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So in Love with this Lip Color #ITSmyFAV hmmmm what should I name her?? 🤔🤔

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FALL FASHION is on the Rise Ladies!!!! Let's be Real its still August.. and the sun is still shining bright. End your summer with a few Fall picks that can complement some of your open toe shoes!!!!! Don't pack them away just yet unless their white of course. Hahahahaha This look is under $75 and it can be worn on a cool sunny day to kick back or that first official date with a cutie. Xoxo Lady APPROVED :)

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Tests

This past week has really been rough and through it all I didn’t ask why until the end of the week lol. I asked myself that question as I was getting ready for my one on one time with my Bible , God, and my girl Heather Lindsey.

This week I’ve had so many mixed emotions and my brain was everywhere. After taking the time out to think clearly alone with God I came to the conclusion that the way I handled things was not the best way, I could have handled them in Gods way but instead I tried to solve the problems myself. Instead of walking with God in those test moments I let the devil come in and put hurt, discouragement, anger (just a little) on my heart. That is the ANSWER to my WHY? .. While the test was in progress I see now that I was digging myself into a deeper hole that I felt I would never move from. Don’t get me wrong , I kept God in the mix daily so the devil didn’t have its full hold on me, but I’m not ashamed to say I did let him fall through some cracks.

I’ve been through A lot and I’m learning everyday, to understand things for what they are. I feel as though someone is always trying to get over, hurt my feelings, or play me. I say that because I’ve been there before and I was living my life with this guard up because I’m afraid that certain things will happen again. I was having a deep discussion with Darius and he stopped me and said ” stop talking about what you don’t want to happen, and focus on what you want to happen”. My response to this was ” you’re absolutely right” . I said that because he was right and that was something that let me know that I’m still a working progress.

I gave up stress for lent and that was the best thing that ever happened to me, but I wanted to do more. I felt like I needed to do more, I wanted to do more because although I am a sinner daily I want to work on the woman that God has called me to be. I didn’t let anything stress me to the point of heart ache anymore, I used God as my crutch when fighting those worrying feelings that past through my heart. None of that anymore!!!! I feel complete giving him my burdens because Ive learned the hard way (many times) that I couldn’t fight any of these battles without him.

So back to my trying week, I felt things that I haven’t felt in a long time and that is simply because I let satan sneak through the cracks. One I would like to apologize to my love. I can honestly say I blew some things out of proportion and let some stuff get to me. I’m not saying that I didn’t have a right to feel those feelings it’s just that I let my feelings get the best of me and other things made me think back to the times in my life where I was hurt and in reality no matter how hurt I am feeling for that moment, my past is my past ; that does not mean that is my present life. I realized that getting through things and feeling whole again is something I’m proud of and I let something take me back ten steps. Why? Because I was not walking with God the way I should have been. He would tell me to be still and still trust, instead of voicing every little thing that hurt my feelings; I’m not going to lie, toward the end of the trying week, my last test went a little differently . This time I decided to be still and quiet, not because I was tired of talking all week, it’s because I stayed positive I knew that although I was feeling some type of way, it’s not bad after all. I’m not gonna lie I prayed about it , even cried one good time but I left it to God and I asked for help to control what I was feeling. And he answered my prayers, I said I wasn’t going to hang on to what ” I think ” is going on instead I will look at the “what is” . That’s when I sat down and talked to God about my week and reflecting , and I read my daily scripture. After that time to myself, I was over joyed with the energy flowing through my body all because I gave it to God. My love was sleeping and I went in and hugged and kissed him tight, I didn’t care if I wake him I just wanted to let him know how much I love him and appreciate him. I couldn’t be in my feelings anymore for feelings I really didn’t have in the first place and for that last trial, I decided to hang it up and move forward.

To sum it all up I had one looooonngggg week that was just crazy for me but it only took for me to have 1 min with God to push and get away from the madness. He is awesome

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Choosing your battles

We all have certain things in our lives that are just a NO GO!!! I mean certain things in life we won’t tolerate ; At some point though we learn to deal with things and be dealt with. You have to ask yourself sometimes : is this really worth it?

