Here's lookin' at you, kid.

Madi. 22. Bi. Big dumb nerd.

[furubaycrossing]

a potions & spellcasting room 🔮

[drawnbynana]

By popular request, a bunch of new chalkboard signs! MA-8674-1895-0346

I’m sorry for not responding to most of your requests, but I promise I read them all!!

[acnhcustomdesigns]

pumpkin patch leaves

[parentingblog]

[mossworm]

[lickrustdavid]

Ok but. Same.

[kasiagala]

[nature-punks]

Instead of endless wastelands of mowed grass lawns, consider:

[dankmemeuniversity]

[forceawake-moved]

don't know how you guys get into greek mythology n all that by actually reading the iliad or whatever........ it's the twenty first century read percy jackson like the rest of us

[recover-bee]

[hydro-homies]

I think most of us know one or two of these

[noping-out-deactivated20241117]

Shout out to my super religious (ex) friend who kept saying her shotgun marriage was “undergoing a rough patch, but with God’s grace we’ll get through it” when what really happened was her husband panicked and ran off a couple months after the wedding - and well before the kid was born - never to be seen again.

IIRC the “rough patch but with God’s grace” updates lasted for something like TWO YEARS after he disappeared. She literally had no idea where he was. She finally divorced him in absentia. But ya know, “rough patch.”

[hunterinabrowncoat]

Some good friends of mine are recently married and they talk about this kind of stuff a lot. And I think they’re genuinely well suited to each other and their relationship seems pretty healthy. But the more I read of their blog posts, the more I’m convinced that what they’re talking about isn’t anything unique to marriage, it’s literally just… how relationships are.

Most of the things they talk about as being challenging, are just regular things that I got used to in my relationship months or years ago, because I live with my partner and we have sex. Like I remember reading a passage in a book where this guy was saying he’d never farted in front of his wife before and did the first time a week or so after he got married. And I was just like…. ??? You literally committed to spend the rest of your life with someone who you’re not even physically comfortable around enough to fart in front of?? Or another person talking about how you have this fairy-tale idea of what marriage is going to be, but it’s not glamorous like that, like there’s morning breath and you might butt heads a lot at first. And I’m just sitting there thinking… this just sounds like you’ve never had an adult relationship before.

But most Evangelical Christians don’t really have a typical romantic relationship until after they’ve got married. Like… you “date”, but that relationship isn’t sexual or really physical at all, you don’t share a living space, or really any other big commitments like finances.

In purity culture, Christian relationships are essentially a test period to decide whether or not you want a regular romantic relationship with this person, only you have to sign a legal document to say that this is for the rest of your life in order to access it at all. Which is…… not healthy.

[ahshesgone]

raise your hand if you’ve ever been personally victimized by Philip Pullman

[greatwhiteprivilege]

[firefoxed]

why would a candle thats already lit want to be with a match

[balkanbruiser]

also her being lit is going to eventually melt her and reduce her to nothing match guy is an abusive sadboy who thinks he’s the victim when candlegirl just wants someone who will keep her alive

[greatwhiteprivilege]

im here for this analysis

[chasekip]

blue shiny pokemon ★☆

[pleasequietdown]

No Noise November. everyone shut up

[greenmossloveisreal1998iloveyou]

Why am I so MEAN

[kingofthegringos-deactivated202]

Gone too long without watching Avatar the Last Airbender

[greenmossloveisreal1998iloveyou]

Woah.