Closeted Trans Man Opinions

@closetedtransmanopinions

What is says on the tin. Inspired by other closeted opinions blogs, both for trans men and other members of the lgbt community. FAQ for mobile users.

197 posts

I can't understand why my parents didn't care what gender I was when my mom was pregnant with me, and specifically didn't want to know so they got me all gender neutral clothes for, like, the first 3 years if my life, but it's not okay for me to be trans now????

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Forgetting your name a little bit bc you’re away from the people that accept you during holidays

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When you've specifically told your mum multiple times that you're trans and really want to be perceived as male but still, after years of begging, she dismisses it as a phase and you're still stuck in female school uniforms and not being allowed to buy binders.

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tfw you pass for a guy to most strangers so you can't use the women's restroom but don't want to see someone you know that you're not out to in the men's restroom. To get harassed by old ladies or have to explain your life to some random classmate??

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tfw you get gendered correctly as a guy in front of someone who you're not out to, so they correct the person who gendered you correctly

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i'm not gonna lie. I hate being trans. I'd much rather be dead.

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When your mother tells you she wanted a girl when she was pregnant and she won’t accept anything else

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I think anyone who's in the closet can relate to gradually beginning to hate the holidays because that's when you have to dress up and you have to see 'those' parts of your family

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Going to an all girls school :///

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when you can afford a binder but your mum has specifically said “you can’t bind your chest” and you can’t get a binder without her money

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sometimes i just feel like screaming into the void ya kno?

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when you can't come out in school because you're constantly afraid that you will get beat up or bullied

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When you cut your hair and finally start passing, but then your mother suddenly forces you to wear extensions 'coincidentally'

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when you're super jealous of your brother because..... yeah :/

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When you have a DD chest and can't buy a binder because your family is transphobic and makes you feel like you're faking and every time you touch your chests you feel like ripping them off and crying yourself to sleep.

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The real question is why there’s no trans guy rock artist (like against me!)

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Tfw your entire family is transphobic and all you want to do is move out but you can't because your only fifteen.

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