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I downloaded an app on my phone to remove backgrounds and after removing the background of this pic of Bowie it showed me a bunch of templates I could put the image in. Losing my shit rn
okay. callout post.
FUCK grackles.
they literally peck the brains out of little birds.
they've MURDERED a shit ton of house sparrows that live here and eat out of our bird feeders.
i will never not hate grackles.
if you want a cute emo little bird then like crows.
thanks for coming to my ted talk
animals dont have morals and maybe the sparrows deserved it
D:
the house sparrows literally can't survive unless people feed them
grackles can eat whatever the fuck they want but they choose to eat the house sparrow's brains when there's literally bird seed right there.
Hi! So first off, it's always nice to see someone who loves house sparrows - they're so often ignored or underappreciated that it makes me really happy when someone likes them. That being said, grackles aren't evil for engaging in carnivory! They're omnivorous and going to eat other animals sometimes, just like us and plenty of other species (crows do this as well)! So do those sparrows, who are also omnivores and are probably pretty terrifying if you are some sort of bug and/or grub.
That's the thing about bird feeders, they invite wild animals in close proximity so you can see them but that also means you're going to see the predator/prey relationships within your local bird community. This can be really cool even if it is sad sometimes! Those grackles and sparrows are tied together - so are the sparrows and the bugs, the hawks that might prey on them, or terrestrial animals that take hatchlings or eggs from the nest. It's sad seeing animals die, but they all rely on each other to live.
Grackles and sparrows are both birds that I love dearly and are species that many people consider to be undesirable or pests. That's obviously unfair, as they're just animals living their lives! The two of them have also adapted very well to human presence which is definitely a part of things - a lot of people don't take well to animals that exist in the same space as them.
You clearly care about birds with how much you like the house sparrows. You might never like grackles and there's not much I can do about that! If anything though, I would just ask you to try and consider them as their own creatures, not just as the predator of your sparrows. People can be very cruel when they decide an animal's life isn't worth anything - take it from me, a huge fan of pigeons (unfortunately treated like the #1 enemy of cities everywhere). So many animals are lovely and important even if we don't value them very much!
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My sibling is alt-right and extremely hateful about his beliefs. He goes on tirades about liberal agendas and screams and insults me and our other family members when we attempt to debate with him. I live with him and being around him negatively impacts my mental health, especially with me being part of some of the groups he hates so much. I donât know what to do. I feel so much hatred for him, but heâs my brother and we used to be close.
Members of the so-called âalt rightâ or âmanosphereâ actually bear very strong similarities to cult members - they become increasingly rigid in their beliefs, they have decreasing tolerance for ambiguity (everything starts to become either right or wrong, with no room for grey areas), they become increasingly preoccupied with âpurityâ of thought, their beliefs start to become the core of their personal identity, they accept the word of thought leaders without question or critical thinking, their relationships with family and friends deteriorate, and they often experience negative consequences at work or school as a direct result of their beliefs.Â
Dealing with a friend or family member who has joined the alt-right is very different from dealing with a family member who is dabbling with the idea of voting Conservative for economic reasons, or dealing with a family member who erroneously believes that Game of Thrones isnât very good. Reasoned discussion and laying out your point of view will not work here. The tactics that you need to use with him are actually the tactics used to deprogram cult members, which includes things like:
Do not debate him. Never debate a cult member under any circumstances. Itâs a complete waste of time for everybody involved, and it only serves to further entrench him in his toxic beliefs. Cult members do not approach debates in good faith - they are not open to having their minds changed, and they have no intention of ever listening to the other side. Cult members use debate as a tool to recruit people with possibly like-minded beliefs, or as a tool to gather evidence that the âother sideâ is delusional. The more you debate, the harder he will fight to come up with justifications for his beliefs, and the more satisfaction he will get from feeling like he is defending his âsideâ from attack. Shut down all debate with him. If he tries to start a debate, redirect immediately. If he makes an inflammatory statement at the dinner table, respond with something non-committal ( âhmmmmmâ, âis that so?â, âokayâ ) and immediately change the subject. Donât get sucked in. No matter how hard he tries to open up a debate, deflect, shut him down, or walk away.Â
Treat him with detached politeness. I know that it is very difficult not to get visibly upset when someone is insulting the very core of who you are as a person and what you believe, but but you have to stay calm and detached here. Do not let him see that he is upsetting you. When he is going on rants about his beliefs, treat him like a child who is explaining the rules to a video game that you donât particularly care about - have an air of detached boredom, and no matter how hostile he gets, respond only with politeness. Remember, part of the core beliefs heâs being fed is that people outside of the alt-right are âemotionalâ, and that his beliefs are âtriggeringâ to those people. Give him no evidence to suggest that is true. Stonewall him. Give him nothing but bored stoicism in response to his outbursts. No matter how much he escalates or how horrifying his beliefs get, always act as though you are having a polite conversation about the weather with a stranger at Starbucks. If he tells you that women should should be property and gays should be killed, respond only with a polite âWell, I suppose thatâs one perspectiveâ, or âYes, I believe you have mentioned this beforeâ. Nothing takes the wind out of a cult memberâs sails faster than being treated with calm politeness when they are expecting a fight.
