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One response to women’s rights being peeled back is to stop consensually sleeping with men by in large until they’re willing to make waves and demand change for our reproductive rights and bodily autonomy.

Because if you don’t support my rights but want punani that is very ridiculous. “I want access to her body that is getting its rights taken away when I have the power to voice against it but won’t” in a patriarchy? That is shameful and shows lack of character, and I don’t entertain men with poor character.

#the time is now to protect our wombs by all means necessary #black femininity #womens rights #reproductive rights

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#black tumblr #black beauty #black girl magic #beautiful black women

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#black women #beautiful

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Anyone who knows me knows...

When a person uses this phrase to justify a mistake, you know that they don't regret anything they did

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🎯 bullseye

#leveledupmindset #respect #accountability

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#gorgeous #beautiful black women

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Valentines 2018: My boyfriend of nearly 2 years told me valentines was just a holiday to sell cards and ditched me to watch a documentary with his dad that they had seen together less than 2 weeks ago and the valentines day before.

Valentines 2022: 6 bouquets of flowers, a gold tennis bracelet, new shoes and enough chocolate to kill me. I'm not in an official relationship with any of these men, but I am getting more love and respect than I did in 2 years with my ex. You can always do better.

(Stole this format from @hypergamiss )

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What are some essential things that you absolutely must do if you want to level up?

Make pleasing yourself a priority rather than always bending over backwards to please other people

Develop thick skin. Not everyone will agree with your lifestyle choices and many of them will be very vocal about that, but you can’t succomb to their naysaying. Learn to handle criticism but never take it too personally.

Understand that you may have to let some people down or hurt a few feelings for your own sanity. That doesn’t mean you should try to do that, but it will have to happen inevitably. For ex: a family member may feel hurt that you are choosing to move out and into your own place so that you can flourish and make experiences as a young woman but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.

Develop healthy levels of confidence and self esteem. Some women look leveled up but their confidence is in the gutter and they are some of the most insecure and validation seeking people you will ever meet. Some women take it too far and become completely conceited and arrogant to the point of delusion. Love yourself unapologetically, but stay grounded in reality.

Focus on yourself and stop being too invested in what other people are doing. I’ve mentioned this before, but in the book Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport, one quote I’ve always loved is, “you can’t build a billion dollar business like facebook if you spend all day scrolling through facebook”. That advice was tailored toward business but it applies here too. You can’t take yourself to the next level if you are too busy focusing on what level other people are on.

Develop discipline and consistency 😉. Rome wasn’t built in a day and anything worth having won’t come fast and without obstacles.