A bit of advice to sub-males and key holders that are curious about long term chastity enforcement. How does one get there? Where do you start? What works? What doesnât?
1. The first thing to do is to find a key holder. The chastity experience is completely different when there is someone else that makes the decisions about enforcement. Without someone else making the decisions their are some ways Iâve discussed with some chastity slaves that worked for various enforcement times but they were not random and always fixed amounts of time. For some this is satisfying but for most having someone else enforce chastity is far more satisfying.Â
2. Obviously the best key holder is someone that you already have intimacy with but for a lot of want-to-be chastity slaves thatâs not going to work either because that topic is untenable (good luck with that) or itâs more satisfying to have someone that has no emotional or personal stake in their chastity enforcement. The latter can be very exciting to some.
3. Where do you find a key holder? Locally itâs difficult for most I canât really give advise on this as my local chastity slaves were all completely by accident and serendipity. The other alternative is on-line. Over the past year Iâve done this and made many mistakes and learned a lot. Logistics can be difficult but Iâve worked out most of the kinks and can give some helpful tips in that area for anyone interested. If asking please specify if you are a key holder or a sub-male (not that itâs hard to tell). Managing key access can be tricky but it is workable with a few different scenarios.
4. I have many thoughts on appropriate devices, check my feed and youâll find a few ramblings. Hereâs the thing, there will be A LOT of trial and error and a few adjustments and new device installations along the way. Plan on it. The first few  choices and chastity device installations will most likely be a failure. Plan on it and move on.Â
5. Okay, everything is all sorted and ready to go. Now weâll just look that penis up forever right? Probably not. Hereâs a question: Are you a completely noob, first time in chastity? Okay, so youâre not, whatâs the longest youâve been continuously locked? If less than 48 hours thereâs some work to do and easing into longer term chastity.
6. Eeasing in is allowing your penis to adjust to itâs new circumstances. Some of that time is really figuring out the right device and the right size. Itâs actually balancing the two factors in a way. Itâs impossible to figure out device size without longer term chastity enforcement. It takes a bit of longer term chastity to get to the right device size. Kind of a catch 22. If a complete noob start with 4 hours. Everything okay? Make it 8 hours. Sure that can be the same day without removal. Uncomfortable? Good, it will be. Go ahead make it 8 hours. Does something REALLY hurt constantly through all 8 hours, then something is wrong⌠regroup. Make sure nothing is numb and ice cold and turning UGLY colors here and there. Get your mind off the device, watch a movie, read a book, anything that will stop that constant attempt at erection. The device it self is going to cause you to WANT to go erect this will be uncomfortable. Good you made it thru a work-day. Give it a break for a bit maybe a day, two, or even three.
7. Okay now itâs a day or two later. Letâs do another 8 hours. It will probably be similar to the last time. The chastity device will be hard to get on. Being in chastity will CAUSE you to want to be erect. No really problems or horrible pain, just discomfort. Thatâs okay. Weâre going to do 8 hours.
8. Okay now do 8 hours or make it 12 EVERYDAY until the chastity device is not causing you to think ERECTION all the time when itâs on. Go ahead, get off 85 times in whatever way you want when the device is not on, the more the better, get off so much youâre sick of orgasms. Try to have an orgasm when youâre not in the cage until you just canât. Try to have an orgasm or sex or masterbate until you canât get hard. Get really sick of orgasms. EVERY DAY!!! for how long with this take, jeez, honestly a week maybe less for some maybe a little bit more for others. It will NOT take a month. As soon as the chastity device itself and wearing it stops causing CONSTANT semi-erections and swelling youâre ready for the next step.
9. The next step is tricky. Itâs 24 hours. Just do it. Doesnât matter when you start but make it twenty four hours. NOON is a better time to start than right before bed. Itâs no big deal youâve done 8 or 12 hours everyday. The point is, every single bathroom function, shower, dressing, and sleep will be covered. This will be different. Trust me.
10. So, itâs noon the next day. Youâve been caged for the big 24⌠a whole day!!! Congratulations, now what? If you have a key holder let them decide. I myself would prescribe another 24, and another, and another most likely. In fact I would have started on a Monday if possible and then every day until Friday at noon. Then itâs orgasm time all weekend until the slave is sick of it again. In fact I would prescribe FORCING an orgasm or semi-orgasm until the slaveâs penis is tiny and flaccid and will not at all give even a hint of a bit of a chubby as in zero reaction. Then I would force another shitty semi-flaccid orgasm again ALL WEEKEND and every time it just wouldnât even try to get a little hard I would have the slave say âI want to be in chastityâ and âIâd rather be in chastityâ and âPLEASE lock my tiny flaccid penis upâ. Sometime Sunday I would have the slave lock himself again and this time remove access to the keys.Â
But wait, #9 was just for 24 hours. Well, it can be or 48 or 72 but itâs best if itâs a few days. This is the time to work out if there are any real problems or the slave is not actually ready for prolonged wear. Whatâs a good sign that he is not ready? Well, if there are long periods of time (a few hours) where the slaves penis is fighting against the cage actively with attempted erections. Here and there is okay, multiple hours with no provocation is not⌠Try doing the 8-12 hour thing every day more, try 24hours day-on day-off. This shouldnât take long and definitely no more than a month. If it takes more than a month itâs because thereâs been TOO MUCH time in between lock-ups. You canât just do this a day or two here and there and expect to be conditioned for longer term chastity enforcement.
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