May friend ako na nagsabi sa akin “how to be you po?” And told him I waited for this kind of love din, it took me 6 years. He then asked for advice pano tumagal ang relationship. Mind you hindi ko rin alam at first dahil yung mga previous relationship ko 3-5 months lang ata tinatagal. Ngayon ko lang din narealize with the help of my boyfriend as well.
Pinaka madali siguro yung alamin nyo kung ano ang love language ng isa’t-isa. Saan sasaya partner mo at saan ka sasaya. Ako acts of service, and my boyfriend is perfect and always hits the spot. He always try to help me with everything, to ease my life. Siya naman receiving gifts and it does not mean na mahal na mga gifts, simple with element of surprise gifts sobrang naaappreciate ng tao yung ganun. Minsan magugulat na lang siya nasa kanila na ako may dalang food mga ganung tipo.
Communication is the KEY. Wag kayo mag hulaan kung ano nararamdaman ng isa, be vocal about it. Kapag galit ka sabihin mo, kapag may mali syang ginawa pagusapan nyo. You can be silent at times kasi initial reaction kapag galit pero kapag kaya mo na magsalita please sabihin mo yung problema para mapagusapan at mag meet halfway.
Space. Sometimes you should give each other a space. May times na sobrang galit na ako humihingi ako ng space. sinasabi ko sa kanya hindi yung hindi ka na magpaparamdam ng 2 days bigla. Hindi muna kami maguusap para lumamig mga ulo namin because you tend to say hurtful words kapag galit ka. Kung galit na galit at ayaw sya kausap di ka magpaparamdam, iexplain mo sa kanya kapag lumamig na ulo mo bakit ganun ginawa mo.
Walang perfect na relationship, hindi mo din lagi mahal ang partner mo, it really is a choice. Hindi lagi masaya, minsan boring, minsan you’re looking for something and both of you should know that para aware kayo.
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