extraordinary kindness from those I met here
There's this girl from Switzerland that I have became close with during this exchange, probably due to us sharing so many classes together and our willingness to just tell each other personal things and also about life at our own country. By sheer divine plan, her boyfriend happens to be arriving to Korea exactly on the date I am leaving Korea, and the arrival time is almost exact as the time of my departure. Due to that, she is planning to help me with my luggage and travel to Incheon International Airport with me to send me off at the same time.
That is like one BIG load off my chest that she is helping me with, both literally and metaphorically. And also, I won't be travelling to the airport or wait at the airport alone (:
Pretty soon I would have to move out (or get kicked out) from the dorm I am staying in to somewhere else near school for a week more in Seoul. I was planning to pack and move to another room somewhere near school by myself, over the span of two days or just make two trips there, or just carry everything down the hill where the dorms are and try to catch a taxi. Troublesome I know and this is probably over 20kg worth of luggages. I think I would have problems handling the move myself, but I just couldn't bring myself to ask for help. I was actually offered help by the Korean family that I visit often but by accepting their help would mean making them drive for 1hour plus into Seoul and to my area. That is too much. So I declined and said I'll be fine.
yes, I am so fine. I thought what my swiss friend is doing is already really great for me and just today, she found out that I have to move out from my dorm soon. Immediately she asked if I need help and she offered to help me move! amazing. I was so shocked and really touched by her offer. This time I did not decline since she is staying around the area and I DO need help to be honest. I just feel extremely blessed to know that I have one less problem to think about (':
As for how I am able to find an alternative accommodation is really thanks to divine intervention as well. Gosh, I have so many things to be thankful for. I happened to meet a Singaporean (who spent high school in Canada) that is a full-time student in Korea University in my War and Peace class, a class which I almost did not want to take because I had rather took Global Poverty. The only reason why I did not choose Global Poverty was that there wasn't enough space for the course until days later and by then, I have already opted for War and Peace and decided to just go with it. On her part, she happened to saw my name on the class list and that I am from National University of Singapore. Immediately after the class ended, she came over to say hello and we met for a meal. Since then, we always sit together in class. Let just say that right from the beginning even before knowing me better, she offered to let me stay at her place if I need to because she has an extra room in her loft. Of course now that we know a bit of each other better, I know I won't be living/entrusting my luggages with a complete stranger for a week. Extraordinary kindness on her part to trust and offer me a room at her place for the week, for free.
Next. Today after class, my professor came to talk to me and asked if this is the first time I am experiencing winter. A swedish girl nearby heard our conversation and told me she hopes I get to see loads of snow before leaving. Professor then suggested travelling by the subway to Chuncheon (and I never knew the Seoul Metro links to Chuncheon!!) because it is more country-side there with much snow in December. Upon hearing that, my Korean friend from the same project group as me invited me to Chuncheon after the exams because that's her hometown. woah. So there, I have this as my post-exam pre-departure plan on top of my last visit to the Korean family's place, in place already :)
Lastly for the day, my closest Korean guy friend I made here who is actually on exchange as a student from New Zealand, asked me for dinner. Random conversations and catching-up follows - about my DMZ trip and other things, about his girlfriend passing the entrance exam for graduate studies in Seoul National University...and other random things. Out of the blue, we talked about friendships and he told me he thinks I am one of his closest friend who is a girl that he has. I am so touched by that for I've never expect to make such good friends abroad. When something big happened to my personal life in October, he told me this at a cafe with a reassuring pat on my shoulder, "He was good right? But life will eventually get better, so don't worry". So like a brother and exactly the same response my parents gave when they visited me. Really appreciated hearing that the day after the fateful day for he was good in his own small ways and I don't need anyone to tell me otherwise. This friend's understanding and being so brotherly + our frequent meals together or cafe time is something I will miss very much when I leave Korea.
Hopefully one day I can look forward to visiting Seoul again for his wedding with my significant other and vice versa for him. hahaha. Funny agreement that we have came up with.