freedom for future members. We asked her to remove that part of her bio and she proceeded to argue with us over the fact that ‘Hanne was intending to apply for a child of Mike and Celia’, which is something we wouldn’t have known about and neither would any of our other current members who might’ve wanted to apply for a child of Mike and would’ve gotten discouraged. Later that day Hanne posted two open starters despite not following our ‘you must answer 3 opens before posting another open’ rule. At this point, it felt like we had to approach them with a new issue every day and it was getting mentally taxing. Especially since both Red and Hanne weren’t following simple guidelines. Red flag number two came in the form of Hanne asking to change her character, Duchess, to Alice from Alice in Wonderland. 

For context: the admin team had an inkling that the two intended to ship their characters together. They were both first cats and both Chris and Melissa (their faceclaims) are partners in real life. But with Hanne’s desire to switch her character to Alice, we felt uncomfortable, to say the least. The Cheshire Cat being shipped with Alice when he knew her as a child seemed borderline pr*datory. But despite how uncomfortable the admins felt, we couldn’t say anything until our suspicions were confirmed. Everything sort of came to a head when Red asked one of the admins to DM her in the group chat. I responded with, we’d prefer to have issues be brought up through the main (as a form of protection for our admins — especially since we all deal with anxiety, we’re stronger as a cohesive team). They continued to express their discomfort at the fact that Logan Lerman (their faceclaim for Tod) was being used twice in the roleplay. 

For the record: he was already taken as a faceclaim when they applied. We explained this fact to her. Considering the fact we have such a long taken faceclaim page, it can be easy to miss certain faces. It happens to the best of us, especially mobile roleplayers because tumblr is a bit inaccessible but we try our best to keep things organized. They were combative and defensive and insistent on the fact that Logan wasn’t on any of the pages when they joined. Regardless of this argument, our group has a rule that allows faceclaims to be used TWICE. Which was further proof to us that they hadn’t been reading the pages. 

At this point, their tone was combative and argumentative and I can admit ours became a bit on the edge as well, especially since tone is difficult to interpret over text and it felt like they were trying to deny something when we sent them screenshots proving Logan was already taken when they applied. Eventually, the admin team concluded as a whole that we were just bumping heads with Red and that we needed to ask Red to leave. They had only been roleplaying with Hanne back and forth on Tod’s account since arrival, made it seem like replying to 3 open starters was a chore, and were making us uncomfortable for several different reasons. We needed to protect our space and do what we thought was best for every party involved. We explained to them the grounds we had for asking them to leave and they immediately became extremely aggressive and retaliated by posting screenshots onto the dash to cause ooc drama. While none of our other members left, they were made uncomfortable by the whole situation. Hanne left soon after as well, which was no surprise.

After that, Red went to several rpt/rph blogs and began to slander the group. They sent themself anons on the character sideblog they had for the group that no one except our current members would’ve been aware of. They also even went to an RPH pretending that their character sideblog (scaryjasper) was an entirely different person and not themself. Which is the blog they seem to be sending themself anons on because no one outside of our current members (who all chose to stay except one - would’ve been aware of). On top of that, they began to send anons harassing our members (we did not include these in our screenshots because we want to protect our members’ privacy) and sending racist anons to the main. We have never had an issue with any past members and this was extremely jarring to us that they were sending anons to multiple people spreading falsehoods. It isn’t fair to our members for them to be dragged into this and it’s not fair to my admin team who works so tirelessly to make sure everyone feels welcome, included, and safe to voice their thoughts and feelings.

With that being said, I just want to protect other admins from potentially experiencing this. I don’t want to comment or discuss this matter further. I just want my group and rpt/rph accounts to have a moment where they’re no longer harassed by this potentially dangerous individual and their friend who they may or may not be dragging into their toxicity. Especially since we have been informed that they have a history of harassing groups.

Also: If my only crime in my 10+ years of roleplaying is kicking out racist combative misogynists who love to fuel ooc drama, so be it. All of the rules they broke led up to one big decision in which we felt as if we weren’t jiving. Especially since they had both only been in our group for a total of 4 DAYS and this many issues had arisen. No one owes anyone an explanation for kicking roleplayers who make ANYONE uncomfortable or countless red flags. It’s your creative space and you deserve to protect that. I just want this all to be over and for our members to be left out of this as we move forward. I wanted to keep this private and professional, but they chose the alternative route so we should be allowed to share our side of the story as well.

Receipts can be found in the source link.

[tinycrabgarden]

very important psa

This is a reminder to not automatically trust every call out post, to remember an/ti and puritanical rh/etoric is real and insidious, remember that conflating real life se/x/ual pre/datory behavior with liking adult-depicted fictional characters having se/xual relations is not only inaccurate but also harmful to actual real life survivors and non-survivors alike, and to please educate yourself and be aware harassment campaigns based on misinformation and lies are commonplace, including (if not especially) in fandom spaces.

Here's some resources on educating yourself specifically about the rhetoric that fosters such harassment campaigns and why it's harmful:

Essay on how Antis are Cult-like

Article from an evidence-based child abuse prevention organization on the effects of purity culture/anti rhetoric on children and adults alike

a short tweet thread about what pr/osh/ip actually means

Things to consider when reading callout posts.

Some key part for why I made this PSA being:

did the accused person have a chance to apologize or address the concern before the details were exposed to thousands of strangers?

Tweet thread about how it's messed up to make callouts to accuse and harass people over fiction.

If you don't take anything else from this post, please take this: don't harass people, even if you think they're the actual worst. just don't harass people, and try not to spread misinfo.