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[inthissweetsurrender]

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[inthissweetsurrender]

[closeyoureyesandreinventme]

Truth

[inthissweetsurrender]

[spidersexx-deactivated20150806]

[elizabethjane]

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[closeyoureyesandreinventme]

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[leohearts]

“You don’t have to tell me everything. Just don’t lie to me.”

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[closeyoureyesandreinventme]

Dealbreaker.

[weltraum-kartoffel]

Ann Marie Eleazer

[virgoslv]

[shinychic]

[dinodaddy-deactivated20221014]

Is it annoying to have a sub/lg who worries when she doesn't hear from you? Like if you made plans & then fall asleep and don't respond to her for 12 hours & she got worried & called 2 or 3 times and texted 5 times asking if you were ok, would that make you mad?

Mad? At exactly fucking what?

No, you know what? I would be mad. I’d be mad as hell that I completely failed in every conceivable way to uphold my responsibilities to my sub/little. I’d be livid with myself for making her so worried about me because I failed to make her a priority. I’d be furious that I didn’t keep my word to her by keeping my plans.

More than that, I’d be ashamed. I’d be embarrassed. I would know that I disappointed the one who means more to me than anyone else on this godforsaken planet, and that would be humiliating to me.

And when I woke up, I’d apologize like my life depended on it, beg for her forgiveness, and immediately begin trying to make things right. Because that’s what a man does. That’s what a Dom or a Daddy does. They own their failures and they fix the problem and they make sure they don’t repeat them.

[daddyandhislittleprincess11102]

This is the best response ever!

[seethesubsideofme]

👏👏👏 @dinodaddy. We should always own our mistakes. Both sides. It’s a part of communication, it’s a part of trust…it’s a part of love.

[midwestnomercy]

That’s stupid… Get a grip! Life goes on and sometimes there are extenuating circumstances….. good Lord!

[dinodaddy-deactivated20221014]

@midwestnomercy - You know, there very well may be extenuating circumstances, but those circumstances do not remove the responsibility or accountability of the Daddy/Dom from the equation, they only serve to inform the request for forgiveness from the little/sub in question.  Regardless of the extenuating circumstances, responsibilities are responsibilities, and the failure to uphold those responsibilities (as well as the failure to communicate properly with the sub/little) rests squarely on the shoulders of the Daddy/Dom in question.

When you own someone, you don’t just get to uphold your duties when you feel like it.  This is not a game we play at when it’s convenient for us.  If you don’t understand the principles of commitment, responsibility, or possess a sense of duty - if your word to your sub/little isn’t something you hold sacred, then this life isn’t the life for you.

Maybe the reason you don’t understand this is because you’re a Top, not a Dom or a Daddy - and that’s okay.  But for those of us who live this life and who do get it, such a failure is the kind of thing that haunts us.  

[closeyoureyesandreinventme]

Absolute. Fucking. Poetry.

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[russia-instagram]

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[la-pret-fille-deactivated201906]

[well-mannered-kitten]

Mine.

My property.

My toy.

My cunt.

My kitten.

Quite simply, MINE.

Thank you.

[verstarker]

My reason.

[closeyoureyesandreinventme]

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[rhsin]

She was gold

on her own

She never needed

a man

because she had herself

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[littlekitten199788]

😍♥️

[submissiveinclination]

This.

[closeyoureyesandreinventme]

Yes

[musingofapoeticsoul]

[closeyoureyesandreinventme]

Yes

[mask-13]

[my-filthy-mind-69]

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[submissivefeminist]

please, daddy??

[pleasurewhore-deactivated201802]

Respecting your limits does not equal being with you regardless of what they are.

A person can respect your limits and still choose not to be with you because of them.

You don’t want to give up control of your orgasms, don’t want to swallow, or don’t want to use an honorific (Sir, Master, etc.), that’s your choice and it’s completely valid.

You get to set your limits, but keep in mind that when someone comes along and tells you those things are a must have for them, that’s not them disrespecting you. They’re not abusive or manipulative for deciding not to pursue a relationship because your limits are essentials for them.

People have just as much of a right to their ‘musts’ as you have to your ‘wonts’.

[a-daddys-search]

Absolutely!

[instructor144]

Yes. This. Sometimes, one person’s hard limit is the other person’s must-have. If you are in that situation, the other person is not obligated to forego their must-have in order to accommodate your hard limit. In this situation, it’s a foundational incompatibility, and the two of you move on. Doesn’t require a lot of drama, doesn’t require a lot of gnashing and waling, doesn’t require showing up in my Inbox with “So he’s totally an abusive asshole for not accommodating me, right??” You just move on.