layla ♱

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can i manifest him even though he said he never wants to see me again? yes.

can i manifest clear skin even though i’ve had acne for years and nothing has helped? yes.

can i manifest my dream body even though i eat a lot and don’t work out? yes.

can i manifest getting that job even though all the other applicants are way more qualified? yes.

can i manifest getting full marks on all my exams even though i suck at the subjects and i didn’t study? yes.

can i manifest a bunch of money even though i don’t have a job right now? yes.

the list goes on. you can manifest anything you want. circumstances don’t matter, and they aren’t real.

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me when i see the ratty ass men you guys are so happy to look a mess for:

you are infinitely cooler and more beautiful, babe. act like it.

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if you’re manifesting an sp, listen up

it’s easy, when you have a crush on someone, to put them on a pedestal, when in reality, nothing is above you and you’re just giving them false power.

so, incase you need a reminder…

⟢ your sp farts

⟢ your sp picks their nose

⟢ your sp shits

⟢ your sp has embarrassing moments

⟢ your sp often feels awkward / anxious

⟢ your sp has worn the same underwear 2 or more days without changing it at some point

⟢ your sp has gone around with food in their teeth

⟢ your sp has gotten embarrassingly drunk

they are not some god. stop putting them on a pedestal.

layla out, XOXO

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lay down your soul to the god’s rock and roll .⋆♱⃓

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resistance isn’t a bad thing

⟢ resistance is simply your mind trying to protect you through doubts, through wavering, through not being sure if what you’re doing is right. when you start affirming for something new or embodying a new identity, your brain sees it as unfamiliar, therefore possibly unsafe. hence the protection.

⟢ resistance is learned. we have spent our whole lives being trained that you have to work for what you have and you can’t just have things your own way. now even though you’ve deemed that false, it is still embedded into your subconscious, therefore your brain still tries to protect you.

⟢ resistance will not stop you from getting your desire: once you decide you have it, you have it. it just means that the road getting there might be a bit more uncomfortable.

⟢ picture two roads, both leading to point A. one road is smooth and goes straight to point A with no turns. the other road is quite bumpy and rocky, and has a lot of turns. sure, the smoother road may feel like a more comfortable drive, but they both get you to point A, right? think of the smooth road as you manifesting without resistance, and the bumpy road as you manifesting with.

⟢ “okay, layla, but how do i manifest without resistance?! i want my desire and i want it now, i don’t want any bumps in my road!” honestly, the best thing you can do for yourself is get to the root of your beliefs. maybe you find it hard to manifest an sp. why? because maybe you went your whole life not having your crushes reciprocated, or none of your previous partners have treated you well, or you think you’re ugly. address those issues and change your self concept so you no-longer believe them, and therefore are no longer resistant to your desire. start affirming “everyone i’ve ever liked has liked me twice as much” or “i always recieve princess treatment” or “i’m so insanely beautiful”.

⟢ i would also recommend regulating your nervous system. i know it can feel tricky to persist when your anxiety is spiked and your mind is going at a million miles an hour. take some deep breaths. try eft tapping. meditate. remind yourself everything is okay. whatever helps you calm down.

⟢ resistance won’t stop your manifestation unless you make a big deal out of it and say it will. whenever you experience resistance of any kind, just remember that resistance is normal and totally okay, doubts / feelings / intrusive thoughts / ect don’t manifest.

layla out, XOXO

[chuckschuldinerglaze]

dw twin, they nikki sixx, you cliff burton 𝄞⨾𓍢ִ໋♪

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tips for manifesting an sp

(coming from a girl who has manifested many!)

𖤐 listen… i know manifesting an sp can seem impossible, frustrating, and tedious. trust me, i’ve been there. i have a few tips for you that i pinky promise WILL help, however, there is one condition. i need you to actually take these on board and put them into practice. it’s so tempting to scroll tumblr or tiktok for hours and consume all this manifesting content to try and reassure yourself, but in the long run, none of it will help if you don’t trust yourself and establish your own practice. this being said, all of these things are what helped me to easily manifest sp’s through all sorts of circumstances. also, i’m gonna assume your sp is a dude because they’re funner to make fun of, but obviously this applies to any gender.

1. self concept

⟢ i know, i know, don’t hate me. everyone says it. i used to get annoyed when people said it too. but it really is the key for everything.