I’m learning everyday that everything doesn’t have to be a fight. At the end of the day we all have people that are in our lives ,some we may love a lot or maybe not as much i don’t know, but we seem to put them on a priority list. That priority list comes with presence , feelings, etc that’s a lot to deal with when you have Soo many people that you have to please. Or do you???

In a relationship ; ha that just gets harder and harder lol but again that priority list ; where does that priority fit on that scale? I always say being in a relationship with someone doesn’t mean you MAKE them change things about themselves to fit your needs, the right one will want to do that on his /her own,letting them know I Love you ENOUGH to work on a better me. At the end of the day it’s not worth letting the little things get to you because things could be worst. Love while you can , be kind when others are kind to you and smile even when you’re sad . Life is short

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We can be the Jack of all Trades

Its hard accepting reality when you have lived your life the same way for so long. Ms Independent: Fierce, beautiful , inside and out. Focused on working and keeping up her grades, partying every Thursday night with her girls. She was very content with being single not having the obligations that come with commitment. Rolling up her thoughts on paper while drinking a glass of red wine was how she spent her nights. Thought working all day.. no kids or family would be her life. Focusing on herself .. finding out what it is that drives her. She knew what it was when she worked her first job as a jewelry associate, and from there she learned things, experienced things, and changed her whole life. MsHuRt: We all have people, things, events, etc that has the power to hurt a human being. We all are different so there are things that hurt certain people but not necessarily considered hurt to someone else. That is how we make the world go round. Lol everyone's morals, values, and beliefs are not always the same so we cause the feelings for someone being hurt when it's just clear that you all are not on the same page. What do we do? Try and work through your differences? Or let it sail?. Usually depends on the situation. Nine times out of 10 you learn from it or you continue to put yourself in the same place until you learn. That statement goes hand and hand with people. Mommy : Best feeling you can ever let flow through the flesh of your body. When things get rough and you feel as if you don't have a leg to stand on. The smile of. Child can make it all worth while. Looking intro their eyes and not see a care in the world ,gives you that reminder that God has the answers and trust that he will see you through. It also teaches me that during storms never forget to smile for the things that are right because things could be worst.Being a mom will make you do things you have never done before, that can simply be doing the most crazy dances or singing songs that you KNOW for a fact you sound horrible. To the mothers that had it rough maybe took something here or there, it happens no shade, it shows that you will do whatever you have to do to feed or provide for your child. Queen: Holding your own and never settle for half ass things or people. Respecting you body and your mind, making decisions that will lead us in a better place. Never participating in what the negative world has to offer. Staying true to God and Love , and when finding the right person stick with them as long as it is something to truly hold on to. Being supportive,loyal, and honest no matter the situation. Men can earn this right to be treated like Kings by us Queens.

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Beyonce Looks Amazing

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This is to you... My #1

Your Love

Makes me feel like no one else in the world can give me the type of love where I dont have to second guess it.With your love I dont look for reassurance because you show me each and everyday that it is possible to fall in love with you all over again. If I had to go a day without loving you, that would be a test that I will Fail.You have been  there for me when I could never count on anyone else. You are the best friend and Lover that i have been waiting for my entire life. You never judge me or belittle me for the things I do or say, you show me everyday that there is always a tomorrow .... The support and motivation that you give when I need it the most.The way you look at me each time with this starry glow in your eyes. Makes me bubbly inside and again make me remember why we fell in love in the first place. God has sent me a person that truly deserves me and I deserve him.

Your Touch

Every morning waking up with your shoulder touching mine :) makes me feel warm inside. I open my eyes to your face with a Good Morning kiss on the forehead to let me know it is time to get up. On nights when we cuddle you hold me tight like you never want to let me go. I feel so safe and secure that no harm will come my way. The way you gently rub my back and feet from a longs day work I just want to melt and fall asleep in your arms like a baby. When I am feeling down, you embrace me with the biggest hugs and kisses to let me know everything will be alright. With this type of Love that we share I never want to let it go.

Truth is... I dont know who you are... but you are a LUCKY Man

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Just Rock with me