It's far too many men out not knowing how to lead.. especially in relationships. It is MY belief that is because:
1) Too many men grew up without a Father in the home and didn't have a good example of what it means to be a leader.
2) Those same men were in turn babied and spoiled by their Mothers' and thereby expect the women they are with to do the same/ saw their Mom doing it all by herself and don't realize that a woman wants a man to take the lead.
3) Far too many women out here hollering "INDEPENDENT" and don't realize that letting a man lead in no way hinders your independence.
4) These same women are too "independent" to submit to the leadership of a man because they are under the false belief that "submitting" somehow takes away from their independence.
5)Men are tired of fighting to be the head/lead of the relationship so they don't. This of course leads to them being called weak or soft.
Now these are not ALL the reasons or even an ALL INCLUSIVE list. This is simply what has been on my mind lately so I decided to share.