⟢ i know it can feel like a waste of time. you want sp and you want them now, therefore your focus should go to them and not yourself, right? why lengthen the process? WRONG! it’s this mindset that will (ironically) end up lengthening the process. once you actually work on your self concept and put yourself back on the pedestal, you’ll find you don’t even care that much about sp, and boy, that is when they come running. when you’re in that state of “i am on top, i don’t need anyone else”, it is so much easier to manifest anything.

⟢ okay, fine, but layla, how do i actually work on my self concept?

⟢ like anything to do with manifesting, there is no how, just do what feels right. but, i do have a seperate post on what works for me personally.

2. self care

⟢ this goes along with self concept, but essentially, just making yourself feel cared for and loved. i find this especially helpful for two main reasons.

⟢ for one, it shows yourself that you don’t need some smelly ahh dude to be loved. therefore when your sp comes in, your standards are high and you have self respect! you won’t let that man get away with not showering you with gifts, or treating you like a princess, or worshipping you, or whatever tickles your pickle, because respectfully, the suffragettes didn’t do allat for you to be crashing out over some bum who plays video games all day and uses 3-in-1 body wash.

⟢ also, i’m sure that if you and that dude were to start dating tomorrow, you’d feel unprepared. maybe your toes are in dire need of a pedicure. maybe your mental health isn’t in a great place. maybe there’s a swag gap, and you’re the less cooler one (yikes). anyways, if you focus on yourself and put in some self care, you can fix all of this to make you feel well and truly ready to take on your new mans!

⟢ self care can be anything that makes you feel good. to name a few examples: listening to your favourite music (80s bay area thrash, duh). meditating. going for a walk. getting all dolled up and taking some fire pics. cooking a meal. the list goes on and on and on!

3. flip the script

⟢ of course it’s gonna feel hard or impossible to manifest someone if you feel like you need them! therefore, start affirming the opposite. “i don’t need them, they need me” or “they’re so pathetic, constantly thinking of me” or “hell, if i was them, i’d want me that bad too”. essentially just be a little delusional and act as if they need you. once you start to do it, you feel so free and they start feeling really attainable.

4. journal

⟢ i will say, one thing i don’t like about the loa community is the toxic positivity that’s promoted. everyone tells you to completely ignore the 3D and never think any bad thoughts and be happy all the time. but that’s unrealistic.

⟢ i find journalling helpful because you can pour out every single thing you feel and get everything off your chest without having to be emotionally vulnerable to another person.

⟢ and yes, you can tell your journal that you feel like it’s never going to happen. you can tell your journal how fucking badly you want them. you can tell your journal that you’re frustrated. it’s so much healthier to get those thoughts out, because once you do, they stop lurking in your mind and trying to sabotage you.

5. live your life

⟢ personally, once i start liking someone, i hyperfixate on them and get such bad limerence that all i wanna do is stay in my room and think about them. i know it’s tempting, and i know it can be hard to live a life and appreciate the little things and go out and do things with other people, but it’s just something you have to do.

⟢ if you started dating someone, you’d want them to be happy, full of life, ready to make memories, have stories to tell, right? or would you want them to bed rot all day and obsess over you like a chud? i’m sure it’s the first one. so be that person for your sp! at the end of the day, this is your life. you need to live it.

6. celebrity crush

⟢ my final tip. an absolute cheat code. find a celeb crush. or even someone from school or work or your neighbor or whoever. just find some huzz. whenever you find yourself getting a bit too obsessed or dependent on your sp, revert back to the celebrity crush. visualise you and your celeb crush together, imagine how much of a power couple you’d be!

⟢ i find it helps pull me out of that state of need, and makes me think “hey… i have options”, therefore i no longer feel dependent on the sp.

𖤐 these are my tips for manifesting an sp! i hope you find these helpful and i’d be happy to give any further advice. remember, circumstances don’t matter and all it takes is persistence.

layla out, XOXO

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how to improve your self concept

𖤐 hello, my lovelies! in this post, i wanted to go over how to improve your self concept, as i find it to be one of, if not the most, important concepts in manifestation. there are infinite ways to go about this, but here is what works for me!

1. positive self talk

⟢ negative self talk, i must admit, is a tough habit to break out of at first. something i’ll see so many people do is claim that “ugh, i can’t manifest my sp” or “im so bad at manifesting” or “im so ugly”, blah blah blah, the list goes on. now, im sure you’re aware of affirmations. i’m sure you use them. so tell me how saying “im so beautiful” is any different to saying “im so ugly”? trick question, they’re the same. they both show the assumption you hold about yourself. if you’re constantly talking down on yourself, how do you ever expect to change those negative assumptions?