Do not insult him or the people who share his beliefs. The glue that holds cults together is a persecution complex. Cults absolutely thrive on being persecuted for their beliefs, and they depend on it to keep members from leaving. âPeople outside this group hate you and they will treat you much worse than we willâ is the message that keeps people from leaving hateful cults, all the way up until the Kool-Aid is served. He is being fed the message by his fellow cult members that he is hated for who he is - a, presumably, straight white man - and that âLiberalsâ hate him so much that they want to take away the things he is âowedâ (money, power, security, etc) and give it away to undeserving minorities who havenât really âearnedâ it. Give him no evidence to suggest that this is true. Refrain from insulting him, or insulting the people he views as thought leaders or role models. You can definitely express your political opinions and make it clear that you are not buying into your brotherâs worldview, but keep things direct and refrain from personal attacks. If he is gloating about the president to intentionally get a rise out of you, a simple âI disagree with his policiesâ is all you have to say - launching into attacks about the presidentâs looks, family, mannerisms or intelligence is fuel for your brotherâs hateful beliefs. Remember that when it comes to your brother, you are not acting in the role of a left-wing activist facing off against a dangerous right-wing activist with a platform. You are a concerned family member dealing with a family member who has gotten involved in a cult.Â
Ask polite questions, but do not engage directly with his beliefs. Do not read any of the reading material he recommends, listen to any of the podcasts he puts forward or view any of the videos he asks you to watch; it might be tempting to do so just to prove that you are engaging with him in âgood faithâ and that you have given his views an âhonest tryâ, but this is a mistake. There is no such thing as âgood faithâ or intellectual honesty when it comes to cults, and there is nothing to gain from engaging in their propaganda. Do not treat anything produced or recommended by a cult as if it has value, because it does not. When he provides you with something he wants to you read, behave as though a young child has just handed you a live earthworm - thank him for the gesture, but decline to accept. Engaging with propaganda just legitimizes it, and gives him more ammunition to hunker down in his beliefs. When you do ask questions of his beliefs, be detached and polite. If he is ranting that all women are whores, ask him what the basis is for that belief. You are not looking to debate him or get a rise out of him - donât fire back with counter-points, but make a polite, disinterested noise of acknowledgement, or ask for further clarification. You are merely looking for holes in his reasoning, or gaps where he doesnât have evidence to back up what he says. You donât need to point these holes out to him - there will be many. When he is unable to be specific, once again, make a polite acknowledgement ( âInteresting.â ) and move on.
Emphasize how much you miss your former relationship with him. Tell your brother that you miss him. Be specific - talk about the things that you used to do together, and the ways that he used to be involved in your life. If he tries to deflect and start talking about his beliefs again, or how he canât be involved with you anymore because of your own beliefs or identity, donât engage. Go back to talking about how you miss the relationship you used to have with him. If he insults you, pretend you didnât hear him and remind him of a happy memory or a fun thing that you used to do together. It can take a really long time to have success with this tactic, but your brother does remember the relationship he used to have with you, and it is possible to remind him of what he is missing out on by continuing with his hateful beliefs. The idea is to take his beliefs out of the equation as much as possible - make him miss the relationship that he used to have. Any attempt at mending the relationship on his end will necessarily require that he get less extreme in his beliefs - itâs difficult to pursue a close relationship with someone and still insult them.Â
Remind him of normal life outside the cult. People in the alt-right - and other cults - tend to become hyper-focused only on issues that concern the cult, and begin to forget about normal life. Your brother is likely spending a lot of time and focus on things like the âsexual marketplaceâ, abortion rights, refugees, gay rights, female superhero movies etc. Bring him back to earth as often as you can with reminders of things that are outside the scope of the alt-right, and are minimally politically charged. Start a conversation about a new restaurant that is opening up in your town. Show him a funny cat video. Ask him if heâs seen a minimally controversial movie. Constant reminds of normalcy can gradually help him realize how hyper-focused he has become on a few small issues, and remind him that his worldview and priorities are incredibly skewed.
Protect your own mental health. Living with a cult member is exhausting. The combination of fending off the insults, being bombarded with hate rhetoric and missing the person they used to be is exhausting. Make sure you are protecting your own mental health. Take breaks. Leave the house and spend time with other people. Lean on friends and other family members for support. Take care of yourself. Getting someone out of a cult is a marathon, not a sprint, and itâs important to conserve your energy. It can take up to five years to get someone to fully leave cult beliefs behind. Be patient.Â
One of the hard parts about dealing with alt-right family members is that people make the mistake of approaching them as a political movement, when it is more appropriate to address them as a cult. The way that they operate is much more similar to the dynamics of a cult than the dynamics of a mainstream political movement, and deprogramming techniques are your best bet for getting your family member back. I highly recommend that you and your family read up on cults and the tactics used to get people out of them. It is especially helpful to read testimony from people who have escaped cults or successfully been persuaded to leave them - if possible, look for materials from people who have left the alt-right, and try to present this material to your brother. This is an incredibly difficult thing for a family to go through, and I highly recommend that you seek out other families who are dealing with similar situations - you are far from alone here.Â
Best of luck to all of you.Â
Thereâs a reason we call Qanon followers Qultists.
The subreddit r/QanonCasualties is also a good resource, or at least a place to find people who have experienced having their loved ones radicalized by the alt-right and having discussions on the topic.
Birders: do you ever wonder if this happens?
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THEY DO!!! IâVE SEEN IT!!! Those motherfuckers run across those trees head down with no spacial awareness and get so startled and bewildered when they bump into eachother. Itâs hilarious