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HELLO we have finally gathered up the courage to rebrand this blog to be a SYS blog !!!! i have no clue how often we'll actually speak on this bc we have pretty severe anxiety about ppl perceiving us but we will TRY !!! (and atleast reblog stuff semi-frequently) hehe

DNI: non traumagenic 'systems' and their supporters, terfs, centrists/right-wingers, people who are against misandry and/or think that its an ACTUAL issue

Keep reading for info ab our frequent alters ! :D

#system intro #system blog #intro post #traumagenic system #anti endo #sysblr #idk what im doing #halp #by Rina #Spotify

azureansys

treat your alters as separate people or not, but at the end of the day i think its important to acknowledge that we're all parts of someone who we were supposed to be as a whole

burningnails

Endos: ‘We don’t claim to have a DID/OSDD we just have alters like you as a symptom.’

Yes… a symptom of…. go on, I’ll let you guess.

ishowdespair-deactivated2026012

the-complicity-system

Term time

Fishbowled

When you keep dissociating and feel like you're going to switch, then forget about it only for you to notice it again

No switch actually happens- You're just stuck in a loop of forgetting and feeling like brain soup

syscultureis

sys culture is an alter being social & extroverted while talking/interacting with other alters but being introverted & actively avoiding other people while fronting

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sineadrhiannon

To anyone who is having problems discerning reality

One thing that has been helping me more than almost anything else is keeping what I like to call a reverse dream journal. It’s going to be a reality journal, and it doesn’t take much time out of your day to keep it up. Someone else recommended this to me about 8 months ago when I was having particular issues figuring out what was real and what wasn’t.

So to do this, you’re going to pick a method of documenting. I personally use individual sheets of paper for each day, and then file them away, but I know people who use texting, notes in their phone, tumblr, or a traditional journal.

Then, you’re going to want to try to take time throughout the day when you’re feeling like reality is clear (it only has to be a minute or two at a time for each entry) to write down what you’ve done. For instance, I’ll take a break every hour or so, or after any major thing that I’ve done, to just write down that I did the thing. It’s important to note that you don’t need to give a ton of detail, just “took my meds 11 am, ate lunch 1 pm,” etc.

So now that you have that, you keep the journal (whatever form it is) near where you are, especially when you’re sleeping. When you wake up in a panic, you can read the journal and remind yourself of what things actually happened.

You want to make sure to try to never write in it while you don’t feel like things are real. This journal needs to be something you can trust no matter what.

If you are having delusions or are dissociating and writing helps, keep this writing in a separate journal from your reality journal, the reality journal is there to remind you of what’s happening and what isn’t.

If you are having trouble figuring out what is real so that you can make entries, you can always go to someone you trust to help you record what you have done that day. Have them put the date, time, and their name there, so that you can ask them about it at a later time if you need to.

syscultureis

sys culture is being so tired of pretending to be one person

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c1rcus-of-the-stars

Oh Wow!! My symptom (amnesia) of my disorder (DID) is getting worse!! But because it’s getting worse (I’m forgetting things more) I obviously must be faking (I’m just forgetting my symptoms)!!

antiendocoining

Medial System

a did/osdd alternative to ''median'', for those who identify with it but don't wanna use the term.

definition: a medial system would be a system that sees themselves as one person in parts, or identify as being their own individuals and 'multiple', but at the same time, being parts of a single person. a medial system can also be someone who is going through an integration process, and is ''in-between'' being seperated and being one.

this can have the meaning you want, but this is my personal definition of it

flag - bright warning (made by mod G)

syscultureis

System with autism culture is all of us apparently having different interoception capabilities? Apparently???

One of us was in front watching Shorts on YouTube when they realized the body needed to go to the restroom. But, mid-Short, they switched out with someone (due to positive triggers in the video).

The person who was in front before was basically yelling at the new fronter—me, actually—to go to the bathroom. Like, why? Do we need to go? I don't feel anything.

Autism in systems is wild.

Our system has different sensory issues and different sensories they seek. There are some fabrics certain alters front just to touch that will make other alters leave front the second they come in contact with it lmao

mothmanmagicalboy

no sorry i dont really use instagram, i can contact you via ouija board, spirit box, fluctuations in temperature, flickering lights, and certain rituals. i am also on tumblr.