⟢ whenever you catch yourself thinking or saying something bad about yourself, catch it, and replace it with something good. yes, this also applies when you’re with people. eg, stop joking about “haha, i’m so broke!”. just don’t say anything girl.

⟢ also, for self concept specifically, i am the biggest advocate ever for mirror work. i will say positive affirmations to myself as i do my makeup, my hair, my skincare, ect. it’s so insanely effective, you wouldn’t believe it.

2. think ‘what would my ideal self do?’

⟢ this is basically just embodying your dream self. pick whoever you want to be, wether that’s an aesthetic you want to be percieved as or something you want to have, and just think ‘if i was that version of myself, what would i do right now?’. here’s a few examples.

⟢ if i wanted people to see me as a seductive, dark feminine, vampire baddie in public, i would walk confidently, with my lips slightly parted and a subtle glare, keeping a stoic expression and my chin held high. if i wanted people to see me as a soft, babydoll, lizzie grant esque princess, i’d smile softly at people, compliment strangers, bat my eyelashes, and be curious.

⟢ now, if i wanted to embody someone who was rich, i’d go window shopping. i’d look at everything and think “yeah, i can easily afford that”. i’d use my fancy perfume to go to the supermarket and i’d always look clean and polished.

⟢ if i wanted to embody someone who was with sp, i’d see a couple in public and think “awww, they’re cute! but me and sp are cuter”. i wouldn’t be checking my phone for their text or stalking their social media because why would i? they love me.

3. put effort into your appearance

⟢ this isn’t to say you aren’t naturally beautiful, of course you are. but getting dolled up and feeling like a baddie certainly never hurt anybody. overdress slightly wherever you’re going, wether it’s to a formal event, or just down the street to pick up your depop package.

⟢ there are so many ways to feel more beautiful. wearing an outfit that makes you feel confident. doing your makeup all pretty and experimenting with it. wearing your favourite peices of jewellery (bonus points if you enchant them). style your hair or wear cute hairstyles (i love me some vintage hairstyles). put on your favourite perfume.

4. self care, of course

⟢ you have to let yourself feel loved by yourself in order to have a high self concept. how do you expect to hold yourself at a high regard if you don’t even like the person you are?

⟢ there are endless forms of selfcare. physical, such as going for a walk or taking a bath. spiritual, such as meditation or journalling. social, such as hanging out with a loved one or complimenting a stranger. emotional, such as playing an instrument or painting. intellectual, such as reading or learning a new skill. sensory, such as eating your favourite food or listening to music. the list is truly endless.

5. prioritise your health

⟢ i think it is important to show your body you respect it. this doesn’t mean hitting the gym every day and cutting out carbs and sugar.

⟢ move your body however you can, even if it’s just a 5 minute stretch. eat balanced, don’t cut out the foods you love. make sure you have good hygiene. the basics.

𖤐 i hope this was atleast somewhat helpful. i know when you first get into manifesting, self concept can feel like a waste of time, but it really is very beneficial and for me, has been the difference between getting and not getting my desires.

layla out, XOXO

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me when i remember i can literally manifest anything i want ⋆₊ ♱

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master of puppets, except you’re the master and the universe is your puppet ˖°🦇ִ ࣪𖤐

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things i have manifested through law of assumption

𖤐 with the big upsergence of law of assumption, naturally there comes a lot of doubt and antis. hey, happens to the best of us, even yours truly! incase you need a reminder, or some reassurance, here’s a sort of in depth of some of my success stories!

1. multiple sp’s

⟢ when i was still new to law of assumption, i wanted to ‘test out’ manifesting an sp. i chose a random guy from my school, one that i’d never really spoken to. for about 2 days, whenever i thought of him, i’d just think, “oh yeah, he has. massive crush on me”. within not even a week, some of my friends were telling me that he keeps talking about me and that he really likes me, that he thinks i’m beautiful and really wants to be with me! circumstance = had never talked to him before

⟢ people often struggle with manifesting an sp that they don’t know yet, but it’s the exact same principle. i wanted a boyfriend, and i had a long list of demands (plays guitar, in a band, long haired, listens to metal like me, the list goes ON). i just told myself that i had him, and i ended up meeting him at a gig that i went to (he was the guitarist). i got his number and we started talking and we were literally the same person, and he ticked all of the boxes! (i’m not with him anymore because i broke up with him #avoidantattachment) buttttt nonetheless circumstance = not knowing anyone my type or how i’d meet someone so specific

