Longer than expected post; tl;dr with half-context/nuance: "I disagree, but want to know more" doesn't seem to work well with radblr, and I'm trying to think of any other ways to get more details so I make fewer assumptions when talking to them.
Posting on a different alt because I want to at least somewhat stay polite and open-mind on the relevant one, but good lord I think the reading comprehension for the vocal folks of radblr is really bad.
I stress the vocal ones, because I assume it could be a survivorship bias-type thing where the ones who don't fit that description are broadly the ones not responding. But wow, its wild to ask clarifying questions about their worldview and be met with hostile responses that only make sense if they've half-read the question or refuse to engage on principle.
In fairness, I suppose there's a sizeable portion (at least in the vocal ones I've seen) that are, like, IN or fresh OUT of high-school, so it might be more of a righteous teenage anger at injustice sentiment (even if I don't agree with their assessment).
I wonder if making a new alt that uses less declarative positions and sticks to only asking clarifying questions might be better at getting responses to the root questions about the worldview rather than the "I disagree but want to know more" approach.
This is, for the record, genuinely about trying to sus out what I currently view as inconsistencies or internally contradicting values/views within the broader radfem movement. There are some things that I see said that don't fit with other things I see said, and I want to know if that's a thing where its just different people/groups saying it; miscommunication/misunderstanding about what's being said on one or either side; a lack of context from one of us; an uncritically/uninspected/not-unpacked view; or some combination of those. Partially from a curiosity/"anthropological" standpoint, since I like dissecting why people believe certain things, but also because I DO disagree with radfems about some things –namely trans rights– and I think actually having conversations that don't boil down to "you're wrong and therefore ontologically evil" are more fruitful for making ideological progress. For sure there are going to be folks that will never budge, but for the same reason I think "hey, can you talk more about your religious beliefs, because I dont think that fully tracks" is more useful that "lol, you're wrong and stupid" for getting to the bottom of differences and resolving conflicts and real-world effects that can influence us all, I think trying to meet radfems where're theyre at can be more useful than hostility, at least in some instances.
Idk, venting/rambling I guess.



















