The Key Elements of Male Chastity (Obsession)
1. Discovery
2. Understanding
3. Fantasizing
4. Lamenting
5. Research
6. Objectification
7. Communication
8. Breaking (Submit)
9. Purchase (obtaining)
10. Execution
1. The initial discovery and interest of chastity can be quite an epiphany. It is eye opening and more than often unlocks a myriad of unrealized sexual feelings and emotions all tied to looking at that first device. To some chastity for the first time is very shocking and enlightening.
2. Like with anything that a male has a serious interest about he will research and find out as much as he can about a topic. The history, the methods and how it relates to their interest in it. This is the beginning stage of developing a chastity persona. The male who is interested in chastity needs to unlock its secrets and unlocking it requires understanding the context of all the elements.
3. Not always but usually ones mind starts to wander and imagination takes over to the desires and intense feelings towards experimenting with chastity. The male masturbates to chastity pornography wishing it was his cock locked away. It’s ironic but it’s an exploration into trying to make sense of all these sexual feelings. The fantasy grows and becomes more elaborate as time passes.
4. What can best be described as chastity cravings takes over. It is a compulsion to be locked and it continues to grow as the male obsessively goes over all the elements. The male is addicted to a drug he’s never taken yet. It’s a unfamiliar kind of suffering that almost seems both mental and physical.
5. Now it is time for the male to get serious and figure out what is the best device to have. This and is more of a logical methodical element and it is put here after the last two emotional elements because it is definitely useful but it also an attempt to try and get a grip on these seemingly uncontrollable cravings if only briefly.
6. This brewing emotional pot now causes a a definite change in the way the males sexual identity and also on how he views his penis. He is in an intense process of redefinition of what it actually is in relationship with his manhood and personality. A sexual self realization takes place with very new drastic perceptions of ones self. Bravado, submissiveness and male roles all swirl around with this new idea of chastity. The male will ask internal questions like “is there something wrong with me be cause I want this?”
7. In order to find validation one will seek like the minded. Even if it is done anonymously one will want to know they are definitely not alone in this new erotic world they’ve found. A male needs justification for his desires. Some will communicate with others to find specific answers and sense of belonging others will watch from afar, all seeking the element of understanding.
8. One way or another the pot boils over. It can be like a pressure cooker or a tea kettle but most likely will be like the slow lava flow of a Pacific volcano. Anyway you look at it, it’s an intense experience for the male. Some may feel they are losing control. The intensity to bring this about varies from individual to individual. Now is the time and the trigger is pulled.
9. All elements come together in the action plan of obtaining a device. This is becoming a serious reality and it is under way. Once a chastity device is in the males possession the next element takes place.
10. Execution is on! Whatever regiment the male has created it will be individual to the chastity taste of the person. It doesn’t mater if the male is gay, straight, bi, pan, or all colors of the rainbow. Chastity does not know what sexuality is nor does it care. After all the elements that have pleasured and tortured the male reach its apex, the first locking of the device on his penis can be one of the most erotic experiences they have ever experienced.
When I first discovered contemporary male Chastity my intense feelings of inadequacy were put in perspective. For the first time in my adult life everything made sense. The concepts of my manhood, bravado and masculinity now have been completely erased from my mind. A clear path to total submission was shown to me and it brought me peace. I willingly submit my cock to chastity.
I am a caged cock slave. I have no choice in this matter. It has consumed me from the moment I knew I could have my cock put in a modern device. The look, the feel, the action is a part of me. I never had a manhood in the first place so I stopped looking for when I lost it.
I am proud to be in chastity.
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