⟢ i liked this guy and manifested he liked me too, then he instantly started acting shy around me, constantly trying to be around me, sparking up conversations, doing things for me, messaging me, silly things like that, when before i’d never spoke to him. eventually, i kinda got over him and affirmed he’d stop, and he did. circumstance = he was too old, we didn’t talk before, it seemed IMPOSSIBLE

⟢ on top of this, i’ve just manifested specifc people to do things, eg. text me, buy me things, give me princess treatment, act in a way i want them to, ect.

2. clear skin

⟢ my whole life, i’ve had sensitive, acne prone skin. but i’ve manifested it clearing up (over night) on multiple occasions. i’d just go to bed with the intention that “i’m going to wake up with clear skin”, and i would! that’s all it takes, no methods, just intent and deciding. circumstance = acne prone skin, having acne my whole life

3. good grades

⟢ i have always hated school. so much so that i got really depressed and suicidal at multiple points. this being said, whenever i was in school, my energy was focused on getting myself through the day and surviving rather than learning. i never paid attention in class, i’d just listen to music or sleep, or skip school as a whole. i still managed to get amazing grades whenever i was tested, because i simply assumed i would. i’d go into the test saying to myself “i’m so smart, of course i got (insert grade)!” and guess what? i got said grade. circumstance = not knowing any of the content, hating school

4. money

⟢ tbh, although everything is equal, i find money the ‘easiest’ thing to manifest. i just uphold the assumption that whatever i spend will come back to me and i’m always at an abundance, and the 3D has no choice but to reflect that back to me. it comes to me through opportunities to earn money, people just giving me money, finding money, even sometimes random money spawning on my account! circumstance = not having a job / stable source of income

5. guitar

⟢ i played guitar for probably a year and a half before reaching grade 8 level. obviously, it doesn’t have to take this long, but law of assumption helped to speed up my progress and skill level SO much. (for reference if you don’t play guitar, it usually takes 4-8 years to reach grade 8). i’ve also manifested opportunities within guitar such as being in a band, gigging (and making money from it), playing for others, ect. circumstance = time

6. instruments

⟢ this is my favourite example to tell people when i talk about loa. i wanted a drumkit so i could teach myself drums, however, i had a few problems. 1) i didn’t want to pay for one. 2) i didn’t have enough space in my room for an acousic drum kit. 3) my parents probably wouldn’t appreciate the noise. anyways, whenever i thought of it, i’d just say “no, i already have a drumkit!”. i only affirmed like this for a few days, and then, i got some news. my little cousin, who has never had an interest in music and is very girly, decided she wants to start playing drums. my auntie ordered an electric drumkit and the company accidentally sent her two. she asked me if i wanted the spare one for free. now, i didnmy have to pay, it would take up less space than an acoustic drumkit, and it would be quieter. i’m sorry, but is that not crazy?!?! all of this happened within a week! it also reminds me how naturally manifestations that seem impossible end up coming. circumstance = didn’t want to pay, not enough room, too loud?

⟢ also manifested my dream guitar. at the time, it was a jackson js32 dinky dkam black. now, i had enough money to get it, but doesn’t mean i wanted to pay for it. i sucked it up and compromised, and made a deal with my dad, that he’d order it and cover shipping and stuff if i gave him the money for the actual guitar. he bought it, and then out of nowhere decided he didn’t want my money, and i got the guitar for free. i have 4 guitars and i haven’t payed for a single one all through various circumstances. circumstance = didn’t want to pay

7. concert tickets

⟢ i asked my mum for metallica tickets in london (i live in the north of england so it’d be a treck, and tickets alone are like £200-250 each). low and behold, she said no. i just shrugged and told myself “yeah, she changed her mind”. the next day, she suprised me with metallica tickets. a few weeks later, i proposed the idea of buying further tickets to see them both nights they were in london. she said absolutely no way. again, i shrugged and told myseld “yeah, she changed her mind. the next day, she changed her mind and we got tickets for the sunday. boom. circumstance = parents saying no

⟢ on christmas eve, i saw that rush were playing in madison square garden. i thought to myself “i am going to see them then”. again, i live in the north of england - madison square garden is in new york. tickets were expensive, plane tickets were expensive, we’d have to stay in a hotel, blah blah. in short, just completely unrealistic. until, the next morning… i’m opening my presents and my mum hands me an envelope. tickets. to see rush. in madison square garden. this is why i never label anything as unrealistic anymore. circumstance = different continents

⟢ i’m sure a lot of you know how CRAZED lana del rey fans can be. when she announced she was doing a uk tour, i was desperate for front standing tickets, but i just knew it wouldn’t happen. nonetheless, i decided i had nothing to lose and affirmed i got them anyway. my mum lost the ticket war, BUT… my best friend’s mum got me tickets for both me and my best friend, FRONT STANDING. circumstance = seemed highly unlikely / luck based

⟢ concert tickets are one of my favourite things to manifest so i’ve manifested a lot, eg. crowbar, exodus, so on and so forth.

8. clothes

⟢ i do not support fast fashion, therefore i only shop second hand (vinted, depop, charity shops) [ps, charity shops = thrift stores]. if you live in the uk, you’ll know the charity shops can be quite… disappointing. but, i have manifested so many specific clothing items, simply by setting the intention of “i’m gonna find (insert clothing items) at the charity shop”. i’ve also found a bunch of cd’s, vinyls, books, ect. circumstance = dry ahh uk charity shops

9. celeb replies

⟢ i dm’ed joseph duplantier from gojira as a joke once, and then remembered i can manifest anything i want, so i thought “yeah, he’ll reply”. i honestly forgot about it for a few days, then low and behold…

⟢ also had party cannon wish me a happy birthday before i saw them in april!

⟢ aaaaaand, i’ve dm’ed a bunch of people with, although not being celebs, have a large following, and they’ve all replied simply because i want them to!

10. being percieved as i want by people

⟢ i think of however i want people to percieve me, and then use that as affirmations, and in that way, people always repeat my affirmations back to me! eg. a basic one, but “i’m so cool” - all my friends, family, even people who i’ve never really spoken to will reach out to me and tell me like “omg you’re so cool!”, it’s so fun to play around with.

⟢ same thing goes with being associated with things. for example, i love blue öyster cult, but it’s not something i talk about a whole lot. either way, i’ve been around friends, and a blue öyster cult song has played, and they’ll tell me that the band or the song reminds them of me. simply cause i hold the assumption that they are a part of my identity.

⟢ also, i love holding the assumption that everyone loves me, and seeing people who i thought disliked me or people who shouldn’t like me really admire me.

11. healthier teeth

⟢ my whole life, i’ve had pretty sensitive teeth, meaning they are pretty prone to cavities or being worn down. when i learned about loa, i decided to apply it in this scenario. i started assuming that my teeth were always healthy, despite a raging diet coke addiction and eating a lot of sugar. everytime i’ve been to the dentist since then, my teeth have been perfectly healthy. circumstance = being shown differently my whole life

⟢ also, i used to be really insecure because my teeth weren’t super white. i started assuming that “every time i brush my teeth, they get significantly whiter”. and they did! manifesting is just easy peasy like that. circumstance = not actually whitening them i suppose

12. social life

⟢ i’m lucky enough to never have been at a point where i have no friends, or a dry social life, but but loa helped me to make more friends with people i admired, be invited to plans i wouldn’t necessarily expect, lots of new opportunities, ext.

13. recieving orders

⟢ as i mentioned before, vinted is my ride or die. there’s been times where i’ve ordered clothes for specific occasions two or three days before the occasion. if you use vinted, you’ll know that 1) there’s no option for faster shipping, 2) it usually takes a week or more to come. but i’ve had parcels come literally the NEXT DAY, even from the other side of the country, simply by selecting the reality where it happened. circumstance = distance?

14. not gaining weight

⟢ i used to believe i was someone who gained weight very easily. obviously, that reflected in my 3D. i finally got to a place where i was comfortable with my body, and assumed that from now on, i won’t gain any weight. now, ya girl LOVES to eat. i was eating probably 3000 calories a day on average (i don’t work out or move around a lot), and for reference, my maintenance used to be 2000. i didn’t gain any weight, cause i assumed i wouldn’t. circumstance = CALORIES

𖤐 okay, i’ll end it here for now, but honestly, i could go on and on. i added circumstances purely to show that they do not freaking matter. i hope this has helped atleast someone, and if you have any questions / need any advice, feel free to dm!

layla, out XOXO